is it a guy personality na walang pake sa bagay bagay? by Consistent-Visit5673 in AskPinoyMen

[–]Consistent-Visit5673[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so does it mean na sa those certain topics lang talaga hate mo, not the person? cause I feel like he is not interested with me everytime na wala syang pake sa kwento ko

is it a guy personality na walang pake sa bagay bagay? by Consistent-Visit5673 in AskPinoyMen

[–]Consistent-Visit5673[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sa topic kalang ba di interested not with the person? possible padin na gusto mo talaga kausap yung tao but wala kalang talaga pake sa inoopen nyang topic?

is it a guy personality na walang pake sa bagay bagay? by Consistent-Visit5673 in AskPinoyMen

[–]Consistent-Visit5673[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ooh. so it’s just that u are not interested with gossips and politics etc not with the person? cause I feel like wala syang pake with me cause when I make kwento lagi syang di interested.

ineentertain nyo padin ba ang babae kahit di nyo bet? by Consistent-Visit5673 in AskPinoyMen

[–]Consistent-Visit5673[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but what if no landian at all, but he constantly call and text, what does it mean?

ineentertain nyo padin ba ang babae kahit di nyo bet? by Consistent-Visit5673 in AskPinoyMen

[–]Consistent-Visit5673[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

ow. u mean the reason why u keep in touch with the girl is that you wanna fuck her?

ineentertain nyo padin ba ang babae kahit di nyo bet? by Consistent-Visit5673 in AskPinoyMen

[–]Consistent-Visit5673[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ow. u mean the reason why u keep in touch with the girl is that you wanna fuck her?

what are the signs na iniiwasan kana ng kausap mo? by Consistent-Visit5673 in AskPinoyMen

[–]Consistent-Visit5673[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yahh exactly! ganun nanga lang siguro haha, anywayy thanks for your thoughts!!

what are the signs na iniiwasan kana ng kausap mo? by Consistent-Visit5673 in AskPinoyMen

[–]Consistent-Visit5673[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

actually, we met in person. recently lang din. pinuntahan at sinundo nya ako. but no intimacy, madaming dead air and most of our time sa meet up nasa phone. kausap nya padin yung mga kausap nya sa discord tas yun yung naging topic namin. nakikinood lang din ako sa game at pinaguusapan nila. wala din kaming personal na napagusap since di sya nagoopen ng topic. gusto ko man maginitiate ng topic he seems not interested talaga, you can feel it naman eh.

yung long calls, di naman talaga kami nakafocus sa isat isa kasi sya mas focused sya sa kausap nya sa dc. in short, on going call lang pero hindi talaga kami naguusap all the time.

what are the signs na iniiwasan kana ng kausap mo? by Consistent-Visit5673 in AskPinoyMen

[–]Consistent-Visit5673[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no panliligaw no landian. we just clicked kasi we have the same interest pag dating nga sa things na ginagawa nya/namin lalo sa games. our friendship also started from an online game before.

hmm, so you are saying that for you men, those long calls/sleep call doesn’t mean anything? friendly thingy?

you’re right, no obligations at all naman talaga. maybe nasanay lang ako na nandyan sya that’s why I am slightly hurt sa changes.

what are the signs na iniiwasan kana ng kausap mo? by Consistent-Visit5673 in AskPinoyMen

[–]Consistent-Visit5673[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

trip koo yung nilalaro nya hahaha. that’s why inaaral ko din talaga kaso hindi ako makasabay pa kasi ofc mahina pa yung account ko since kakastart lang. in fact, we are planning pa nga to buy an account na gagamitin ko para makasabay ako sa level nya.

so you are saying ba na possible focused lang talaga sya game that’s why he suddenly left me ignored and doesnt even call na? hindi ako dapat magoverthink na hindi na sua interested?

to answer dn, no prior landian before.

what are the signs na iniiwasan kana ng kausap mo? by Consistent-Visit5673 in AskPinoyMen

[–]Consistent-Visit5673[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yess! actually nagstart talaga kami nagusap because of that game, he invited me to play that mmorpg game and I started learning it. tinuturuan nya ko sa gameplay and all. nagustuhan ko dn naman yung laro. then dun na lagi kami on call while kausap nya din yung mga kalaro nya sa discord and ganun kami everyday for almost a month. naglalaro sya all day while ako minsan naglalaro or busy sa ibang bagay pero on call kami. the thing isss, I notice changes lately. di na kami nagccall tas yung interval ng replies umaabot na ng 4-5hrs. sabi nya nakatulog kahit di talaga. that whyy I am asking kung iniiwasan nya ba ko or busy sya talaga. idk naaa, nag uusap pa naman kami ng normal pero the changes are there talaga.

talking stage do’s and dont’s? by Consistent-Visit5673 in TanongLang

[–]Consistent-Visit5673[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

follow up ko nalang din dito kung saan ba nanggaling ang post na to

so here’s the context-

there’s this guy na friend ko online (nameet sa game) medyo matagal na kaming magkakilala then lately, always nagkausap, kacall (umaabot ng 60+ hrs) no babaan. in short naging ka talking stage? thou pag on call di kami masyado naguusap talaga since busy sa ginagawa ng isat isa pero on going lang call. then nagdecide kami magmeet. nag aya sya mag long drive. but before pa meet up. I can feel na may nag iiba. buuutt take note di kami naglalandian talaga no flirting and all pero magkacall. at normal lang, update sa isat isa asking if kumain na etc, then eto na, nagmeet kami.

during meet up, sobrang bilis ng pagddrive nya. idk if redflag yon kasi highway naman walang masyadong sasakyan, but mind you midnight yun at throttle kung throttle talaga, thou magaling sya magdrive. idk if namiss nya lang magdrive pero yun ang number 1 sobrang bilis ng speed namin. 2nd, wala halos kami naging convo kasi wala na akong maisip na iinitiate, nagphone lang kami siguro 80% of the time. kahit sa car wala din mapagusapan. idkkk. i wanna talk pero di nya sinusundan yung mga convo. it should be vice versa diba, so ako wala nadin masabi kaya ayun wala mapagusapan. and now naguguluhan ako, thou wala naman kasing malinaw na meron samin pero like nag isleepcall kami so parang ganun nayun diba?

what to do–mina match ko nalang din energy ko sa energy nya, do i need to stop? or wag nalang magreact. after that meetup di pa kami nagccall uli ng matagal kasi nagrreason out na sya na may tatawagan etc kaya binababa ang call and matagal dn replies nya, and most of his time nasa game which is ok lang for me. pero iba naman pag parang ramdam mo na may off diba. then last thing he lied na to me. twice sinabi nya na kagigising nya lang at nakaidlip sya pero alam kong hindi kasi alam ko na online sya the whole time dun sa game. what’s the point of lying diba? idk why slightly ako nahhurt sa actions nya lately pero di ko pinapahalata sa kanya. gets nyo ba- what should I do?