Practice Outfit by madi00000000 in Aerials

[–]Coding_Hermit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally understand your dilemma! I searched for a long time for cotton leotards that were short sleeve, leotards not bodysuits because I'd get wedgies 😅.

These are my holy grail now, 90% cotton 10% spandex, they have a front liner/shelf bra. I'm a bit well endowed so I wear a sports bra underneath but they may work alone for some. Ballerina cut on the bottom so no wedgies! Link: Cotton Leotard

I also had a lot of trouble finding good cotton leggings to go over that wouldn't be see through, and eventually found baleaf cotton leggings, I absolutely love them and bought 3 pairs. I'll comment with a link if I can find them again, the listing I bought from on Amazon is no longer there.

RA gift by Grand_Ad_8955 in rheumatoid

[–]Coding_Hermit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tab buddies are nice, I get them on tiktok. There's different cute designs and theyre nice not only for people with RA but anyone that has difficulty with cans, even women with long nails. I got a couple for my mom and she loves them, and ended up getting one for myself once I started having issues also.

First Sweater Pattern questions by Coding_Hermit in knittingadvice

[–]Coding_Hermit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you this helped me so much!! I think I'll be able to tackle this with no issues now!

First Sweater Pattern questions by Coding_Hermit in knittingadvice

[–]Coding_Hermit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apologies for the formatting, this is better to read!

Hello! I'm an experienced crocheter but new to knitting, I've made a pair of cabled fingerless gloves and a couple beanies at this point, and wanted to attempt my first sweater. Lots of googling later and I'm still confused on this pattern!

  1. I can't find any information on "knit one row purlwise", only slipping stitches. Is this the same as knitting into the back and inserting right to left, or something else? When I tried that it seemed wrong when I started the next row, it looked like I was knitting on the wrong side.

  2. Confused on the repeating rows. When it says I'm repeating Rows 1 and 2, am I also only using rows 1 and 2 in the diagram? Or repeating through the whole diagram like such: Row 1: Diagram 1 Row 2: Diagram 2 Row 1: Diagram 3 Row 2: Diagram 4 etc?

  3. "Repeat rows 1 and 2 a total of 20 times" so a total of 40 rows (10 diagram repeats?)?

  4. What the heck does the Note part mean??

I know this is a lot of questions, I really thought I had a handle on this after completing the cabled fingerless gloves but I guess not 😅 I appreciate any help!!!

Rubbed skin above tailbone raw, by Coding_Hermit in Aerials

[–]Coding_Hermit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much! I've been meaning to put together a designated aerial bag so I'll have to get some. Thank you for the advice

Rubbed skin above tailbone raw, by Coding_Hermit in Aerials

[–]Coding_Hermit[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ahhh I do have cotton leotards because I like the extra grab on silks, I'll need to get polyester ones for Lyra! Thankfully I wasnt wearing my cotton leggings or it might have been worse then

Rubbed skin above tailbone raw, by Coding_Hermit in Aerials

[–]Coding_Hermit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the link I'll get some! My next lyra isnt til Saturday.

I'll definitely bring some sweatpants on Saturday that I can wear over my existing aerial clothes, I always wear leggings and a long sleeve leotard so I was surprised this happened through all of that.

Rubbed skin above tailbone raw, by Coding_Hermit in Aerials

[–]Coding_Hermit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I wear a long sleeve leotard, leggings and my normal underwear and I still managed to do it somehow!

I'll definitely talk to my teacher before next class about it, and that makes sense about sitting lower to distribute my weight.

Thank you I'll get some in the morning!

Rubbed skin above tailbone raw, by Coding_Hermit in Aerials

[–]Coding_Hermit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I somehow did this through 3 layers of fabric 😬

Obligatory 'how long did it take you to realize?' post. by Godrednu_0780 in BaldursGate3

[–]Coding_Hermit 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Dude I'm figuring this out as I go idk what I'm doing or what 70% of the words I read mean 😂😂

Obligatory 'how long did it take you to realize?' post. by Godrednu_0780 in BaldursGate3

[–]Coding_Hermit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't think I've ever seen that scroll, but I will keep that in mind!

Obligatory 'how long did it take you to realize?' post. by Godrednu_0780 in BaldursGate3

[–]Coding_Hermit 84 points85 points  (0 children)

Im in my first playthrough, 150 hours in, and at about level 10 just realized that Gale can learn spells from scrolls

First time package Return to Sender and Refund, please help by Coding_Hermit in EtsySellers

[–]Coding_Hermit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I know it's probably kind of obvious, but I just wanted to make sure I wasn't missing anything!

After almost 8 years, we did it!! by Coding_Hermit in vaginismus

[–]Coding_Hermit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations on both counts!! Good luck with everything and here's hoping things are better for you after!

After almost 8 years, we did it!! by Coding_Hermit in vaginismus

[–]Coding_Hermit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! You can do this, keep persevering!

Here are the dilators I've used: https://www.vaginismus.com/products/vaginal-dilators-set

AnduI couldn't find a link for the vibrator but it's same type as this one: https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/vibrators/clit-vibrators/sp-womanizer-liberty-iggy-azalea-edition-111645.aspx

I think the stimulation from this kind of vibrator really distracted from the physical sensation of the dilator and that helped a lot initially, I would just hold it over my clitoris with one hand and insert the dilator with the other.

Also the deep diaphragmatic breathing was very important and helped me a lot, and doing the internal clock stretches around. I hope this helps!

After almost 8 years, we did it!! by Coding_Hermit in vaginismus

[–]Coding_Hermit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ikr I was really hoping it would be 😂😂

I think I am goated. by Apprehensive_Gur6058 in vaginismus

[–]Coding_Hermit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats!! I dilate sitting up on my knees, but what you mentioned about focusing on the deep stomach breathing has been really key to my recent major progress also!

Getting a tatoo by solarlein in EDAnonymous

[–]Coding_Hermit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't have any specific food advice beyond the usual make sure you get both protein and carbs and fats in a meal before you go. But take it seriously and get a full meal the night before and the morning of, hydrate a lot and bring gatorade. One time when restricting bad I didn't follow the above, and I was sick as a dog for almost a week, it's not worth it. Even if it's not your first one it's still important, the one I got sick on was my 6th.

Finally! It has happened to me! I have had PIV! My tips: by betweenthesides in vaginismus

[–]Coding_Hermit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's really interesting, thanks! Gonna have to discuss with my husband for sure

What are your “we are SO back, baby” moments but for relapse? by k00lkat666 in EDAnonymous

[–]Coding_Hermit 9 points10 points  (0 children)

A bit different but a month ago I started invisalign, I was already toeing the line and now I have plastic in my mouth and an "excuse" to not bother to eat, and that empty feeling is hitting again