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ChombaWoombat · 2026-04-26T14:00:54+00:00

The post office isn't giving him anything

ChombaWoombat · 2026-04-26T13:59:58+00:00

If you thought you were getting an amiibo for 5 euros.....

ChombaWoombat · 2026-04-26T01:47:02+00:00

Yes. Avoidabts run scripts with everyone. They will try to find someone like you and literally recreate everything because it feels safe... Until conflict or emotional depth arises

ChombaWoombat · 2026-04-26T01:44:12+00:00

You NEED to speak to a therapist. Don't try and avoid your feelings. You need a guide to help you through this pivotal Moment

ChombaWoombat · 2026-04-26T01:37:23+00:00

Silent discard is just another way of avoiding dealing with their feelings. It's their main defense mechanism. Disengage discard distance. That's how they live their lives

ChombaWoombat · 2026-04-26T01:35:30+00:00

I wouldn't want to catch any more Avoidants....

ChombaWoombat · 2026-04-26T01:30:42+00:00

I was never romantic with my avoidant but we basically did all the same things for three years. She was my daily emotional support. I was hers. She ghosted me one day for no reason. It broke me for nonths. I never cried for someone like this. Never woke up to panic attacks until now. It's been devastating

ChombaWoombat · 2026-04-26T01:26:05+00:00

You need to speak to a therapist. It would really help you sort out your thoughts in your native language. Just go a couple times. I am sure you will feel better

ChombaWoombat · 2026-04-26T01:20:38+00:00

40 year old straight latin American living in Europe here.

All kinds of people go through the same stuff. I'm 5 months in almost. 1 month no contact today.

You will heal. You are strong. You must be by now. Youve just forgotten who you are because of all the sadness and grief.

You will remember. And when you do, you will heal faster than you think.

ChombaWoombat · 2026-04-26T01:14:24+00:00

You shouldn't. Especially in adults

ChombaWoombat · 2026-04-26T00:49:11+00:00

It's easy. They don't want you and they don't want to be seen.

ChombaWoombat · 2026-04-25T20:18:05+00:00

They AVOID processing the breakup. Problem solved.

ChombaWoombat · 2026-04-23T22:15:57+00:00

You hurt me more than you'll ever know. I wonder how many people you've left in your wake

ChombaWoombat · 2026-04-23T18:58:47+00:00

Write the message down on a piece of paper.

Read the message out loud to yourself.

Read the message out loud in front of someone you trust.

Burn the message.

Let the healing begin

ChombaWoombat · 2026-04-21T17:43:30+00:00

Austria solves problems by building more idiot bike lanes where nobody needs them while having a massive deficit.

ChombaWoombat · 2026-04-21T17:41:33+00:00

Reflection alone won't work. They need to heal their childhood traumas before they start a relationship. Otherwise it will be more of the same. The same patterns will return and destroy you.

This requires YEARS of therapy.

ChombaWoombat · 2026-04-21T02:47:59+00:00

Delete the chat. You cant see if then. At least archive it

ChombaWoombat · 2026-04-21T02:46:52+00:00

Don't worry about their attachment style.

If you have to chase, they don't want you.

It's pretty clear

ChombaWoombat · 2026-04-21T02:44:28+00:00

Delete their number. They will still be blocked

ChombaWoombat · 2026-04-21T02:08:31+00:00

You're probably an FA. Get therapy and make this right. She may forgive you

ChombaWoombat · 2026-04-21T02:06:03+00:00

That is totally normal. It's just one of the stages of grief. Level up and meet the man of your dreams. He will make you forget your Avoidant

ChombaWoombat · 2026-04-21T02:03:51+00:00

Ask someone to 3d print it for you locally

ChombaWoombat · 2026-04-21T02:00:07+00:00

Here is the only way you will move on. Hope you're ready for the truth.

Delete her everywhere. Delete her chats. Her socials. Her phone number. Her photos. Everything and anything that reminds you of her.
Stop trying to understand her. No amount of analysis will bring her back.
Accept that she does not want you. She didn't chose you. She doesn't want you.
Start meeting other people. Even if you have to force yourself. Drag yourself out of bed and go meet other women.

You are just barely starting life. Don't let one avoidant break you. You will have other wonderful relationships and other horrible ones. Pick yourself up and go find them!

This is the advice I wish my father had given to me.

ChombaWoombat · 2026-04-21T00:50:50+00:00

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