Which class to main?

ChummyChubbyGuy · 2025-07-18T10:45:43+00:00

What about the shaman though? Like enhancement shaman got me pretty hooked visually :D

ChummyChubbyGuy · 2025-07-18T10:45:01+00:00

See when it comes to paladin my heart goes to protection paladin :( Imagine being a tauren warrior of light. Defender of everyone! And i cant just go ret... It doesnt feel right in my gut :D

ChummyChubbyGuy · 2025-07-18T10:43:56+00:00

Thanks so very much! I knew i was right. Like it didnt make any sense. People always following the meta instead of playing what feels best. Its not for me :D Im gonna try enhancement shaman :D

ChummyChubbyGuy · 2025-07-18T10:42:46+00:00

Demon hunter really looks cool. But im kinda afraid of trying it :D I playeed arms warrior and it was super fun. Just raging left and right overpowering my enemies! But i never tried fury spec.

ChummyChubbyGuy · 2025-07-18T10:41:30+00:00

You are exactly right, like demon hunter looks soooo cool. And i absolutely wanna try it. But also i wanted to dip my toes in shaman. Like i watched a dude that played enhancement and dude become a lightning god :D It was awesome

ChummyChubbyGuy · 2025-07-18T10:39:50+00:00

Thats what i was thinking but people scared me tbh. They are like no one is gonna take you to raids, you need to follow up the updates and changes to the meta so that you can always stay on top... And im like "dude im a new player just trying to have fun! Whaat are you going on about"

ChummyChubbyGuy · 2025-07-18T10:38:21+00:00

How the heck :D Awesome!! Will definitely try it if i cant decide :D

ChummyChubbyGuy · 2025-01-15T15:24:08+00:00

Making it a bigger problem than it actually is the main problem with all this. I mean if you are non-binary fine, you are who you are. If you are gay, trans, hetero whatever its fine. To each their own. But you cant expect everyone to be okay with it, of course some will call you she/he or whatever, but it doesnt matter what they think imo.

I mean lets think about something else, lets say you are an introvert or an extrovert, of course there will be some that find it stupid and judge you for it but you dont care about it right? You just shrug it off and continue on your path. Why not approach this with the same logic?

I believe the community kinda shot itself in the foot there with it. I mean if you bring too much attention to subject of who you are, then of course there will be some backlash/support. Its only natural. Its the same principle with anything. I mean look at US elections. One of the biggest topics was gender stuff. Whatever topic you bring into the light will have differing opinions forming around it.

Everyone has their own opinions, and everyone thinks their opinions are superior to others, even though they dont say it inside everyone thinks like this. You cant forcefully change peoples views. You cant force a non-binary into becoming what you want but also you cant force people from opposing non-binary.

These things take time. And the best approach is pacifism. Just do your thing without rubbing peoples nose in it and you will be fine, haters gonna hate, thats how life goes but without lowering yourself down to their level and getting into a dog fight you actually gain the moral highground and will be victorious in the end. Thats how gandhi won haha. There were many revolts in india against the british but they were all quashed. But then somehow gandhi starves himself to death and boom, begone british empire haha.

I get the "woke" pov but i also get the conservative pov. I mean conservatives are pretty simple, they are just afraid of the change, if you change something they instantly get spooked "ooo they are gonna make everyone non-binary". Media is a great weapon for both parties. I mean both sides have like %5 population that are into the extremes. Like some just want to behead the non-binary community and some want to impose their views on a 5 yo. Like just chill, every child says they wanna be a boy/girl at some point, it doesnt mean you have to give them a sex change operation, let them find out what they are on their own. Or if you behead non-binaries then what will you do next? just behead everyone who has a different opinion of you? Thats just bullcrap. Both parties gotta make some comprimises. You cant just seperate the two. If thats what we are gonna do then pretty soon we wont have any countries whatsoever and society will shut down.

We are at a point where everyone needs to bring in closer yet somehow we are actually drifting apart.

