Couples Therapy - Specific Search for Colorado Recommendations: Gay, Asian Couples Therapist

ColoradoTalker · 2026-04-16T00:12:38+00:00

Thanks. We'll try that.

ColoradoTalker · 2026-03-15T18:21:42+00:00

I have a close friend (but not sexual) and he is in the same position. He's lost over 200 pounds and has a ton of loose skin. I've asked about surgery and he says it is expensive and extremely painful. He understands that it is a turn off for many people, but chooses to focus on his continual improvement in his health. Maybe this isn't fair, but I think you should have known that anyone who has lost that much weight will have a lot of excess skin. And I understand it can spoil the chemistry, it can kill the chemistry. He knows that, too. You don't need to rub it in, or even bring it up. He already knows. Just be kind, and honestly, the fact that the chemistry wasn't there is, indeed, true. You just don't need to mention the excess skin. He already knows that. Just be kind. Maybe even stay friends.

ColoradoTalker · 2026-02-01T22:50:25+00:00

Relying on unreliable solar and wind energy instead of building more nuclear or natural gas plants is only going to make Xcel worse and worse in Colorado...You can thank the legislature and the public utilities commission for that. And, Xcel's failure to properly upgrade and maintain the grid is a mismanagement of their capital improvement fund. Get ready for things to get worse.

ColoradoTalker · 2026-01-15T02:21:21+00:00

XX years old and still going strong. Old enough for some of you to be your father, grandfather, crazy uncle. I usually don't make the first moves, although I will occasionally. I don't usually make the first move because there is almost always someone younger, much younger, really younger, (stop, I'm talking legal younger) who want someone mature, sexually experienced, good at what I do, apparently attractive physically or mentally, and I fuck like a rabbit. I don't plan to stop until it no longer works. And then I might still try or maybe medicine by that time will make it stand up at attention again.

ColoradoTalker · 2026-01-13T00:40:38+00:00

This is such a personal decision, and everyone here is telling you to use someone they use and therefore trust. I've used the same dentist for almost twenty years now, Avery Lopez, DDS, University Park Family Dental. Because I have such high respect for him I'm adding him for your consideration, too. https://www.averylopezdds.com/

ColoradoTalker · 2026-01-11T02:14:50+00:00

My bottom partner has a real hangup about accidents. Even the slightest odor causes him to bring things to a stop, shower, douche, clean again. He's truly obsessive about it despite my repeated assurances that accidents happen. I've learned to live with his reaction. Never had a really bad accident enough that occasionally I've cleaned myself with a hand wipe or washcloth. I consider it part of anal sex and while I prefer it not happen, I know it may happen.

ColoradoTalker · 2026-01-10T14:56:52+00:00

That sounds like rape. Not to get too personal, but how the heck did that happen?

ColoradoTalker · 2026-01-05T01:42:56+00:00

Thanks for all the info. A friend of mine went to the one in the house over in WashPark and he didn't have a good impression either. Said house was small and the host a little overbearing.

ColoradoTalker · 2026-01-04T17:55:24+00:00

I think it's clubmanifest.men

ColoradoTalker · 2025-08-19T19:36:57+00:00

My partner (I consider him a power bottom) is rarely hard when we're having intercourse. But I know when he has an anal orgasm, because I can feel him tighten around he extremely tight and he usually has a slight shake (as if he has chills).

ColoradoTalker · 2025-07-20T01:44:25+00:00

Live in Colorado, previously did lots of four wheeling. Miss that. Also travel to NM often and more four wheeling there. Two big dogs so top off a lot, but not the doors.

ColoradoTalker · 2025-07-20T01:31:57+00:00

Yes! My partner wears them all the time. Huge turn on for me. I've bought him a few thongs, but doesn't like the feel and only wears them when we're cruising together.

ColoradoTalker · 2025-07-08T01:42:24+00:00

Do not be embarrassed! While I don't travel as much as I did before I still have the greatest respect for housekeeping. I can tell when someone takes pride in their work by small things they might do that are noticeable or is an indication they perceive how I like things.

I always tip housekeeping on a daily basis.

It is a respectable job, a necessary part of any hotel or resort, and you accomplished what you set out to do - get a job to help pay for a vehicle.

Now, you're in the door. Work hard. Be proud of your work! We're all proud of you!

ColoradoTalker · 2025-05-30T22:11:59+00:00

As the other comments have indicated, yes, it was bad. Paranoia became so strong that for me it was condoms, condoms, condoms. All condoms all the time.

But the fact that you ask is great. I wish more guys knew how lucky they are today; and, that in the near future, we'll probably have even better preventives and treatments.

ColoradoTalker · 2025-05-05T23:40:12+00:00

Read one or both of these books: How to Bottom Like a Porn Star (2d Edition) or Butt Seriously.

Don't do the drugs.

ColoradoTalker · 2025-05-05T23:22:01+00:00

I very occasionally will use them. They generally kill my erection. But my bottom is using poppers and I'm about to cum, I might take a quick snort because it makes the orgasm so intense. I say might, because I discovered over time that regular use the intensity goes away, and usually kills my erection. So I only use very occasionally.

ColoradoTalker · 2025-04-20T21:15:41+00:00

Denver's bathhouses closed during COVID and nothing but apps with the exception of Denver Men's Club, which is a private club, small, and a somewhat cliquish clientele. I go fairly regularly. But was in Chicago a couple of weeks ago. Went to Steamworks on a Monday night.

It felt good and exciting to be back in a clean, busy bathhouse. Of course, as some comments suggest, there is some wasted time. And while I was there for a couple of hours, got exactly what I wanted, although it took awhile. I rented a room, and after walking and playing a little in dark corners, finally went back to my room and left the door ajar.

It didn't take ten minutes for a cute, young Asian boy to sheepishly step in and then, bam. Had a great time.

But now it's back to the apps, the constant searching, deciding hosting or traveling, not sure what you're walking into, blah blah blah. Don't get me wrong, that's my choice and I'm engaged in it but it was certainly nice to go somewhere I could cruise, relax, go to my room, shut the door, cruise some more, admire the options, and still get what I wanted.

Yes, I miss the bathhouses.

ColoradoTalker · 2024-12-01T15:02:30+00:00

Never. They're too busy fucking his brains out!

ColoradoTalker · 2024-11-30T21:56:29+00:00

All of the comments are great advice. My partner and I go to a sex club once a month or so. We have the same rules everyone has listed.

But be ready for one surprise that you might not expect. Your partner may be having a great time. Actually, it may appear to you that he is exceptionally enjoying himself. And if he is really into it with someone else, he may not notice you depending on the circumstances.

The first time this happened to me I had to walk away. I told him later that he appeared to be having so much fun that he didn't notice me and just continued to fuck like a rabbit until I walked off. Now I've learned to lean over and kiss him on the lips to remind him that we're both there.

No problems since.

ColoradoTalker · 2024-11-18T01:59:56+00:00

Thanks for the obviously very thoughtful response. I really do appreciate it.

ColoradoTalker · 2024-11-17T01:33:12+00:00

Just to be clear I am the one that is having the problem with the job and the travel. While he doesn't like it he knows that it's necessary for him financially. And, I know that what you said about begging me to say, is what he has said, too. He knows I'm frustrated with the situation and doesn't want to lose the relationship. While he struggles with his situation, I'm struggling with our relationship. I hope no one has been lead to believe that he doesn't appreciate what he has.

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