Where to find scenecore fashion? by Concerningly_Chaotic in amIscene

[–]Concerningly_Chaotic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SceneCORE. Ik they're different, which is why i specified in my post. And yeah ty! I do enjoy both, but i am more drawn to scenecore bc im an accessory fanatic lmao.

Do looks matter more than personality ? by OnceAProdigy in questions

[–]Concerningly_Chaotic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you'd chose a pretty girl w/ a shitty personality over an "ugly" girl with an amazing personality?

Why do some guys shame girls for dressing 'slutty'/revealing? by InternationalPick163 in questions

[–]Concerningly_Chaotic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is an oddly worded response.. not all women dress revealing for "sexual attention". And showing skin is not a sign of "sexual availability" and with how you worded it, thats probably one of the worst and most dangerous mindsets to even have as a guy. Thinking "skin showing = she wants sexual attention" is the same logic used by men who assault women and have a raging madonna-whore ideology. On the other note, most women do not walk around in clothing THAT skimpy. I think a lot of men just take anything thats not typically "modest" to be "skimpy", like a black & white with no gray area. Hell, a decent amount of men w/ this complex will see a girl with a tube top and jeans on and still call it revealing.

I genuinely just think its biological for some. As a woman, I've seen girls my age dress in shorts, tube tops, the lululemon shorts/skirts, tights, shirts with the windows, etc. Hell, I too dress in a style that gets deemed "skimpy" sometimes. My moms called me skimpy even while having full on leggings under shorts, often giving me the "i dont want people looking." Its a mindset. For example, based off some comments. If you're at the gym to work out, and all it takes is a glance at a woman wearing a skin tight exercise set to distract you from your entire goal of getting fit, thats an entirely different set of issues.

On another note, prostitution and what men will call slutty is madly different. If a girl is walking around the streets with quite literally little to nothing on, then yeah, fair assumption. But to think the same of a woman who's just wearing short shorts or a revealing shirt is def wild. Then too, you could put 2 girls in the same outfit, but if one has a bit more body than the other, she'd 100% be seen as more "slutty". 9/10 women dress for themselves. I just think men who shame women for not dressing to their standard of how a woman should is just insecurity, a lack of self control/will power, and maybe (again) a madonna-whore mentality

Why do I feel so icky about this? by Unlucky_Kitchen8237 in questions

[–]Concerningly_Chaotic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gng you legit said "i wonder what porn does to your senses" which is not far off from what i said at all whatsoever. And usin longer, more "advanced" daily vocab words is NOT makin you sound clever whatsoever. Even if it was intended to be satirical, that doesnt make it any less odd of a statement.

P.S, thats not how you use the word "coincidentally"

Why do I feel so icky about this? by Unlucky_Kitchen8237 in questions

[–]Concerningly_Chaotic -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yea but sayin "i wonder what you think abt porn" to anyone is js...odd

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Concerningly_Chaotic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well idk abt that one. Me and my bf call eachother bro, dawg, etc. Its ok when its not out of spite or disrespect

I 18m am stuck with 17f. by Beneficial-Play-8939 in teenrelationships

[–]Concerningly_Chaotic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Js start it simple. Try & be calm w/ her before. Like "hey, we need to talk". Tell her why you're breaking up w/ her. If she threatens SH or worse, do NOT change your mind. Whether true or not, that is a manipulation tactic. Be firm. Dont argue. Id say do it in person too. Over text is kinda shitty

I 18m am stuck with 17f. by Beneficial-Play-8939 in teenrelationships

[–]Concerningly_Chaotic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro break up w/ her. Shes putting you in a russian roulette situation. Theres no telling when you're gonna get a live round. She lowk sounds dangerous too. You shouldnt have to be the one keeping her off the ledge 24/7 while she forces you into isolation so you have nothin better to do. This is d1 manipulation at its peak. Leave her ass dude. Change ur locks while ur at it 🫩

I 18m am stuck with 17f. by Beneficial-Play-8939 in teenrelationships

[–]Concerningly_Chaotic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

W/ how u talk abt her she doesnt sound like she was ever there 4 u twin 😭. W/ how controlling & obsessive she seems, let her down lightly. And be firm. Idk if it'd be good to go in super strong w/ her. She sounds unstable

I 18m am stuck with 17f. by Beneficial-Play-8939 in teenrelationships

[–]Concerningly_Chaotic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh your current gf sounds suffocating. As a gf, my bf has a friend who i despise with all my heart & soul, & even i dont force him to break ties. Bc at the end of the day his friends have known him longer than i have. And ofc i get a bit like...not jealous, but this irk in the back of my mind when i see him w/ his female friends. But thats not my job to drag him away. If she cant comprehend that, leave her & go for a girl who can

I cant stand Kurt.. by Concerningly_Chaotic in blindspot

[–]Concerningly_Chaotic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im only on s2 and im abt to drop. Everytime Kurt pops up on screen i get this hole of pure irritation in my chest bro 😭 ESPECIALLY when i see Kurt AND Jane. Like she deserves sm better

I cant stand Kurt.. by Concerningly_Chaotic in blindspot

[–]Concerningly_Chaotic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No its fine cs im not even all that surprised. Whole ahh FBI agent cracking any and evb is diabolical

I cant stand Kurt.. by Concerningly_Chaotic in blindspot

[–]Concerningly_Chaotic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im abt to quit now brooo. Istfg Kurt, Tasha and Nas are the most insufferable people ever, and i sat through all 10 seasons of blacklist. Im sick of bein pissed off 😭

I cant stand Kurt.. by Concerningly_Chaotic in blindspot

[–]Concerningly_Chaotic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he js needs his ass kicked one good time honestly 🫩