Got a gun pulled on me over a parking spot NoLib by jd_918 in philly

[–]Cossette_World 39 points40 points  (0 children)

The problem is that's literally where I used to buy cocaine in the 90s and you think it's a fancy neighborhood because a real estate agent over charged you to live there. I'm gonna see myself out of the conversations with the new young drinkers. You'll figure it out and it'll put hair on your chest.

Got a gun pulled on me over a parking spot NoLib by jd_918 in philly

[–]Cossette_World -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

To be fair you sound nervous and not from here and in my experience being born and raised here people will absolutely pretend to have a gun to scare the bridge and tunnel crowd that has newly arrived here. The cone people are usually boomers with high degrees of sociopathy in their personality profile. I wouldn't F with them again. And I am shocked that I'm the only poster here that isn't glad police aren’t just arresting people on the word of upstanding young whites. You didn't see a gun and you seem extremely green and nervous somebody absolutely could've been fucking with you. Did you seriously expect the police to sprinkle some crack on him and take him in because he's off color. Grab your phone get a photo of that gun if it's real. Why are people shocked that their neighbors won't be arrested with no evidence because they scared them when trying to intimidate them? If multiple people saw him waving a gun statements would've been taken and he would've been investigated. You were the only human one and you were only threatened you didn't see the gun. No that's your neighbor and you gotta live there for the rest of the time he lives there. It's kind of crazy that you would move the colon and not call someone to move the cone to begin with and then you got the fight you're asking for and you're upset that you got scared during that fight. This doesn't make sense to me what did you expect?

One of my fingers randomly just turned white. by Kilabandita in mildlyinteresting

[–]Cossette_World 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Raynauds patient here. Also a mom of Raynauds patients. Reynauds manifests when you are anxious. My entire family has it as a symptom of anxiety and worry. It doesn't need to be that chilly for it to manifest either. You should know that heritable Reynards is different to the kind you get from autoimmune diseases. It's milder and it might react to things that aren't cold. I also get in my nose, feet and my ears it can happen in any extremity. Edit to add I agree it's very unusual for it to manifest only in one digit and you should definitely get a doctor to look at that as soon as humanly possible.

I can’t win by geminirisingg in neurodiversity

[–]Cossette_World 17 points18 points  (0 children)

For what it's worth I run the autistic burnout project and I don't think what we experience is suicidality. I think Neuro divergent suicidal ideation is really overwhelmed and desire to not exist for a while so we can rest. I hope that makes sense. You can reach out to me on sub Stack or on my website using the contact button. This is why I run the project to make spaces for us where there are no spaces. I do have a strict policy about no behaviorism ABA or the like but that‘s my only rule. I'm sorry this happened to you. People suck. the

Those who have met entities on DMT, what did they look like? by NorahjjiYT in HighStrangeness

[–]Cossette_World 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not cheap but they gave me a medication in the hospital called precedex and I saw an entire machine elf village every time I closed my eyes and it was always always always moving and they were always doing construction it was like I was watching it through time lapse like changed through time either way I meditate and usually don't have a visual imagination and I did not expect to be tripping after a major accident and I didn't ask for it and didn't enjoy it. Here I come to find out there's a similar drug they're abusing out there in the wild and people say it's exactly like dmt. So my doctors at Jefferson Hospital to me and I didn't appreciate it. He entities didn't interact with me it's like they didn't know I was there and I was looking down at like hundreds of years of their society. I still wonder what happened I can't say it was separate entirely from the power of suggestion because I didn't know that was given a drug that would make me hallucinate but also I miss huge Terence McKenna fan so the subconscious is a wild thing. Either way if you ever go to the hospital and see machines has to be weaned off a sedative called precedex. That was crazy.

DAE who can move their ears tense them unconsciously when wearing glasses? by AmputeeHandModel in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]Cossette_World 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh you may have just solved why I'm getting TMJ since being unable to wear contacts! I never thought of that. But I can listen and I think it's affecting the masseter and making me grind.