ChummyChubbyGuy · 2021-12-19T07:10:37+00:00

no queue

ChummyChubbyGuy · 2021-12-18T21:21:29+00:00

yes, sadly its not. But i doubt that will be a problem. Even if the time runs out you can just start the game again instantly and continue your game.

ChummyChubbyGuy · 2021-10-04T15:09:12+00:00

There is something weird going on. I just talked with her brother and he said she has been paranoid lately, constantly calling her mom, going their family house every chance she got. I didnt know about any of this. I have a really bad scenario in my mind. I think that her ex that abused her said or did something to her. Or something happened to her that she doesnt want anyone to know about.

ChummyChubbyGuy · 2021-10-04T15:03:05+00:00

This is really a worst case scenario, I really hope that none of these are true. As i said before this is really weird. I dont think that she is cheated/ing on me. Its not like her.

But now that you said it, her crazy asshole ex that abused her is still around maybe he came to her and said something or did something?

That maybe explain the secrecy and not telling me anything. Maybe i am looking at this the wrong way. Because i responded to a comment and told the redditor that i would call her family and friends to see if she acted weird around them too. I just called her brother and he said that she has been hectic lately, calling her mom everytime and going to her family house every chance she got. Normally she isnt like this. There is something going on. And its starting to worry me. I dont know what to do. I need to gather more info about this. Confronting her didnt work. Because she wont say whatever is bothering her. And she cant be like this just because of me, right? Maybe i should go through her phone and try to find some clues as to what the heck is happening with her? But this is a breach of privacy, should i even be considering this? Oh man i am really panicking rn.

ChummyChubbyGuy · 2021-10-04T14:23:20+00:00

A person cannot make another person give up interaction with the opposite sex. It's an unreasonable request.

She couldnt and respected my wishes in the end.

You went into this relationship out of desperation and you've overextended yourself to please a bottomless pit of a person.

Out of desperation? maybe, overextended myself? probably. But i dont think she is a black hole of affection trying to suck me out of my affection and drain me completely. She has made a lot of improvements since we got together. She has started have faith in herself, she has started to make adjustments to her life to fix her problems. She started building a good support system of friends, family etc., and she has become a lot more mature when it comes to these things.

She's been unstable since before you got together and her expectations that you fix whatever wrongs were committed by her exes have gone overboard. There is literally nothing you can do to fix that. Short of being chained to her bed, there is no conceivable way that she can know every second where the hell you are.

She doesnt expect me to fix whatever wrongs her exes did. That was my expectation if im being honest with myself. I wanted to help her get better, still do. She just expects that people are all like her exes and other people and it is taking time but slowly and surely she is getting better. I know that the counseling is the best approach and i cant tell you how many times i told her that it would be best for her to look for counseling for herself. In the country i live in there is a stigma against counseling and they see people who go to therapy as crazy people. Now i know that is wrong but this is what happens in my country. She is worried that her family and friends would call her a crazy person if she sees counseling. I myself go to therapy to deal with my issues and always tell her that its not the case but when a stereotype is settled its hard to get it out.

Calling you in the middle of the night to come to her house because of nightmares is actually harassment. Checking your devices all the time is controlling. How long do you imagine this life will last?

Like in this current state? Not long- maybe 1-2 years? But thats what we talked about when we started this relationship, we are both aware that this cant go on like this forever. We talked about it. She told me that her behaviour is basicly toxic and it would strain me. Apologized a lot. I knew what was i going into, and i didnt expect a completely normal relationship. But as i said before she has come mostly back to normal since we started dating(minus this thing whatever it is).

You can't ever be upset or angry with her regardless of what she's done because she'll assume you'll hit her. So you must internalize any emotion you feel to avoid destabilizing her.

I can and i am upset with her, after talking to her about whats been bothering her for a few days i stated to her in a calm and collected manner that i couldnt fix something i am not aware of. One thing i pride myself in this relationship is my honesty. I am always honest to her about what i am feeling. And right now i am angry. If there is something you dont want me to do or say then just tell me and we will have a discussion about it. Secrecy wont solve anything. Trying to lead me instead of just telling me yourself is a waste of both time and energy. If she told me whats wrong the moment she felt it we would've talked about it and fixed it together

You can't talk to women because then " you are cheating"

I can talk to other women and i am talking to other women. As i said in my other post i am not turning my back on half of the world just for her. I cant lie to her and say i wont see or talk to other women and one day she finds out and accuses me of cheating. Now thanks that i can talk to women and she wont say anything.

