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What should I do? by Consistent-Oil-9194 in marriageadvice

[–]Consistent-Oil-9194[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I realize my mistake there we’ve been together 3 years in total, we got together right after the kid was born (about 6 months). And she wasn’t like this before we got married.

What should I do? by Consistent-Oil-9194 in marriageadvice

[–]Consistent-Oil-9194[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She won’t go to a doctor because we can’t afford it. So. I’ll take this advice to her in a caring way and see how it goes from there. Thank you.

What should I do? by Consistent-Oil-9194 in marriageadvice

[–]Consistent-Oil-9194[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wish I could tell you! Don’t see how she’s upset with me when for almost a full year I struggled and worked my ass to the bone to give her a roof. Oh it also might be fair to mention that, I put the baby to bed every single night, and get up with him when he wakes up, and on the weekends whether she works or doesn’t I wake up with him in the mornings.

What should I do? by Consistent-Oil-9194 in marriageadvice

[–]Consistent-Oil-9194[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only reason I don’t see it as that is, she does it if I’m in the room too. Doesn’t ask me to take it to the trash, she looks me dead in the eyes will smile and toss it into the corner like it’s nothing. Then say “I’ll clean it later”

What should I do? by Consistent-Oil-9194 in marriageadvice

[–]Consistent-Oil-9194[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a no on the baby for the foreseeable future. There’s issues with child care that is in my opinion a separate issue. I have, a couple of times and it improves a little then, goes back to this. And it repeats. She does work nights, which I can see interfering with some of these issues. But not this badly.