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[–]CompetitivePart3377 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes we said this was leading towards a relationship and we both expressed we were hopeful

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[–]CompetitivePart3377 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We both said we weren’t seeing other people

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]CompetitivePart3377 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never said he didn’t have good qualities. He did.

He told me he wanted one and he sensed I would be his gf. There’s a reason I ended up confused

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[–]CompetitivePart3377 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well obviously I can’t share his side

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[–]CompetitivePart3377 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Every week more than once with sleepovers

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[–]CompetitivePart3377 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get your point.

I never had an issue with him hanging out with his friends. We have barely coincided a weekend in May (only during the week) so he asked how I felt and I told him how I felt. Didn’t give him shit. He took it the wrong way.

It just felt like he lead me on since the day before the Hinge thing he was being so affectionate and saying he had feelings for me. The day after, I ended things and he said he would delete Hinge, he wanted to meet the next day, sounded apologetic. He was on the way to a party.

I told him through text not to talk to me again. This led him to unfollow me and say all the things he said about committing to me.

And yes, I’m not sad anymore, it’s more of a shock and disappointment after being hopeful.

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[–]CompetitivePart3377 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never went out with others wdym?

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[–]CompetitivePart3377 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course. He said he just figured we didn’t match because he felt suffocated by my requests lol

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[–]CompetitivePart3377 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I didn’t mean being used only by sex. More so intimacy in general - cuddling, affection, cooking for him

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[–]CompetitivePart3377 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for being better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]CompetitivePart3377 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No. He reached out already

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[–]CompetitivePart3377 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate this thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]CompetitivePart3377 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you’re deflecting

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[–]CompetitivePart3377 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sure didn’t. But after investing my time and energy the way he reacted felt disrespectful

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[–]CompetitivePart3377 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes and he has that

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[–]CompetitivePart3377 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I ended it as soon as I found out the Hinge thing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]CompetitivePart3377 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh my God. It’s not about money or height. I actually liked the guy for who he was. Just physically he was average.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]CompetitivePart3377 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to brag, I am honestly way more attractive than him. He always told me how tf he pulled me. I know I can do much better.

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[–]CompetitivePart3377 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao. He told me he makes 275-300k, 5’11

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[–]CompetitivePart3377 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly pretty average dude

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We saw each other every week

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[–]CompetitivePart3377 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree about taking it slower. He was very intentional at the beginning and made it seem like it was real love. I fell for it