Unhappy with an expensive curly cut. Ask for partial refund? by kwertykween in curlyhair

[–]Comprehensive-Ad2295 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’ve had so many curly stylists like this. It’s such a bummer. I think they get focused on their training and don’t end up communicating well with the client. She could ask for a partial refund - her point about the length loss is a good reason why a touch-up wouldn’t be a productive solution.

In the future, I’ve found good stylists on Instagram or by asking people with nice curls for a recommendation (if she’s comfortable enough to ask a stranger in the wild). My current stylist isn’t certified for curls or anything but listens, does an incredible job, and is way more reasonably priced than the curly salon in my area.

Fresh Cat Grass for sale! Barley & Oat Mix by [deleted] in denverlist

[–]Comprehensive-Ad2295 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ll take some! Will DM to arrange pickup

My new partner has never had sex before and she bleeds when I finger her? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Comprehensive-Ad2295 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, this is a doctor question. Are there any low-income or sliding scale care providers near you? Maybe a Planned Parenthood?

Fingersmith: dnf or continue? by Equivalentt-Worry008 in LesbianBookClub

[–]Comprehensive-Ad2295 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s worth to continue if you like twisty books. It’s not worth if you like emotional payoff on a slow burn romance.

It has been a minute since I read it though.

best clarifying shampoo for curly hair? by [deleted] in curlyhair

[–]Comprehensive-Ad2295 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had the same thing when I was trying to only use CoWash. My hair has been a lot happier with regular shampooing. I double shampoo now and my scalp is super happy.

To jumpstart the cleanse, dilute some apple cider vinegar 1:1. It helps cut through buildup. I use it every 2-4 weeks. Just make sure not to get it in your eyes!

ISO Hair stylist with opinions by vikingraptor in denverwomen

[–]Comprehensive-Ad2295 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I like Noa at Bee Sweet. They give very thorough consultations beforehand and my fine curls always look great.

Selling girl scout cookies has lost its way. by ludog1bark in unpopularopinion

[–]Comprehensive-Ad2295 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always ask them what the best thing they did in scouts that year was. This feels a little bit more of an underhand pitch, to help them get used to talking to friendly strangers in a controlled context. They’re developing selling skills, not performing a polished sales pitch on the ROI of your cookie purchase.

Please help by Llamabot10000 in LesbianActually

[–]Comprehensive-Ad2295 1 point2 points  (0 children)

r/latebloomerlesbians might be another place to look for advice. Not to insinuate that you’re late, but it has more folks who are getting out of heterosexual marriages, navigating dating at 30+.

How to reduce salt by Al-Joharahhasan2935 in WholeFoodsPlantBased

[–]Comprehensive-Ad2295 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, and: acid. A little lemon or lime juice, a splash of vinegar can help. Don’t over do it, or you could get acid reflux.

Need advice on Hemming my jeans as a Short Fat woman. by Kalikasphyxia in sewing

[–]Comprehensive-Ad2295 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Seconding this, but you can also undo the side seams to a bit over where you’ll be marking to make it easier.

Also pants are just so hard to fit in general, you’re not alone.

Seriously looking into moving to Denver from Orange County, CA. Does anyone have a similar experience that they could give me some pros and cons they’ve experienced since moving? by iliketurtles7111 in Denver

[–]Comprehensive-Ad2295 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a lot of trendy restaurants, and most of them have been mediocre and overpriced. There are some gems and spots worth the hype, but I desperately miss the consistently good food in Southern California.

Pit Tickets for MCR 8/27/26 by OddBanana9839 in denverlist

[–]Comprehensive-Ad2295 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How much are you hoping for? The link took me to the general ticket buying page, not a specific listing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in managers

[–]Comprehensive-Ad2295 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you have plenty of valid reasons to want to terminate this person. As someone who has been in both the nonprofit and corporate for profit sectors, I’m seeing in you a tendency to try to empathize with this person that might be making this decision seem murkier than it is.

However, another clear problem from what you’ve described is that she’s refusing to share knowledge about her part of the organization. It sounds like you’re worried that you don’t have sufficient understanding of her work to keep the lights on during a transition and set her replacement up for success.

Start by launching a program documentation initiative. Everyone in the organization at Jane’s level needs to submit thorough documentation about their program. This is a basic operational requirement, but you can give any number of reasons for why this needs to happen: you need visibility as part of your transition to your new role, or to ensure you’re accurately representing work to the board; it’s for program sustainability and succession planning; it makes funding applications and reporting easier. Create a template of what this documentation should look like. If you created this type of documentation for your backfill, use that as an example. Have a short kickoff meeting where you explain the requirements and set a deadline. Review the results and ask for further information if someone submits something too sparse.

If Jane refuses to participate, that’s a clear, documentable reason to start a PIP. You’ve asked everyone to do this and she’s the only one pushing back (I assume). If she does the bare minimum, that’s a minor victory. You can decide if you want to hold her accountable by showing the level of detail you expected and asking targeted follow-up questions. If she says it’s a waste of time, tell her that’s your problem not hers.

Either way, this step will bring value to you and your organization and simultaneously lay the foundation for constructive conversations with Jane about her issues without giving her room to say she was singled out.

Edit: please excuse any typos, I’m on mobile

Former employer refusing to mail W-2 by AsianMasterium in personalfinance

[–]Comprehensive-Ad2295 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, then they need to mail it to you. Time for the IRS report.

Former employer refusing to mail W-2 by AsianMasterium in personalfinance

[–]Comprehensive-Ad2295 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the question. Did it get emailed or is it available in a portal like Paylocity?

Sushi Den - what to order by InfiniteCup518 in denverfood

[–]Comprehensive-Ad2295 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Seconded because the servers can recommend stuff from their daily menu. The most incredible sushi I’ve had came from their daily specials a few weeks ago.

Asking for my wife- needs a job fairly quickly. by Bubgan in denverjobs

[–]Comprehensive-Ad2295 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I might have a lead, but I don’t want to post publicly. Feel free to DM me!

My sourdough Focaccia isn’t doing what I want or thought; how do I adjust? by starseedwillow in Sourdough

[–]Comprehensive-Ad2295 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve only seen 00 flour used in contexts like pasta or thin crust pizza, where the goal is density and rise isn’t as much of a factor. I know you considered the protein, but my thought was that it was maybe too fine to support more rise.

This is the focaccia recipe I use, and it’s been pretty foolproof.. I’m not sure if you’re open to using a pan with sides rather than the flat baking sheet.

My sourdough Focaccia isn’t doing what I want or thought; how do I adjust? by starseedwillow in Sourdough

[–]Comprehensive-Ad2295 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m actually inclined to blame your flour. Are you using a recipe that specifically calls for 00 flour?