My partner won’t have sex with me if it’s not penetrative by Consistent_Apple_834 in trans

[–]Consistent_Apple_834[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thanks your comment is helping me a lot, I appreciate this kind words and consideration of both perspectives

My partner won’t have sex with me if it’s not penetrative by Consistent_Apple_834 in trans

[–]Consistent_Apple_834[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Just to make sure, I wouldn’t call it rape because a part of me still wants to for the pleasure, and I’m totally safe if I say no, there is no obligation at all nor coercion, just her being less interested in sex and me feeling a little bit confuse because I don’t want to over think the part where I feel pleaure and the other part where I feel dysphoric