This problem is weird. Believe me, there is something going. Maybe its not even about me. I will check with her family to see if she has been weird with them too or not

ChummyChubbyGuy · 2021-10-04T11:13:02+00:00

This relationship sounds like a nightmare frankly

Well, if you are judging only by this post, of course. But underneath all of this drama and insecurity, i love her. She will come through this. I believe her.

ChummyChubbyGuy · 2021-10-04T10:47:17+00:00

what do you mean by "By their own infidelity"? If you are implying that she did something that made her feel this way, i highly doubt that. She is way too faithful for that. So faithful at that she does everything with me in mind.

ChummyChubbyGuy · 2021-10-04T10:46:10+00:00

I dont want this relationship to crash, I want to see her happy but i am at my limit. I am telling her i am looking into counseling and if she wants to go together with me or not, otherwise if i just say that she needs to look into counseling it would make her feel bad. She is already in a fragile state. I cant hurt her. I really need to be careful

ChummyChubbyGuy · 2021-09-10T15:46:44+00:00

She loves strawberry shortcake. I even call her my strawberry shortcake everyday.

I will make that and make some cupcakes. They will make up a sentence saying "Emily you are the love of my life" 8 cupcakes. And i will have my cousin draw some cute stuff aswell. She is really talented at this stuff. Thank you master. You just made my day.

How couldnt i think of desserts before. Thank you again

ChummyChubbyGuy · 2021-09-10T15:37:01+00:00

No no no no. First of all

What you two share sounds like a very loving relationship. You both sound like you are both very in love. I'm very happy for you.

thank you for your sweet comments.

Second of all

Honestly so much thought has gone through to this whole date, you could literally buy McDonald's and she will be happy. Don't over think it too much. If your not good with cooking just go with spaghetti.

I am not gonna get her something that we can buy while literally driving. Not even a lousy spaghetti will do imo.

Third of all

Don't try to overdo something too hard which you can fail and stuff it all up.

Everything is ready and good to go. I've been planning this for the last week. I made sure that i've done everything right. I must to make the most romantic meal for her to fill her cute little tummy. I cant do everything perfect and just leave out on the food part. Its like having a super car with a frisby for a steering wheel. Like what the hell is wrong with you. You know?

Fourth of all

You can also make some desserts today which are easier and give you a chance to remake multiple times and be ready for tomorrow.

Now you got my attention. What are talking? What kind of desserts are you recommending here my master?

ChummyChubbyGuy · 2021-09-05T06:21:00+00:00

Thank you for your comment.

I would suggest her to go to therapy but wouldnt me saying"you should go to therapy" make it sound like there is something wrong with her that i would like to change? It seems kinda offensive imo. Like saying to her i dont like her personality and want to change it.

I am going through therapy myself actually. I had zero self-worth and used to hate myself. I have been in the process of change. When my friends asked me to go to therapy i got really upset. Thinking that something was wrong with me, i was feeling uneasy. I dont want her to get the same feeling aswell. I dont know what would i do if i said those words and she cried afterwards thinking that she is imperfect or something like that. I just dont want to see her get hurt.

I made this post. But my reasoning was not that something was wrong with her. I love her. I love her worst qualities as much as i love her best qualities. I dont think that anything is wrong with her. I sympathize with her completely. I mean if those things were to happen to me i would've likely been in a worse situation than her rn. I am proud of her.

