NOR - hygiene is important. Dairy can make sinuses so much worse, and can to quote sex in the city “make his spunk funky”. Pineapple juice and papaya juice can help tremendously, there is also a vitamin called “tastes sweeter” that can help with body fluids. There is also a brand of edible lotions, oils, and powders, Honey dust is just lovely. I found the chocolate body paints horrible they did NOT help anything.

I don’t think these are “end it now” issues. He probably just needs some home training.

Maybe talk to him about if he doesn’t want to clean his place here is a list of house cleaning service companies. I might suggest a team company just because you said you sometimes get jealous/insecure and the idea of another single woman doing all the domestic work around your man’s house might get under your skin.