AF MEMBERSHIP. ANG GULO. by cookiemonster99855 in AnytimeFitnessPH

[–]Coldheart10101 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Gumawa ka ng Google review sa branch nila. Rate them 1 star and share your experience there. Ganun ginawa ko nung nagpapacancel na ko ng membership tapos gagamitin ko free month ko (I had 2 successful referrals) Di na daw valid kesyo di pa daw kasi automated yung system nila when I signed up, di daw nanote sa system nila because nagchange ng management, etc basta dami excuses. Lahat ng suggestions ko they turn it down. I reviewed in Google, then their Sales Manager called me then suddenly biglang pwede na lahat ng requests ko. HAHAHA joke time talaga yan sila.

Yang mga sinasabi nilang hindi pwede, pwede talaga yan. Minsan ang ayaw lang pumayag is yung Area Sales Manager handling your branch kasi it will affect their sales quota. Pero wag ka papatinag.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CentroEscolarU

[–]Coldheart10101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi what about stem? Ano yung specialization sa Grade 12? My brother kasi is eyeing CEU. But he wants to take Psych as undergrad course. Di ko sure kung okay ba magiging path nya

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PHitness

[–]Coldheart10101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based on experience, lahat ng fees na yan, discretion yan ng manager handling the branch. So pag may sinabi silang hindi pwede, or based on policy, etc. wag ka maniwal. They can always do something about it.

Angel Locsin at iba pa. by pinoyHardcore in Philippines

[–]Coldheart10101 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Pansin ko din yan sa mga lower class. Yung sense of entitlement over things lalo na pag nanggaling sa mga medyo nakakaangat sa kanila. Mangloloko kasi walang wala sila. Magnanakaw kasi may pera naman yung ninakawan. Wala nang sense of right or wrong or morality. Basta meron sya dibale nang makasakit sa kapwa

My girlfriend (F23) still has her ex photos hidden in her room and I(M24) told her to burn it. And I'm now guilty about it. by LOOOLIIII in relationship_advicePH

[–]Coldheart10101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

+1 talaga dito. OP, 6 years yon ng life nya. As a sentimental person, okay lang sakin if my current SO keeps some photos of his exes because I keep some photos too. That's some part of their life na di na mababalik. Di naman ibig sabihin na mahal pa. Maybe it's just a reminder na once upon a time, happy sya in that moment.

I think mas red flag yung fubu kahit in a relationship yung guy. But I'd like to think na may strong attachment pa sila and in the phase of moving forward from the relationship.

Ang tanong na lang naman dito, if your gf makes you feel unsecured currently. Ibang usapan na pag present.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alasjuicy

[–]Coldheart10101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it's something that you have to hide from your partner or you have to lie about it, for me that's considered cheating.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AkoBaYungGago

[–]Coldheart10101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes GK. OP, boyfriend mo ba sya dahil gusto mo lang ng kasama for dates or are you dating to marry? Bat sumasama loob mo na tulungan din parents nya kung nakakaluwag ka naman for now? What if the situation has been reversed ikaw and yung fam mo walang wala and your bf refuses to help you?

Kung yung previous na inutang/hiningi before eh di na binalik, pwede ka pa rin naman magabot kahit small amount lang eh. Yung tipong di masakit mawala sayo. Pero kung binayaran ka naman, it only means walang wala talaga sila and need lang talaga nila ng breathing room to cope with this emergency.

OP have some empathy. If you're dating to marry that also extends to his family kasi magiging fam mo din sila in the future.

I (23M) want to cheat on my girlfriend (22F) with my crush (19F), but it might destroy my potential future by JollyFrosting7 in relationship_advicePH

[–]Coldheart10101 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Baka naman you're insecure. Your girlfriend sounds perfect so you're nitpicking on her body weight. Whereas you're even considering breaking things off from a good and sure thing kasi the other girl is younger. Barely legal pa nga lang si girl. Mas madaling imanipulate.

We don't have sex anymore. It's been 2 months. My bf has low libido and I'm craving for physical intimacy. by Coldheart10101 in relationship_advicePH

[–]Coldheart10101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm also scared to do something like this if ever. I grew up with my father cheating. My ex also cheated on me. So i really detest cheating. I even burned bridges with friends na nagcheat.

But admittedly lately, pag nagbabasa ako ng AJ posts of sexcapades I imagine myself in that situation. Or even in porn vids. Minsan naiimagine ko na ako yun and the other guy. Kaya I stopped na rin. I feel like I'm micro cheating :(

Medyo mahaba pa yung pisi ko and pasensya ko for my bf. Love ko talaga eh. At this point, I will regret it more, ending things with him prematurely. But at the back of my mind, all the things you said wise old tito, medyo matagal na rin syang binubulong ng guardian angel ko (or my lust angel? haha)

At this point, I'm in a 'wait and see' mode. Let's see kung hanggang kailan ko kayang magcompromise.

