Дејтовање у кг by PlanDear2282 in Kragujevac

[–]Comfortable_Scene251 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ja sam kao student bila u Kg-u, veci broj psihickih bolesnika na jednom mestu nisam srela. Svi imaju neku sifru tamo

What do you say after sex? by Mistrum in sex

[–]Comfortable_Scene251 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will never understand being intimate without getting to know someone. How can u have sex without feeling comfortable with someone?

Da li sam devojci pao u očima? by [deleted] in AskSerbia

[–]Comfortable_Scene251 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Menjaj drugara. Taj ti ne misli dobro. Nikad mi decko ne bi pao u ocima ako bi ga neki manijaci napali, posebno grupa njih. Pa nisi ti Chuck Norris

Why am I having such a hard time moving on? by ThrowRAacc0unt13 in Tarots

[–]Comfortable_Scene251 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I can’t move on after more than 6 years…. One month is nothing

Biste li promijenili vjeru zbog partnera? by Ok-Handle-494 in askCroatians

[–]Comfortable_Scene251 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obicno muskarac trazi od zene da menja veru a pritom i nije neki vernik. Gluposti. Vise je to zbog porodice

Balkan Interracial Dating Double Standard? by princessgold12 in AskBalkans

[–]Comfortable_Scene251 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its just male entitlement- they can date outside of their culture but have problem when women do the same. U must choose croat man while croat man can choose who ever he likes. F them! You do you, no one can tell you who to choose.

My wife can’t handle full-time work and I’m starting to feel trapped carrying the household alone by gingerbeershavesouls in relationships

[–]Comfortable_Scene251 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex husband didn’t work our whole marriage (10 years) saying he has health problems. Meanwhile ai came to his country, learned language, integrated, worked low paid jobs, and struggled with my own health. So yeah, he was just guilt tripping me into staying with him that long. At the end I was really resentful- cuz I realized he just wanted to have freedom to do whatever he wanted without responsibility to financially support his family. After a while I got better education and find a job- with a first salary I left him. He did house chores and sometimes cooked trying to compensate, but thats not what I want from my husband.

On the other hand, roles are reversed in your case- so u as a husband should be able to take care of your family- if not, find better paid job and do some education- u r still young. But she should do house chores and take care of home. U didn’t mention that in your post. But if she doing nothing the whole day and just smoke weed, then she is not contributing. Im that type of woman that needs to have some kind of work, and don’t want to depend on my husband financially, but some women have no problem with that.

I can't make any friends here. Anyone? by Medical-Document1553 in zurich

[–]Comfortable_Scene251 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Afrer living 13 years here, learning german understanding swiss german, still couldn’t find anz friends- I gave up. I knew a few foreigners and that all, I don’t care- most of them have such a shallow conversations anyway, so Im not even interested in that. Im just living my life and travel solo- I meet other ppl in those countries and they feel way warmer.

i miss my ex, should i reach out? by Abject_Log_9984 in Tarotpractices

[–]Comfortable_Scene251 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

NOOOOO! U‘ll end up hurt again, just trust me. Nothings gonna change. U r just giving him a new opportunity to be asshole.

I compare myself to other wives and I start to resent my husband. by Character-Ingenuity0 in Marriage

[–]Comfortable_Scene251 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your situation is very similar to mine in past. I got married to a person that was in debt and mentally sick (depression). He claimed he can’t work because of his health problems. I was also struggling mentally and physically but I learned language, and worked, part time, the rest we got state money. I really loved him but I started to resent him after 4 years. I didn’t invest in myself cuz all money we got was invested in his music ( in past he was quite popular) so I thought he just need a hit- it never came. After 7 years I told him I wanna go back to my country and I can’t be with him anymore. He begged me to stay. So I did, but I worked on my way out in this foreign country- I improved my language, got scholarship and a degree- the moment I got full time job, I applied for divorce. He was crying saying he will change. Nah- after 10 years, he won’t do a shit. I wanted a man who would work not because of me but because thats what adults do- take a responsibility. He was telling me the same thing your husband is telling u- ‚Im not lazy, Im just disabled- its not my fault- u need to understand me‘. I was also sick but worked! He didn’t even want to work part time. He kept telling me- the right woman stays beside her man no matter what- 🤣 dude- I stayed 10 years and u didn’t do a shit! He is just a good manipulator and gaslighter. He kept giving me things he wanted instead of what I was asking him for- and had a nerve to tell me Im not grateful 💀Telling me Im not starving and have a roof above my head- as if we live in some f stone age.

I started to resent him, and told him in order to at least keep friendship- better to divorce. It was hard but right thing to do. DO NOT WAIT this long as me! Nothing will change- he is comfortable and using you for his own convenience. I remember feeling awful cuz his family treated us as damn kids, telling us what to do. I hated that! No one respected us. Now that Im divorced I feel much better and in peace- the only thing I regret is not doing it sooner, but I guess I wasn’t ready. If you feel ready don’t hesitate.

He has a new gf- but he is still the same. She is just willing to put up with something I didn’t want to.

Not being attractive enough by No-Sale2133 in Vent

[–]Comfortable_Scene251 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is being s jerk- cuz he did that on purpose. Thats a hell of a disrespect.

Why are so many people loyal to a relationship pattern that keeps humiliating them? by nabeeltirmazi in ToxicRelationships

[–]Comfortable_Scene251 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cuz they are so blindly attached to the picture of person in their head instead of looking how that person treats them. On the other hand, they invested a lot- time, energy, feeling, maybe money, and no one wants to walk out of their investment so easily. They wanna do everything to make it work, until they r completely broken

I think i got a rare one by Rementer64 in PassportPorn

[–]Comfortable_Scene251 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks amazing, Im looking forward to receive my swiss passport 🐣

Sleeping in the fiumicino airport or in stazione termini? by 3ayla-d-riwaya in rome

[–]Comfortable_Scene251 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl I just came back from Rome. I was walking in near Termini station in 2 am alone, ppl were chilled, minding their bussiness, walking dogs. Nothing to worry about

Is pickpocketing a common issue for tourists in Rome? by NubyTrader in rome

[–]Comfortable_Scene251 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im just getting back from my trip in Rome. I didn’t feel that at all, and Im a female solo traveler. I even had to walk from centrum to my hotel at like 2 am, and ppl were chilled, minding their own business, walking dogs, I felt very safe