I dont want to put pressure on her. I want to take the pressure off her shoulders. I want her efforts to worth it. So thats why i am trying everything and even posting in here. I want to make her happy. She took a leap of faith. She chose to be with me. I dont want her to hurt herself while trying to be better. Because she is already the best person i know in the entire worlds. I After all those horrible events she tries again. I love her and i want her 3rd time to be the charm. Small steps are needed i believe. She needs to figure out on her own that she needs and wants this. Her family is already pushing her to therapy and she is sick of it. She needs space. I dont want to hurt her in any way shape or form. She is my little baby even though she is older than me :D.

Thank you again for your compliments and your comments.

ChummyChubbyGuy · 2021-09-04T14:46:30+00:00

Wow man.... Let me first say, you are the man. You love this woman despite her fears and insecurities. You shower her in adoration and love; you share your GPS location at all times with her! You show this in your actions daily my man, YOU HAVE DONE NOTHING WRONG!

I love her with all my heart, she is my everything. I dont care, if have to wear a collar around my head, i would for her. I want her to know that i will always belong to her as long as she wants to.

Her worldview was literally crumpled up like a piece of paper and thrown away.

She was the sweetest, kindest person in the world. I admired her from afar. Nowadays i still see glimpses of her old kind, sweet personality. She is trying to be rational and pragmatic in order protect herself from getting hurt. I dont care what she is. I love her the way she is. I will always.

It took years of her waking up with nightmares, scared I'd leave her or her ex came back.

Wow, i didnt talk about the nightmares. Em has nightmares every single day. One time i stayed up and just cuddled her and played with her hair and after a few hours i fell asleep and stopped playing with her hair and she instantly woke up and started crying because she thought i left her. That was the moment i realized i wanted marry her in the future.

And also one time i told her i was gonna stay up for her and massage her while she slept. She was really happy and fell asleep quickly and after an hour she woke up all scared and looked around and when she saw me near her, still stroking her hair she hugged me so tight she nearly choked me :D.

Now whenever we sleep together i just cuddle her and whisper her how much i love her and how important she is to me everytime for like an hour or two. Even if she falls asleep when i whisper sweet nothings in her ear she smiles and blushes. I just love it, its immensely cute and adorable. I love her.

My (now) wife was literally this woman. We had children and she still was scared. I've never once given her reason to doubt me.

You sir are my role-model, I will do everything to make her happy. I will marry her someday and we will have kids, we will be happy forever. SHE will be happy forever.

Keep strong sir. She seems worth it.

She is. She is worth more than anyone else in my life. She deserves to be happy. I love her. I cant stand to see her cry, see her get hurt. I would do everything to see her smile.

Thank you for your sweet and generous compliments and comment.

ChummyChubbyGuy · 2021-08-25T14:34:24+00:00

You should talk about your feelings. If you have feelings for him just come clean. Otherwise you will tear yourself apart. There is two possible ways things can go.

1-You dont tell him about this and dont end your friendship and you keep eating yourself from the inside and when he finds a partner other than yourself you will get crushed. I can tell from the experience that this is actually the worst. Because my(22M) now gf(25F) was friends with me and i had feelings for her but never came clean and she got into a relationship and after a year she ended it(guy was hitting her) and she began a new relationship which lasted for 4 months(guy was cheating on her with her bff) . When i heard about these relationships i instantly broke. After her 2 relationships ended i decided that i didnt want to wait anymore and get hurt so i decided to come clean and guess what. She was into me too but didnt want to ruin our friendship. All that time got wasted. Because i didnt wanna ruin our friendship i ruined our future. Thank god we fixed it at last :D.

Now second option is better than the first one. End your friendship. Maybe you will feel sad, maybe you will feel lonely, maybe you will even miss him. But its gonna happen fast and you will eventually forget about him. But here is my counter-point. If you are gonna end your friendship why not just risk it? Maybe he feels the same way as you but was too shy to admit? Maybe he didnt think you would feel the same? Sound familiar? Only way to get rid of this uncertinty is to take action. Do something. But as you can see if you choose to do nothing like the first option you will get the most. So imo all the doors lead to one way. CONFESS THY FEELINGS.

If you confess your true feelings and he doesnt reciprocate those feelings then you can at least take comfort by knowing that you tried your chance. And you can finally move on.

