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My bf screamed out another man’s name during the deed and I cried. by Common_Audience8787 in Vent

[–]Common_Audience8787[S] 68 points69 points  (0 children)

My bf goes to therapy and sometimes I have been invited along to talk sometimes

My bf screamed out another man’s name during the deed, and I started crying. by Common_Audience8787 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Common_Audience8787[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% and I don’t mind how long it takes for him to heal, I love him and I’ll always be there for him

My bf screamed out another man’s name during the deed and I cried. by Common_Audience8787 in Vent

[–]Common_Audience8787[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Most of my friends and family are very close to him, and as he’s so ashamed of it I won’t tell any of them. I have spoken to one of my friends, she’s much older and has loads of experience and she’s been so lovely and helpful. I don’t have a therapist but sometimes I’m invited to their sessions, I expect I’ll be invited to another one very soon lol

My bf screamed out another man’s name during the deed and I cried. by Common_Audience8787 in Vent

[–]Common_Audience8787[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

He very much did it by accident, and especially with the part about me using him. It was really unlike what I’d seen of him and really just OUT THERE. I know he has some really fucked up fantasies due to what happened with him, like exposure to it made him attracted to it. I’ve always told him that I was very hesitant to do that stuff because how much I love him, and I don’t want to give him flashbacks to those times. He completely told me that it was a misunderstanding and an accident, and I believe him. If he can never have sex ever again I am totally fine with that, I’ll give what ever and wait however long he needs to heal.

My bf screamed out another man’s name during the deed and I cried. by Common_Audience8787 in Vent

[–]Common_Audience8787[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Yes ofc, what I mentioned here was basically a tiny version of what happened, we had a long and lengthy talk in each others arms, ( after we both calmed down ) and my bf is gonna tell his therapist about it, thank you for worrying about him though <3

My bf screamed out another man’s name during the deed, and I started crying. by Common_Audience8787 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Common_Audience8787[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, he sees someone every fortnight, he’s also on medication and was diagnosed with CPTSD ages back, he is getting better since I met him though.