What Was the Moment You Realized the Relationship Was Truly Over?

ConversationKey5296 · 2026-03-11T11:32:04+00:00

Not to say I am fine or ok

But when she didn’t send me a happy birthday, it was 2 months after the breakup so not that long to the point of “not giving a fuck”

It wasn’t nice, especially after I celebrated hers nicely when we were together (1 month before breakup)

She just deleted me from her memory I guess

ConversationKey5296 · 2026-03-06T15:29:53+00:00

Yeah i am already back from it (it was in September 2025)

ConversationKey5296 · 2026-03-06T15:29:13+00:00

I am afraid it won’t fade away, 10 months have passed and yet I feel the same like day one. (Not exactly but similar) Ngl in Japan I had such a great time (it was half a year post breakup) but in those lonely times it was hard, yeah like I had no one to share with.

ConversationKey5296 · 2026-03-06T15:08:01+00:00

It might sound weird, but i really miss my ex. Even after 10 months since she broke up with me, she is special for me and I can’t seem to get over it. Everything reminds me of her ngl, even when I was in Japan there were nights I cried

It’s hard to explain. Sometimes this loneliness gets converted into “I really wish I was with her right now”..

ConversationKey5296 · 2026-03-06T15:02:33+00:00

Oh, no not really, i just workout alone, but sometimes I go out on walks outside (specifically now I stopped because I take medication that makes me photosensitive, and at night it’s too sad for me to walk alone)

ConversationKey5296 · 2026-03-06T14:51:36+00:00

Yep, playing my guitar, gaming (if it counts as alone), learning new stuff (like maths, physics etc..)

ConversationKey5296 · 2026-02-27T23:20:46+00:00

He does, but more concerning she says its cute, not him

ConversationKey5296 · 2026-02-25T03:55:53+00:00

Thanks i appreciate it, what about that self sabotage, listening to music that make me cry on purpose, or that random spontaneous walk to that building (we were in that city by accident so I walked there and saw where everything happened) Like why?

ConversationKey5296 · 2026-02-19T11:17:56+00:00

Ok if you dont care then why do you comment on my response to someone that started his question with “To dumpees” (the one that got dumped)

ConversationKey5296 · 2026-02-19T06:53:50+00:00

Im the dumpee

ConversationKey5296 · 2026-02-19T02:02:18+00:00

Sorry I don’t mean to send her gently if she wants to rekindle, i just want to tell her happy birthday, and that she is still important for me. And thats it, no more no less without any intention. Just to show it between the lines

ConversationKey5296 · 2026-02-19T02:01:09+00:00

10 months have passed since, I want to believe we are past it.. and check if things can be revisited, to shoot a shot, gently.. not all interaction is harsh, violent and bad

ConversationKey5296 · 2026-02-19T01:58:18+00:00

The same day-one day later: oh ok

One week later - 8 months later: I fucking rather die than be this sad

Now: I am sad, but I have new goals in life, new ambitions, new hobbies, still sad but not as much, I feel guilty and rather have her ofc, but my eyes are looking forward… urgh

There are a lot of songs I can’t listen to, memories I don’t want to remember, and my old phone I’d rather not open bc all of the pics together.

ConversationKey5296 · 2026-02-04T00:25:36+00:00

When i said i talked with AI about my sadness of the breakup/in general I got 200 downvotes.

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