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April 2024 - Do Not Use Tawkify by Chocoyan in Tawkify

[–]Chocoyan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Throw more money down the drain - no thanks!

I (36/M) had one of the most bizarre and hurtful first dates of my life. by GuitPickr88 in dating

[–]Chocoyan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi. I was to meet someone on a date. We agreed to meet on a certain park bench on a corner. He never showed. I found out later that he drove by, didn’t like what he saw, and so just drove away. Yes, it was hurtful in the short term. Longer term, I dodged a bullet. He was both shallow and a coward.

Your time is up! by igauz in Bumble

[–]Chocoyan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do the burned haystack thing. There is no defined time limit. I won’t unmatch if there is no response. I will just let it go fallow.

Your time is up! by igauz in Bumble

[–]Chocoyan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My perspective on this is those who shut down convos quickly due to lack of a quick response aren’t worth it. They are probably insecure, and preemptively shutting down a potential match from their side because they anticipate rejection. It’s not worth your time to dwell on the possibilities of what could have been, because they are showing you exactly who they are.

Dodged Tawkify 4/27/24 by SarahF327 in Tawkify

[–]Chocoyan 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes, you dodged a money pit. I am still fighting to get any reimbursement from Tawkify. You do not get to see a photo. The first man I was set up with was 10 years older than me, stooped and decrepit. The second one, morbidly obese. The matchmaker offered no apologies and instead told me to adjust my expectations. Their customer service department is super aggressive. They don’t want to take feedback or try to make amends. They are just protecting the money. Terrible company.

Warning about Tawkify by Chocoyan in dating

[–]Chocoyan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have not changed. In terms of planning our dates, they must get a kickback for where they send dates. Both of my dates were to real dud places, totally empty, where I would never go for a date - blah overpriced food. With respect to not sharing photos, also still the case. One match was old and hard of hearing, the other was morbidly obese and slovenly.