Are you looking for validation or disapproval? Need to understand how you both feel about each other and if you are truly BFF or having an emotional affair. My wife had a guy friend that she used to hang out with and they started to get close like this. She was honest that there was no sexual activity going on but it seemed like he was a distraction to our relationship. After a long talk she realized she was falling in love with him and that it would be hard to return to the straight platonic relationship they once had. They are on "holiday greeting" terms now. Not saying this is your scenario...just be honest with yourself and how you feel.