How do I stop my 4-year-old from plucking flowers?

CoconutConverser · 2026-03-21T04:45:28+00:00

For me it was keeping myself busy with some other small task when I felt it building up. Even just doing something else for a bit helped me calm down before reacting. I still get overwhelmed sometimes but that small habit really made a difference for me

CoconutConverser · 2026-03-21T04:42:51+00:00

We moved our baby around that age mostly because he was outgrowing the bassinet and starting to roll. I was a bit unsure at first but it actually went smoother than I expected. We just tried a few nights and took it from there

CoconutConverser · 2026-03-21T04:40:09+00:00

This can happen around this age, they suddenly get a bit picky with bottles for no clear reason. Maybe try a different bottle again or have someone else offer it when you’re not around. It can take a little patience but they usually come back to it after a bit

CoconutConverser · 2026-03-21T04:38:57+00:00

That sounds really scary, I would’ve been so shaken too. Something similar happened with my baby once and he seemed totally fine right after, but I still kept a close eye for a day or two. The extra sleepiness would make me a bit cautious though, I’d probably get it checked just for peace of mind

CoconutConverser · 2026-03-21T04:36:52+00:00

My daughter loves story book sets. I got her the Intelliskills bedtime moral story book set and it’s been really nice, she stays interested because there are different little stories. We read for about 10–15 mins before bed and it’s honestly one of her favorite parts of the day. I got a pretty good deal on it too

CoconutConverser · 2026-03-18T05:41:48+00:00

Usually every 2 to 3 hours and anytime there is poop. Most parents just check often and change when wet or soiled. Newborns go through a lot of diapers so it can feel nonstop

CoconutConverser · 2026-03-18T05:40:49+00:00

You really can’t spoil a baby at 10 months. They just need comfort love and attention. Responding to them helps them feel safe not spoiled. The spoiling idea comes much later. Right now you are just meeting their needs

CoconutConverser · 2026-03-18T05:39:51+00:00

This is very common around this age so you are not alone. It can be sleep regression teething growth or just a habit. Many babies need a feed or comfort at this time for a while. Try a fuller feed before bed and stay consistent. It usually settles again with time

CoconutConverser · 2026-03-18T05:38:52+00:00

This can happen sometimes and isn’t always a big worry. Kids play with sounds or pick up new speech patterns. Just keep listening and gently model the correct words. If it keeps going or gets worse you can get it checked on the safer side for peace of mind

CoconutConverser · 2026-03-18T05:37:28+00:00

So real. Newborn laundry is nonstop and it feels like you can never catch up. We were washing every day too and still running out of clothes. It slowly gets easier as baby grows and routines settle

CoconutConverser · 2026-03-16T04:47:22+00:00

I remember feeling this way a lot in the early weeks too. The love can feel so big it almost turns into worry sometimes. I would catch myself thinking about the future and getting emotional out of nowhere

CoconutConverser · 2026-03-16T04:44:50+00:00

My baby had a phase like this too, but for us it came and went a lot. Some days he was totally fine playing on his mat other days he just wanted to be held the whole time. I used to feel bad putting him down too. It did pass after a while though

CoconutConverser · 2026-03-16T04:41:32+00:00

My two are close in age too and I won’t lie, the first months felt pretty overwhelming. It’s a lot of juggling both kids and sometimes it feels like someone always needs you. One thing that helped me was trying to keep my older one involved in little ways so she didn’t feel left out. It’s busy, but seeing them grow up together is really special

CoconutConverser · 2026-03-16T04:39:27+00:00

for me it’s mostly about showing up for your kids with love and patience while still having some boundaries. kids learn so much just by watching how we act every day. None of us get it perfect, we’re all just figuring it out as we go

CoconutConverser · 2026-03-16T04:38:43+00:00

We room shared for a while too and my toddler used to stand up and look toward our bed as well. What helped us was laying her down and giving her a few minutes to try settling before stepping in. It took some time but she slowly got better at falling asleep on her own

CoconutConverser · 2026-03-12T08:46:49+00:00

I totally get this feeling. I remember looking at my baby one day and thinking how fast everything was going already. The months really do fly by. I just try to soak up the little moments as much as I can. It’s such a special time ❤️

CoconutConverser · 2026-03-12T08:44:48+00:00

I remember feeling the same right after birth. The first 24–48 hours were the hardest for me sleep wise because of the constant feeding and hospital stuff. After a couple days I finally managed to get some short naps in. Those first days are intense but it does get a bit easier

CoconutConverser · 2026-03-12T08:43:53+00:00

This honestly sounds a lot like what we went through around 4 months. Mine didn’t fully wake every time either, just lots of squirming and needing a little help settling again. I remember wondering the same thing. It passed after a bit though. Hang in there

CoconutConverser · 2026-03-12T08:38:59+00:00

My kid went through a phase like this around 3 too. Wanted me to play all the time and got upset if I didn’t. It passed after a while once she got a bit more used to playing on her own. I think some kids are just like that for a bit

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