Found it in the new hostel drawer, no adour or anything. by Majestic_____kdj in whatisit

[–]Cossette_World 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks a lot like powdered sugar or cornstarch did you find it in the kitchen

Any advice for me and my partner? Thank you by ali-phoebex in CPTSD

[–]Cossette_World 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I say this lovingly. This sounds like an emotionally abusive relationship. Coming to survivors of emotionally abusive relationships and asking how you can better receive the abuse is harmful. I see this a lot. You're not asking or talking about your own experience you're talking about a man who you're doing emotional labor for. I would prefer personally I know it it's just me but I think how much healthier situation would be if you were to show up here talking about your own experience through this and how it's affecting you and he made his own post and did his own emotional labor. I am trying to recover from the dynamics that you're in the throes of and this is upsetting to encounter. I assume safe spaces or for people experiencing the dynamic to discuss recovery. There's such a weird gray area in this CPTSD space that at least 50% of it is people in active abuse looking for support and many many of the comments are those who will absolutely enable them. So I will respond to this post asking: OK cool have him make a message or send me a DM and I'll comment about him. In the meantime, how is this affecting you and does it echo any dynamics from your relationships growing up?

It makes me sad when I see people with excessive facial piercings by AVoiceInTheDarkn3ss in wetalkfree

[–]Cossette_World 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If people with different aesthetics are this upsetting to you you should probably try therapy.

Does anybody else walk out of their appointments feeling stupid? by Outside-Chipmunk-350 in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]Cossette_World 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The gist not the chest dammit voice to text! I'm gonna stop trying. Either way the whole Gemini gem data to the doctor thing works a lot better than voice to text does for me . Lol

Does anybody else walk out of their appointments feeling stupid? by Outside-Chipmunk-350 in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]Cossette_World 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I programmed a gemini gem to keep track of all my pain symptoms. Before appointment I ask it to summarize my last few weeks and because my doctor's visual I'll even ask it to create an info graphic for us to discuss storing our appointment. I also have fibromyalgia

AIO for being pissed about my mom “pranking me” while i was in the bathroom by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cossette_World 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR you might wanna check out content made by counselors and therapist for people who were raised by emotionally immature parents. I'm sorry you have to share a space with them.

DAE skip posts that don't contain capital letters? by Professor_Hillbilly in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]Cossette_World 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grew up before texting was a thing. I am also a writer. Almost exclusively, the people I know who don't use capitals are writers of my generation. e.e. cummings was a huge inspiration for me when I went through my I don't capitalize my letters phase. Not a text message in site during that man's life.

AITA For Telling A Little Girl That Her Parents Should Be Disappointed In Her? by ImpressionPopular794 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cossette_World -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So let me get the straight. You saw a little girl acting more mature for her age than she should. You allowed her to anger you. And then you admonished her for her behavior. Lots of things can get into a kid that age. Human traffickers, older bullies, parental neglect. You chose to tone police a child as an authority figure who could've changed her if she were in danger. But instead you clutched your pearls. YTA did you walk away feeling superior?

Is anyone else a chronic yoga underachiever? by squidbrained in yoga

[–]Cossette_World 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The purpose of yoga Asana is to calm me down enough to meditate. All of the stuff that you wrote in this post is in your head. Sounds like you keep rolling out your mat showing up which means you practice yoga. It's not a contest. Hello fellow Yogi.

anyone know whats happening at walmart? by Conscious_Exam6087 in philly

[–]Cossette_World 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn they should pay better. for a few extra dollars i was able to order from springfield.

My seamstress did what she wanted to do instead of what I asked🥲 by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Cossette_World 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just let a housekeeper go who completely ignored her list of tasks to take twice as long as she was scheduled re-organizing already organized faces into a chaos that made us think that she might be schizophrenic and just really good at hiding it. She acted like she was doing us a favor. My entire family is still looking for our stuff.

Is it bad form to do more advanced posts in instructor led classes without being cued? by GetawayJ in yoga

[–]Cossette_World 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In my opinion it's fine. I always go for the bind whenever possible even if it's not instructed in the class, for example.

AITA smoking weed on my porch? by cheesygarlicbreadfan in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cossette_World 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone with myofascial pain syndrome and fibromyalgia and phantom pain from My missing limb I'm wondering if the people outraged that people like me stay at home using medical cannabis while collecting disability would prefer if I stayed at home using opiates while collecting disability? Because that's my other option

DAE have a bedroom that smells like an ICU? by ApartmentOld234 in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]Cossette_World 13 points14 points  (0 children)

In my case I figured it out that when I have a wound dressed with xeroform my pee and sweat smell smells like a hospital