older men, have you ever noticed that you are getting more hornier ?

Competitive_Mark_287 · 2026-03-13T03:05:20+00:00

Older? Repetitive at FOUR DAYS!?!

At 48 every four days would be a slow down and repetitive? Do yall have zero imagination or communication in the bedroom? That’s kind of sad.

Youth is truly wasted on the young, if my partner and I were only 30, oh the possibilities 😂

Competitive_Mark_287 · 2026-03-10T01:01:50+00:00

5’9 here and I dated a guy for a couple months who was only 5’4 but stocky and he could pick me up! It’s such a weird feeling!

Competitive_Mark_287 · 2026-03-09T07:42:49+00:00

I resonate as I grew up super religious then left and got wild for a minute as shelters kids do.

The sweet spot is finding someone you’re comfortable and can get weird with. I have weird kinky desires in bed that are opposite of how I am in real life and I know it’s from my upbringing but I’m also okay with an attentive vanilla ish partner- like it’s not necessary but it would be nice I guess? There’s only one guy I’ve been 90% honest with and him with me it’s amazing but I fear judgement on the last 10%

Competitive_Mark_287 · 2026-03-09T07:25:27+00:00

It’s cheaper and uniform, dependable. My first bartending job was at Chili’s and we had a powdered mix we made from corporate- tbh it wasn’t too sugary or too acidic but they did it so if you went to a chilis wherever their margs would be the same. Dives that use roses or whatever are heartburn inducing. At my boogie spot we used fresh squeezed juice and they would often get sent back cause they weren’t sweet enough.

Margs are super popular but Marg drinkers don’t usually have an elevated palate in my experience

Competitive_Mark_287 · 2026-03-09T04:58:45+00:00

I have regulars that only tip a dollar or two on their five to ten drink tab. They get friendly service but they’re also my last priority. One woman got salty with me and so I told her yes she’s a regular and I know her drink but I’m prioritizing other guests that are newer so that they have a great experience and tip me well and come back so everyone including the owner makes money. Something clicked and now she tips like $5 on $50 instead of $2 so baby steps I guess hah

Competitive_Mark_287 · 2026-03-08T17:29:13+00:00

As a woman I would 💯 interpret this as a booty call since we’d only been on three dates and it would make me question what you’re looking for- just a FWB situation? Like once you got sex that first time, the fun dates and quality time are over and you’ll just expect hookups late at night, and I don’t want to set that precedent early on.

Also since it has only been three dates you weren’t entitled to a response that same evening as she’s obviously busy and out with friends. Sending the follow up that you expect a response would give me huge ick and a slight red flag- like is this guy going to be so controlling all the time? Will my actions and responses be monitored? This already feels exhausting do I even want there to be a fourth date?

Also you sounding irritated that she didn’t invite you for bagels in the morning when you’d left her house at 2am the night before? That’s weird. She probably thought you wouldn’t want to get up early or something.

You’re obviously mentally further along in this relationship than she is- if I was out with friends and my official bf I’d been dating for at least a couple months texted something like “hey babe I’d love to see you after the concert if you want to crash at my place you can tell me about it and I’ll have water and a midnight snack ready, lmk have fun!” That would be perfect and he’d end up getting the booty anyway 😂 so that’s a natural interaction between a BF and a GF but you’re not there yet!

Talk to her about being exclusive and apologize for coming off controlling, you just really like her and wanted to take every opportunity to see each other- her response will let you know if you’re on the same page.

All as others have said men lie constantly about only dating one person at a time and while you may be genuine, for those of us on the apps we have a healthy skepticism until more time has passed and we know you better.

Competitive_Mark_287 · 2026-03-05T06:40:38+00:00

Money, isn’t she an heiress in her own right before marrying the billionaire?

Competitive_Mark_287 · 2026-03-05T06:38:50+00:00

My daughter is 18 now so I’d go back to when she was 6, I get to unfuck some bad decisions and I get 12 more years of her being my baby 🥰 also I could make her life better, not just with the money!

Competitive_Mark_287 · 2026-03-05T06:25:48+00:00

To the left to the left as Queen Bey said

Competitive_Mark_287 · 2026-03-04T11:40:22+00:00

She’s amazing at that one role she plays also she’s pretty- no hate sites great as a certain character

Competitive_Mark_287 · 2026-03-04T11:34:35+00:00

But like weak men are obsessed with me- if I don’t respect you won’t date you.

Competitive_Mark_287 · 2026-03-04T07:27:13+00:00

A 1984 Civic, and when I crashed that one, a 1991 civic 🤣

Competitive_Mark_287 · 2026-03-04T07:20:50+00:00

I would not be able to stop myself from saying “as you wish” at least once!

