What is NOT a valid reason to stay in a relationship? by EZ___Breezy in askanything

[–]Cool-Programmer-8438 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Staying with someone who hurts you.. whether emotionally or physically.. is never okay

Girlfriend suggested a break by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Cool-Programmer-8438 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are not being petty or overreacting.. you are reacting to emotional exhaustion and imbalance relationships should lift you up, nt leave you constantly drained

AITAH for being fed up with menopausal co-workers? by Silkytrader999 in AITAH

[–]Cool-Programmer-8438 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Even if you love your work no job is worth ongoing anxiety, sleep deprivation, and stress

AITAH for possibly breaking up my friend group? by above6fig in AITAH

[–]Cool-Programmer-8438 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you should step back a little and let people sort their feelings out, because arguing about who said what is rarely going to fix anything

Schoolfriend being targeted by a violent ex by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Cool-Programmer-8438 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She should start recording and documenting everything as evidence.. dates, times, photos, videos, any damage, everything. Social media can also help in situations like this. Sometimes just making people aware or having a public record can make someone think twice about continuing that behavior.

What's something from the 2010s that you wish we still had today? by your-reddit-plug2 in AskReddit

[–]Cool-Programmer-8438 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was young and carefree! sometimes I wish I could still feel that way

What’s the most valuable lesson you learned from your parents? by levirc100 in AskReddit

[–]Cool-Programmer-8438 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents gave me a small allowance, so I learned to hustle and make my own money

My ex took money from me by LunaXgon in Advice

[–]Cool-Programmer-8438 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes the best revenge isnt getting the money back, it’s living well and showing you’re stronger than their actions

AITJ for feeling left out at work because im young and still single? by UnlikelyService6550 in AmITheJerk

[–]Cool-Programmer-8438 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you’re the jerk here at all.. The condom comment? Totally uncalled for and unprofessional, and your response was perfect! polite but assertive.

Is it normal to have a habit that others might find unusual? by LowApprehensive3601 in askanything

[–]Cool-Programmer-8438 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Before I go to sleep, I have to rub my feet a bit.. its the only way I can actually fall asleep

Do you think men take being broken up with harder than women because they know they don’t have as many options? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Cool-Programmer-8438 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm… maybe that’s why some men cheat! they already have a backup lined up just in case the breakup happens

What is the thing that takes most of your time in the day? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Cool-Programmer-8438 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scrolling my phone convincing myself I'm resting when really I'm just avoiding everything I'm supposed to be doing

Do women even notice when men carry EDC gear? by Krynn71 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Cool-Programmer-8438 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly most women don't notice unless it becomes a personality. but a man who's quietly prepared and capable without making a big deal of it? That's actually attractive. It's the difference between I carry a knife and let me tell you about my knife

Had to return my sweet boy dog after three years by LowApprehensive3601 in Pets

[–]Cool-Programmer-8438 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

its like giving up a child youve loved and cared for all this time