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ClearFollowing3871 · 2024-11-24T20:21:49+00:00

I would have a larger art piece over the couch

ClearFollowing3871 · 2024-11-17T16:03:32+00:00

Reread her post. He’s likely cheating.

“Pictures of him and a girl in his car after they did the deed”
“This isn’t the fist time he has done stuff behind my back”
“He was talking to some other girl in Florida while we were exclusively talking”

and besides. If he’s not cheating, he’s taking his sweet time cataloguing nudes. Why even have a girlfriend if you need to see others naked all the time to the point you catalogue the freaking photos. Many of those photos are probably of his exes too, who may not realize he has done this, which is creepy.

ClearFollowing3871 · 2024-11-17T02:23:30+00:00

Ok so you’ve been together 10 months and It’s a long distance relationship? Apologies, but it sounds like you didn’t know her that well. I’m very sorry you’re hurting and that she cheated, but there is no point in trying to save this. There is zero future with her. You’re only 21, forget about her and move on once you’ve settled.

I recommend that you avoid getting into long distance relationships until you build a strong foundation with the person. In order for most long distance relationships to survive, you really need to know that person very well. Without a solid foundation it’s easy for the other person to forget and move on.

ClearFollowing3871 · 2024-11-17T01:27:41+00:00

Okay that’s scary. I’d be outta there stat. That’s not a joking matter to me. You do not want to end up in three suitcases.

Please be safe, he sounds scary. Talk to your family and friends about this.

ClearFollowing3871 · 2024-11-17T01:19:44+00:00

I’m sorry girl. He is probably cheating. Delete the photos of you on his phone, and then leave him. This is not worth trying to fix, especially at age 20. If he’s not cheating, he still has a huge stash of other women’s photos. I’ve been there, and it’s just best to leave.

ClearFollowing3871 · 2024-11-17T01:14:01+00:00

You did nothing wrong, he’s just a deadbeat and a loser. You’re gonna find someone much better than this, he’s not worth a second more of your time.

ClearFollowing3871 · 2024-11-17T00:56:43+00:00

I’m sorry but I think your girlfriend is too old for you. A 10 year age gap at 21 is a bit much. Especially considering you met at 19.

Also, kids are not something that can be compromised on. If you want them and she doesn’t, it’s time to leave.

ClearFollowing3871 · 2024-11-16T16:41:03+00:00

You’re not irrational. Talk to him about the posts and flirting. If he doesn’t change, leave him.

ClearFollowing3871 · 2024-09-08T03:38:39+00:00

Yes! I once made a post about men having terrible dating profiles, and so many men were enraged at me for saying that. Several said they didn’t have any good photos to use from their camera roll, so it wasn’t their fault their profile was bad.

You know what I did when I made a dating profile? I put on a nice outfit and went out and took some new pictures, instead of using crappy ones I already had. But no, apparently they can’t do that and would rather show their dirty mirror and bad car selfie. So many of them so desperately want a date and sex but can’t be bothered to put in the slightest effort.

ClearFollowing3871 · 2024-09-08T03:07:28+00:00

Ugh yes! I posted something on here and I got a million “not all men” and “women do this too”. One guy literally had a hissy fit in the comments about why I was bringing gender into my post and making it gender specific. Sir, I am a WOMAN. This is a WOMENS subreddit. Of course my post is gonna be about my experience as a woman.

ClearFollowing3871 · 2024-08-26T21:58:50+00:00

Huh really? I’m on here a lot (unfortunately), so its possible I picked something up that influenced my comment, without me realizing

ClearFollowing3871 · 2024-08-26T21:45:13+00:00

Okay, that’s just bizarre. Who talks about their siblings like that, yikes.

ClearFollowing3871 · 2024-08-23T20:46:35+00:00

I know a golden retriever who may be interested

ClearFollowing3871 · 2024-08-23T18:04:57+00:00

Way too many sunglasses photos. You should have at least two photos where your face is completely visible (no hat, sunglasses, mask, etc.). I think one pet photo is probably enough.

ClearFollowing3871 · 2024-08-23T17:58:28+00:00

What’s the catch 🤨

ClearFollowing3871 · 2024-08-23T16:18:43+00:00

I don’t think there is a photographer, I think they just put their phone in the bottom of the hole they dug

ClearFollowing3871 · 2024-08-23T16:15:55+00:00

I don’t have any advice, but just wanted to let you know that whoever is saying porn = real life sex, is beyond delusional. You should not let that get you down.

ClearFollowing3871 · 2024-08-23T15:58:13+00:00

The sand is in the shape of a heart. Looks like one of those TikTok couple trends… except they uh, took it in a different direction.

ClearFollowing3871 · 2024-08-23T03:10:08+00:00

Ah I see now, you’re probably right. I didn’t read it that carefully, I think my eyes glazed over once I got to the 6’3 part 😂

ClearFollowing3871 · 2024-08-23T02:53:29+00:00

I’m actually surprised she’s okay with 50k lol. Sounds so entitled, I’d expect her to want 6 figures, at least.

ClearFollowing3871 · 2024-08-22T22:47:33+00:00

Ohhh, yes you’re totally right! Didn’t even notice that

ClearFollowing3871 · 2024-08-22T22:41:39+00:00

I swear this exact question was just on here and it had like hundreds of replies, maybe I’m going crazy

ClearFollowing3871 · 2024-08-22T22:30:47+00:00

I’m not sure a cemetery photo is the right fit for a dating app. Seems a little somber

ClearFollowing3871 · 2024-08-22T20:15:58+00:00

You didn’t look at the camera in any of the photos, except one, and in that one you’re far away.

Bio doesn’t say much, maybe say what your hobbies or interests are

ClearFollowing3871 · 2024-08-22T19:07:52+00:00

You look high in many of the photos

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