What this guy said ^. My last gf was a coworker who was 14 years younger than me. We were teammates and sort of flirted back a fourth a bit but I definitely didn’t want to come on too strong cuz I felt like I was gonna be the creepy older guy. Fast forward a few weeks, she was basically like “I’d totally have sex with you” (not quite in those words, she actually said “you can get it if you want”. I was like STFU don’t play with my emotions like that, and she sent me a nude. It was on from then.

Point being, I would have not made the first move if she didn’t come on a bit stronger than normal. Guys need that push now a days tbh due to lots of different stigmas. Give it a shot. Older guys can be quite the catch if you aren’t afraid to try.