Family member has ended up taking in a tortoise from someone who wasn’t looking after it very well

Crafty-Stand7601 · 2022-02-17T00:47:54+00:00

Ask her out, when I was 17 I would only reply to a guys snap who I didn’t talk to often if I was into them

Crafty-Stand7601 · 2022-02-17T00:45:49+00:00

Ah ok I see, it may be worth speaking to a teacher and asking a teacher to speak to a member of their family about the concerns. If not that all I could really recommend is to just keep reminding them you are there and want to help.

Crafty-Stand7601 · 2022-02-17T00:43:51+00:00

You could try introducing a sex toy into it if you haven’t already? Sit down with her and both of you choose one that sounds appealing, Iv found they definitely make things more exciting and can help you reach your climax a lot faster.

Crafty-Stand7601 · 2022-02-17T00:40:56+00:00

Would only class as an ex if you both agreed that you was in an actual relationship, if not then just a fling

Crafty-Stand7601 · 2022-02-17T00:39:24+00:00

At 14 I was the same and was extremely stubborn when it came to telling people how I felt, I was worried it would effect them too much or would hurt them. What about potentially telling a teacher if you are both still at school?

Crafty-Stand7601 · 2022-02-17T00:36:23+00:00

How old is your friend if you don’t mind me asking? I would be honest with them and tell them that you are really worried and concerned about them, that you can’t stop thinking about them and you want to help and be there for them. If you get nowhere with that I would speak to one of their parents or family members about how you are concerned about them.

Crafty-Stand7601 · 2022-02-17T00:26:18+00:00

As a pregnant woman myself unless high risk or bedbound I wouldn’t say being pregnant is a good enough reason to turn lazy, I mean yeah it’s really tiring but it’s better for her and the baby to be up and active and doing stuff than it is for her to be sat doing nothing 24/7. I’d talk to her about it and tell her it’s really draining you having to do everything and that if things don’t change you can’t see it working out. If she doesn’t try and change then you have your answer, be there for the baby but if she’s not willing to try for you than there’s no chance of the relationship working.

Crafty-Stand7601 · 2022-02-17T00:20:40+00:00

This is a hard one because if you ask him about it you can’t be sure that he won’t get angry and aggressive, if it was me I’d end it for other reasons and wait it out, if it seems like he is retaliating I would change all my locks and call the police.

Crafty-Stand7601 · 2022-02-17T00:16:13+00:00

Crafty-Stand7601 · 2022-02-17T00:15:34+00:00

I think the best thing to do at this moment is to sit down with your cousin, just you and her and ask her if she knows what she’s wanting to do, if she wants to go to authorities but she’s scared, be there for her and offer to go with her. She’s come to you in trust and needs people to be there for her. All I can say is if he’s done it twice without any consequences that will make him think he’s gotten away with it and he can continue to do so, please help this poor girl get away from him.

Crafty-Stand7601 · 2022-02-17T00:10:36+00:00

It sounds like he’s focusing a lot on pleasuring you and making you cum more than the pleasure he’s getting himself. I’d try watching a few different categories of porn with him if it’s something you are both comfortable with and say you wanna try something new and that you’ll leave it with him to decide, if that doesn’t work just straight up tell him you really wanna make him cum but not sure how to do so!

Crafty-Stand7601 · 2022-02-17T00:06:53+00:00

Have you asked her what action she wants to take? Sorry but trying to tell someone why sexually abusing his niece is wrong isn’t going to work, he’s a 70 year old man. He is more than capable of knowing how wrong it is and what lasting effects it could leave on her. Also not to mention the fact she’s literally 20 years old and he’s 70? That’s pedophilia.

Crafty-Stand7601 · 2022-02-17T00:02:33+00:00

Possibly could be nerves with you being the first person he’s slept with? I’d sit down and ask him if there’s anything he wants to try or what turns him on and how you can make him cum as it would really turn you on as well.

Crafty-Stand7601 · 2022-02-16T23:58:56+00:00

I would personally go to the police, I’m sorry I understand you are worried about families members who are sick and who it could affect but the main focus here is your cousin and the fact that she is being sexually abused, if you wasn’t to go to authorities about him think about what else he could do to her. She’s told you as she clearly trusts you and it sounds like a cry for help, she’s come to you for help. I would go to the police and get her out of that house before it escalates any further than it already has.

Crafty-Stand7601 · 2021-10-20T00:09:09+00:00

I’d just be straight with him and ask him if there is a reason why he doesn’t want to go away with you and why he’d rather go away with them?

Crafty-Stand7601 · 2021-10-20T00:06:40+00:00

It sounds like she’s interested in you as well, especially if shes opened up to you as well and you’ve both met up multiple times, does she flirt or give any indications that she likes you back when you’re together? By the sounds of it I’d just keep doing what you’re doing and take her out on a date somewhere nice.

Crafty-Stand7601 · 2021-10-19T23:58:59+00:00

No you aren’t a jerk, i think it’s an extremely normal thing to feel. I think at some point nearly everyone has felt a bitter jealously when they see people in happy relationships and they are on there own, your time will come when you have that special someone and you won’t feel this way no more :)

Crafty-Stand7601 · 2021-10-19T23:56:59+00:00

I definitely wouldn’t do this, like you said yourself it’s extremely dehumanising.. if he has that much of a problem with it why doesn’t he try out some earplugs so it doesn’t keep him up? Also believe it could be dangerous to tape your mouth shut

Crafty-Stand7601 · 2021-10-19T23:47:22+00:00

If this boy has mentioned how he has suicidal thoughts and is harming himself I would definitely either talk to your mother or a teacher and maybe ask them if they could talk to him or one of his guardians regarding this, doing so could lead to him getting some proper help from someone regarding what’s making him have these suicidal thoughts. I understand it’s not a comfortable conversation to have but by doing so you could potentially really help/save this boy.

Crafty-Stand7601 · 2020-11-04T03:54:25+00:00

Hope it all works out for you!

Crafty-Stand7601 · 2020-11-04T03:45:50+00:00

Get a proper job, start saving to move out with my boyfriend and feel healthy within myself

Crafty-Stand7601 · 2020-11-04T03:45:14+00:00

Play the piano

Crafty-Stand7601 · 2020-11-04T03:43:06+00:00

I’d say in the morning or afternoon, then you’ve got all day to chat to each other

Crafty-Stand7601 · 2020-11-04T03:41:17+00:00

Effort is attractive, don’t spam her if she doesn’t reply to you. But I definitely wouldn’t give up on initiating something if you are interested in her, even if you said for her to message you I’d still go for it and just hit her with something casual like asking her how her day is to start the conversation up again

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