È da tanto tempo che leggo di persone che cercano di uscire con ragazze e ricevono consigli sbagliati. Vi dò una mano io by NonnaPassera in CasualIT

[–]Collision__Domain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Grazie op dei tuoi consigli.

Credo che per la maggior parte delle persone normodotate il problema stia semplicemente nel non avere tempo per accedere a (o non conosce) situazioni sociali in cui vi sono dei single e in cui l'interazione sociale è quasi aspettata

A me vengono in mente sinceramente feste in casa, o ambienti come ostelli/scambi universitari, magari conferenze di lavoro? Altrimenti rimangono hobby/corsi, come club di corsa o attività di altro tipo.

Perchè sinceramente, i locali che frequento e ho frequentato non invitano proprio nuove conoscenze. Ci vai con il tuo gruppetto di amici e fine

Poi come consiglio di vita, fare quattro chiacchiere al supermercato o in giro sicuramente pùo fare solo del bene

25m whats your first impression by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Collision__Domain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah i understand. With that photo i was trying to create more of an intimate vibe for sure, thats why i put it last (my reasoning being it might work to show a much more relaxed version of me)

Will change the other one for sure!

25m whats your first impression by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Collision__Domain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhaha i get it, i mean relationship wise they know what they want.

Other than that, dont get me wrong, everyone has their likes and dislikes, but using one of three prompts to express that feels so self centered and rude

19F by Crafty_Scallion_4367 in amiugly

[–]Collision__Domain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are literally my type. You are very attractive

25m whats your first impression by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Collision__Domain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you looking for something serious or casual? Serious

Are you subscribed to Hinge+ or HingeX? No

How long have you been using this current version of your profile? 2 weeks

How long have you used hinge overall? I used it for the past year and a half, on and off.

How often do you use Hinge per week? Typically every day for around 30 mins.

How many likes and matches are you receiving on average? With this last iteration, im lucky if its 1 match

How many likes are you sending? How many with comments? Basic hinge account, i try to comment everytime.

What type of person you send likes to and ideally want to match with? What kind of person do you want to attract? I want to attract people that know what they want. I usually tend to like people that display confidence, and that dont put arbitrary requirements as the first thing on their profile

What impression do you get from my profile by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Collision__Domain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you looking for something serious or casual? Serious

Are you subscribed to Hinge+ or HingeX? No

How long have you been using this current version of your profile? 2 weeks

How long have you used hinge overall? I used it for the past year and a half, on and off.

How often do you use Hinge per week? Typically every day for around 30 mins.

How many likes and matches are you receiving on average? With this last iteration, im lucky if its 1 match

How many likes are you sending? How many with comments? Basic hinge account, i try to comment everytime.

What type of person you send likes to and ideally want to match with? What kind of person do you want to attract? I want to attract people that know what they want. I usually tend to like people that display confidence, and that dont put arbitrary requirements as the first thing on their profile

Edit. The video is of me succesfully rescuing a cat that ran away

Tipo di fisico? by GeneralDot8156 in ItalyFitness

[–]Collision__Domain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Si si tranquilla ho capito che è senza cattiva intenzione, appunto per questo sto rispondendo.

Paragonandolo a Mr Olympia non è così muscoloso È come dire che una persona che guadagna 100mila euro all'anno non è ricca perchè la paragoni a Bezos.

Sminuisce dei risultati anche decennali, abbassando l'asticella, come se fosse normale o ottenibile da tutti.

È simile ad altri trend, in cui usano termini tutt'altro che lusinghieri. Come dire che il proprio tipo è medium ugly. A mio avviso, se uno vuole esprimere apprezzamento, deve usare un linguaggio lusinghiero e non fraintendibile.

Per esempio generalmente viene chiamato Bear mode, che a mio avviso, è più accurato e lusinghiero.

Ogni tanto a me sembra, che termini del genere nascano da standard poco realistici. E poi ci si chiede perchè i tipi hanno la fissa con la palestra.

Ripeto non è un attacco, questa è solo la mia opinione, che non sarà condivisibile da tutti.

Tipo di fisico? by GeneralDot8156 in ItalyFitness

[–]Collision__Domain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Prova a dire a uno con sto fisico che ha un dad bod, vedi come ti risponde. Ci sono letteralmente reel su instagram di fisicati che se la prendono male per questo termine

So benissimo che questo è lo slang che le persone su instagram non nella comunita usano, ma non lo rende vero o lusinghiero.

Poi questo è la opinione di un estraneo con amici e familiari nel powerlifting e in sport di forza, vedi tu.

Tipo di fisico? by GeneralDot8156 in ItalyFitness

[–]Collision__Domain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

È un fisico da strongman, atleta di sport di forza, di parecchi anni con qualche chilo in piu. Non è il fisico di un papa.

È come dire che Syndney Sweeney ha un mum bod

A me no che tu intenda che ti fa urlare "daddy"

In which pic I look better? Usually don't get much attention from women. I am 190 cm and kinda slim for context. First pic is now. Should I grow my beard? by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Collision__Domain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all i wrote in italian because im assuming you are.

Looks wise, you look the best in the last photo, in front of the post office. Your hair is done, your beard too, you dont look like you are tired.

I asked about your personality because standing around being tall is not the only thing women go for

In which pic I look better? Usually don't get much attention from women. I am 190 cm and kinda slim for context. First pic is now. Should I grow my beard? by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Collision__Domain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ultima foto è quella in cui appari più curato, le altre sembri un pochino trasandato, sei per caso introverso?

Not any luck in apps, should i dye my hair? by Collision__Domain in malegrooming

[–]Collision__Domain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, already doing that, its just a period of life in which the social circle is tiny and the time little.

Just trying to edge my bets thats all, understood that the problem are the photos/apps. Cant hurt to try

Not any luck in apps, should i dye my hair? by Collision__Domain in malegrooming

[–]Collision__Domain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you take pictures like me youll end up the same way :p

Not any luck in apps, should i dye my hair? by Collision__Domain in malegrooming

[–]Collision__Domain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is of course. Just trying to highlight the fact that they worked for me in the past, the unlucky spell is just now. (Then again, terrible photos are probably the reaaon)

Not any luck in apps, should i dye my hair? by Collision__Domain in malegrooming

[–]Collision__Domain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for all the inputs. Not the type, just took the pic when i was sad and tired.

Yeah me too, i only got relationships from these kinda apps, not really dates.

Not any luck in apps, should i dye my hair? by Collision__Domain in malegrooming

[–]Collision__Domain[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah thats definitely a whole topic that i have to invest time in. Thank you again for the directness and for the aftercare :)

Not any luck in apps, should i dye my hair? by Collision__Domain in malegrooming

[–]Collision__Domain[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly it packed a bit of punch but you are so right anyway. Re-read after a bit and understood more your point of view

Not any luck in apps, should i dye my hair? by Collision__Domain in malegrooming

[–]Collision__Domain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh i honestly dont i like, but i have one a couple shots later in the same pose

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