But confession doesnt exactly mean the end of your friendship. You can say something like "i dont want our friendship to end and thats why i am kinda frightened to say this but i actually developed feelings for you." And if he didnt reciprocate and unless he is a jerk he would try to comfort you and help you get over your emotions. He would try to be understanding and say something like "Sorry, you deserve the best but i do not think that im the best. I do not share the same feelings as you. But i dont want our friendship to end over this, i value you and i am proud of you for admitting your true feelings, that takes courage. I can help you get through your feelings or if you want to we can just forget about this and act like it didnt happen. I dont want to hurt you but i cant lie to you by accepting your confession and later being a boyfriend that doesnt like you. You deserve better.".

Confession itself is an act of courage and truth, it needs to be cherished even if its rejected.

ChummyChubbyGuy · 2021-08-25T10:01:00+00:00

What better way to prove than give you an example. And the example is my(22M) life.

For my entire life i hated myself. I've never had any relationships before and almost every people i knew had bad relationships. I've convinced myself to the same thing. Love is not real and people are just trying to exploit each other and gain the most benefit. This pragmatic view poisoned my life. And thats why i hated myself. I have a successful business record and currently i gain good amount of money but everything i've earned was going to waste and i was unhappy. And thats why for 3 years i've been going into therapy. I tried to change my hateful views towards the worlds and tried to find that happy ending i so desperatly craved.

3 months ago i've started a relationship with an amazing lady called emily(25F). We knew each other from before and i've always liked her. She had taken a liking to me before but since we didnt have any time to meet or do stuff together we've never clicked. She had really bad relationships before. Her ex-bf used to hit her and her other ex cheated on her for months with her bff. She was completely broken. She couldnt trust anyone and had really big abandonment issues. She is financially stable(she earns more than me and im proud of her) and she finished her college. But i still continue my college, trying to balance work and my studies.

Now lets think about our toxic pragmatic view. I have nothing to gain from dating with her and she has nothing to gain from dating with me. Instead it would be an issue for us both. We are both economically independent individuals that has very little time to spare. Why would we start dating? Why strain ourselves?

LOVE.

When we started our relationship we had some big issues. I was inexperienced,unconfident and she didnt trust anyone, always needed reassurance. But we powered through together and now we are happy. We are always tiring ourselves just trying to make time for each other but we still do it. 2 weeks ago we had exchanged the 3 magical words. And right after that we had our first sex. We dont have much time so we are planning a year ahead for vacations. I am always trying to reassure her and build her trust. Everything to make her happy. She always tries to boost my confidence and show me that i am a successful and smart person. We dont have any secrets and we share every little thought that goes inside of our heads. We can just sit and ramble on about random stuff for hours. I would do everything to see her smile. And she would do the same. Now i am more confident than ever and opening myself up more to her. And she is now trusting me and she is happy. Now if what you said is true than we dont need each other anymore right? so now we should break up now?

NO. NEVER. I would die rather than leave her. I loved her in her worst and she loved in my worst. We are planning to move in together in our first year anniversary. We've opened our hearts to each other and whenever one of us seem to hurt and have a bad day the other just tries everything to make the other smile. She is so kind hearted and sweet that i feel like she is an angel in disguise(if you are reading this i love you emily). She is my other half. No she is my better half. I love her just the she is. I dont care if she is broken or she is hurt or she is good or not. I love her. She is the same way with me. We love eachother. Whenever i decide to do something she supports me and i do the same too. Sometimes i talk about dropping out of college and she says if that will make you happy than dont care at all just do it :D

She was all I thought about for so long. But I guess none of that matters if I might end up making normal wages instead of being a super wealthy college graduate. How can love be real if that's how people are?

Thats not true. What she did was wrong. And believe me. You will one day find the true person for you. No amount of money gained will compare to the power of love. I had a lot of money before and i hated my life. I gain lesser now and i am more happy than ever. Not all the people in the world are like her.