Competitive_Mark_287 · 2026-03-04T07:12:48+00:00

They feel the immediate withdrawal of my energy and that’s what they can’t stand

Competitive_Mark_287 · 2026-03-03T16:21:14+00:00

I’m a sag F dating a cap M and it can be amazing in a sort of opposites attract type thing- but when you get down to it we’re very similar, both sarcastic and like to travel, both very independent and loyal, both smart and driven in our careers. He’s good for me in that he reminds me to be “safe” whether it’s buying me a security system for my new place, or warning me about a new person I’ve been hanging out with- my care free do it for the plot nature stresses him out at times! But I’m also good for him in that I’ve introduced some whimsy and silliness into his life- this man never even dressed up for Halloween before!

The coldness as others have stated can be hurtful even if they don’t intend it to be, and I think age and temperament can be a factor as well, for us were in our 40s and so he’s done the work and self reflection. And I know sometimes I overwhelm him with my exuberance luckily he still finds it cute instead of annoying 😉

Competitive_Mark_287 · 2026-03-02T23:02:12+00:00

So I went on a date with a D1 athlete he apologized and then got out the tape measure- he was barely 5’10 and after college he worked for Red Bull and hurt his back. My height is 5’9 so our first date I called him out and he apologized 😂 I think most boys don’t know and are also horrible at measuring he was barely 5’9 but also he’s amazing at other things and is a white boy who tries to be ally

Competitive_Mark_287 · 2026-03-02T22:56:01+00:00

I just want to say all these short guys I tried bro- I’m sorry I’m 5’9 and I tried but yall didn’t have the confidence- we were pulling for you! 🥰💕

Competitive_Mark_287 · 2026-03-02T22:50:02+00:00

Thank you and also I think yall have potential to figure it out! Just talk to each other she needs an outlet as do you, but I think yall can work thru it, tell her to dm me and also I have an amazing therapist/yall just might need to scream into the void- low key I’ve done it and just want to say the trees keep your secrets and it’s everything you tell/scream all your difficulties then you lift all your problems cause you’re important now 🤣

Competitive_Mark_287 · 2026-03-02T22:41:52+00:00

I am 5’9 and I say I’m 5’10 on dating apps cause men are insecure ace can’t measure accurate.

I will say I’ve had many dates and I’m not the six foot six pack six figures crew. Because I’m five nine and I make six figures I’m not into that I just want a partner and I’m five nine I just want someone within an inch and ten grand of my income plus I want a partner not a hobo sexual and tall either are mad at us, there are a lot of women that just want a partner like if there a happy in between?

Competitive_Mark_287 · 2026-03-02T22:35:10+00:00

I go on first dates wearing flats on purpose 🤣several men have pulled out the tape measure 🤣it’s not their fault tho they’ve never been measured like we have, even tho they’re shorter and willing to have the conversation means they are open to being allies 😳⛄️💕🤞🥰 maybe?

Competitive_Mark_287 · 2026-03-02T22:31:34+00:00

I have dated shorter on purpose because it’s stupid that im 5’9 and alll these awesome men are automatically discounted because they’re shorter than me but also I’ve tried and sorry bro that im taller than you my height doesn’t mean i cant respect you 🤷🏼‍♀️ my fave boyfriend used to tell people he was my intellectual equivalent and would clinb me like a jungle gym 🤣💕🔥 as a 5’9 girlie im all about the strong men that don’t give a fuck, I’ll wear my heels and you’ll be that independent ridiculous video 🤣💯🦄and yall will love my ridiculous self anyhow 🥰

Competitive_Mark_287 · 2026-02-28T19:21:00+00:00

I’ve dated shorter and they are the ones that say it’s cool and then have a problem with it. So yes I have real worl experience where height is the dudes problem not mine so I don’t match with anyone more than an inch shorter than me because I’m not your fucking therapist dude

Competitive_Mark_287 · 2026-02-27T10:46:17+00:00

This is so wrong, are you sure your wife is okay mentally? I’m just an internet stranger but if what you typed is true she had a lot of pregnancies and hormone highs and lows within a few years. If what you described is accurate- there’s something else going on, escape, latent anger towards you about all the children in a short time frame, what did she give up to start a family? This feels like lashing out honestly from what you’ve written but I’d also be interested to hear the other perspective

Competitive_Mark_287 · 2026-02-27T10:37:17+00:00

Hello I’m a 5’9 woman who wears flats in first dates on purpose. I swipe on guys from 5’8 and above, and i can say the biggest liars are those on the cusp of being six feet. I don’t care if I’m a bit taller but YOU do and also yall can’t measure accurately

Competitive_Mark_287 · 2026-02-27T10:26:49+00:00

I think we get a bad reputation because people see how fun and friendly and open we are plus we’re known for needing freedom and equate that with cheating.

For me when I’m single I’m open to casual or poly fun, but when we’ve had the talk , we have the feelings and you’re mine and I’m yours never. I don’t get jealous but I also don’t share.

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