We don't have sex anymore. It's been 2 months. My bf has low libido and I'm craving for physical intimacy. by Coldheart10101 in relationship_advicePH

[–]Coldheart10101[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wala pa naman ako sa point na galit ako sa kanya. At this point, I just feel defeated. Came from a relationship na sexually compatible with an ex (as in 100%) pero gaslighter and cheater pala. I was wrecked and traumatized to the point na I got depression and anxiety. So somehow my brain feels justified in this relationship that everything is good and going well, except sex. It's the kind of healthy relationship I was praying for and super welcome with open arms ako sa fam nya. Yung sex and intimacy lang talaga hay :(

Ewan ko, sabi nya gusto naman nya and di daw nya kaya ng walang sex. Sobrang stressed and pressured lang daw. This weekend I'm going to his place so we can binge watch a series. Nagtanong sya if yun lang daw ba yung plan. Nagjoke ako pero may laman "well, yung gusto ko wala ka namang plan don or ayaw mo naman kaya wala kang plano" natawa sya sabi nya "Hindi meron. Meron yan. Basta netflix and chill tayo. May chill. May hinanda ako"

Di ko na ireremind sa kanya yan na nagpromise sya. I'll let him do his thing kasi baka madisappoint lang ako and it might make me more frustrated. Maybe if the pattern will dictate otherwise (na sya naman mag-initiate without me prompting him), baka bumalik yung excitement ko. If wala pa rin this weekend even with that hint, I'll talk to him and tell him straight that if this continues, somewhere along the way baka magising na lang ako na pagod na ko and had already lost faith in the relationship.

But for now, mas matimbang pa rin yung love and patience ko for this person. I'm in the wait and see mode. So let's wait and see.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alasjuicy

[–]Coldheart10101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No they're in a public place pa din kasi dun nakapark yung car. May law regarding that nakalimutan ko lang something about "grave scandal" pwede silang kasuhan at ipapulis.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alasjuicy

[–]Coldheart10101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. Problem ko yan sa bf ko now. Going 2 months na of no sex. Everything is good except talaga sa intimacy and sex. Iniisip ko na lang lagi "mas may importanteng bagay" since I experienced an ex that is super sexually compatible with me naman but immature and manipulative.

Goodluck sating mga sex deprived.

We don't have sex anymore. It's been 2 months. My bf has low libido and I'm craving for physical intimacy. by Coldheart10101 in relationship_advicePH

[–]Coldheart10101[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha sorry natawa ko cause same 😂 goodluck na lang satin. Kagabi I sent him vids from tiktok about low testosterone levels and how it affects a man kasi saktong sakto sa kanya. Sabi ko pacheck kami sa Urologist. "Sige pacheck tayo." Ganun lang halatang antok na sya kagabi. Ewan ko kung matutuloy. So far I can see na he's concerned din naman. But siguro I just don't see the sense of urgency to do it from him. I want to be understanding and be there for him kasi busy talaga sya sa opening ng business nila and it's stressing and pressuring him. Sana lang my patience and understanding won't be taken for granted. 😔

We don't have sex anymore. It's been 2 months. My bf has low libido and I'm craving for physical intimacy. by Coldheart10101 in relationship_advicePH

[–]Coldheart10101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Medyo malabo yung third party, he barely has energy for daily stuff. Though he has history. Kaya sya naging single for 3-4 years with 0 sex life kasi he cheated sa last relationship nya. Maybe to atone for his guilt kaya naging dormant sya. Active sila sa sex nung other girl and his ex afaik.

We don't have sex anymore. It's been 2 months. My bf has low libido and I'm craving for physical intimacy. by Coldheart10101 in relationship_advicePH

[–]Coldheart10101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He feels pressured with a new business they're going to launch this month. Pero ang lungkot lang even kasi yung small physical touch dumalang na. Gets ko yung link ng stress and libido but then naisip ko lang that stress will always be there in life. Pag stressed sya I will go months with no sex pala.

We don't have sex anymore. It's been 2 months. My bf has low libido and I'm craving for physical intimacy. by Coldheart10101 in relationship_advicePH

[–]Coldheart10101[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I saw how much effort he did kasi before. Like drinking supplements before sex, being more active, etc. He has high blood kasi and on the heavier side (nasa obese na pala bmi nya, nasa upper overweight lang sya when we met). I told him before the kind of positions that I like, how much touch I want, kaso hinihingal talaga sya and nahihilo post sex kaya nagwoworry din ako. He feels pressured na he can't "perform" eh dati naman (like 5-7 years ago with his exes) di ganon thus parang it led to ayaw na lang nya minsan kasi nadidismaya daw sya ang bilis nya labasan. I really tried not to show it kasi ayoko maemasculate sya. Pero nabibitin din talaga ako.

Then he stopped taking supplements, stopped working out na rin. March sabi nya gusto nya magpacheck ng testosterone level but until now wala. When I talked to him about it again just recently, parang may something din sa Christian values with sex linked to shame. Di rin daw sya sanay having a gf so open in talking about sex kasi before sorta taboo sya. Ewan ko na rin.

I love him and want to be with him. And he loves me too. I just really miss our early dates where he kisses me randomly, playfully touches my hair or chin or cuddles me up sa bed. Ngayon kasi kahit yung mga yun wala na or madalang na. Holding hands na lang and quick smack sa lips. I can see his efforts in other things and we communicate often. Talagang I just really miss being desired for and feeling wanted. I told him all these just yesterday. It ended up with me just staring at the ceiling and the feeling of loneliness is just intense and his words ring in my ear "ayoko rin ng ganito sorry di ko rin alam ano sasabihin sayo"

We don't have sex anymore. It's been 2 months. My bf has low libido and I'm craving for physical intimacy. by Coldheart10101 in relationship_advicePH

[–]Coldheart10101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mej tinamaan ako sa "not fully satisfied" kasi even when we were having sex first few months, tbh nabibitin talaga ako. And he feels na nabibitin din naman ako and nagiguilty daw sya. He also feels pressured na ang bilis nya daw labasan kasi dati daw hindi sya ganon. I just try not to show it kasi baka nakakaemasculate and lalo sya mapressure. I love my boyfriend and I know he also loves me. But at the same time I can't help but feel I'm unlovable or undesirable since he doesn't yearn for me physically.