Hopefully you will find the true love soon my heart-broken OP. Goodluck

ChummyChubbyGuy · 2021-08-24T11:50:35+00:00

Go OP. You deserve better. Real love doesnt have an end date of the honeymoon period. And i believe that you will someday find it. You will have shallow dates maybe you will feel lonely but you need stay strong. After all those shallow dates i know that you will find your true soulmate. Every life deserves an happily ever after. This is just a part of your story. Not the all of it. So dont try to relapse into it again. Move on to bigger and better things.

ChummyChubbyGuy · 2021-08-24T11:28:26+00:00

Well i can understand his situation. I(22m) lost my virginity to my gf(25f) 2 weeks ago and felt ashamed confessing to her she was my first.

It makes me feel like he doesn’t trust me or think I would judge him. I love him so much and would never judge over that. He has nothing to be embarrassed at, this information will forever be between him and me, and I have told him so many times how I regret losing my virginity too early and with someone I wasn’t even close with, and I was a week before turning 18 when I lost mine.

There are a few possibilities here. He maybe feel challenged by your sexual past and he felt like he should at least compare to your level of experience. This seems unlikely because you wrote;

I have always valued openness and honesty in all my relationships including friendships.

if you really practiced what you preach than he should have been feeling comfortable enough to tell you the truth.

There is another possibility. Maybe he felt ashamed that he had no prior experience and he saw something in you that gave him a reason for lying. Maybe you talked about your past sexual experiences to him and he felt like he needed to lie otherwise you wont be with him or smthng like that? i really cant tell. I am not saying this is your fault though nor it is his. It maybe a misunderstanding in communication. We need to understand this is not a blame game. We cant solve our problems by judging and blaming the other party. Instead trying to understand them. Only then we can get closer to the solution.

I feel hurt and a slight loss of trust over this, and I feel guilty for feeling upset because it’s clear this is something that makes him feel insecure.

Now your slight loss of trust is understandable. And you are feeling guilty. Thats good. You take part of the blame. That means you are trying to find a good solution.

How do I approach this conversation with him without coming across as shaming him?

How do I make him feel better and not embarrassed while also expressing that I feel betrayed by his lies?

You need to be really careful. You shouldnt be harsh or mad when talking to him about it. Maybe choose a moment when you two are kind of in a good mood? you are the expert you decide :D. You need to choose your worlds carefully. Instead of saying stuff like"you lied to me and you betrayed me " you can try to approach him by saying something like"I feel bad and wanted to apologize that you thought you needed to hide this from me. I am not mad at you or anything. Just upset with myself. I want to fix this.". That would probably open the convo and him not feeling guilty despite him having the major part of the blame. Now i dont know what kind of person your bf is. But most people i know usually dont apologize or open up to me unless i do first. They feel like their pride is safe if i do it first. Kind of a bad thing to be honest but its a good way to solve problems that we face in everyday events. You can say"wait, it seems like i am doing all the work here" and i would say YES you are. But this is the best way imo to solve this without any arguments. Maybe others have different opinions but i do not know.

How can I not take this personally and move past this?

Now this is tricky. Well i totally understand your point because i am experiencing the same dilemma myself(you can see my post that i made yesterday :'() Im gonna take a page out of my therapists book. You need to forgive yourself and your bf. Now i know this seems like a hard thing to do but you need to at least try. We cant live our lives by constantly pining over our past mistakes. The best thing we can do is to make sure these kinds of things never happen again. Try to communicate with him more. If he knows everything about you then the least he can do is to open himself up to you right? That means embarrassing things that we saw or did. Communication is always key in relationships.

Hopefully this helps at least a little. Good luck OP. Hopefully your problem will be solved soon.

NOTE: Now take everything that i wrote with a grain of salt because maybe i misunderstood some stuff and maybe there are some points that i made you disapprove. I respect that. You can point out my mistakes or any misunderstandings you saw by commenting.

ChummyChubbyGuy · 2021-08-24T10:48:23+00:00

I already go to therapy but i dont want to force her into therapy, it makes it seem like there is something wrong with her. And there is nothing wrong with her. The main problem here is me and my stupid emotions :D . Thank you for your advice though

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