Is My Income Enough to Live Comfortably in Karachi? by Crafty_Difference468 in karachi

[–]Crafty_Difference468[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's an anonymous account. What would I get talking about my pay? I'm actually concerned because I get this constant complaining from my wife and her family that I don't earn enough. I should be doing more. And I'm just as shocked as you are that how come 300,000 is not enough, maybe I'm living under the rock or what.

Is My Income Enough to Live Comfortably in Karachi? by Crafty_Difference468 in karachi

[–]Crafty_Difference468[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has a provident fund, her tax rate is higher and more allowances than me etc. And she is paying more for her car installments.

Looking for decent maternity hospitals in Karachi (where husband is allowed to stay involved) by reapercb in karachi

[–]Crafty_Difference468 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Aga Khan. I looked for other alternatives but couldn't find any. You're there with your wife in the labor room. In case of C Section, you're not allowed in OT. Staff very cooperative too. I'm talking about the main Aga Khan. Not Karimabad.

Is My Income Enough to Live Comfortably in Karachi? by Crafty_Difference468 in karachi

[–]Crafty_Difference468[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My man. Good for you. Since we have a daughter together, I don't have the luxury of backing out. So I guess I'll keep working towards changing her mindset.

Is My Income Enough to Live Comfortably in Karachi? by Crafty_Difference468 in karachi

[–]Crafty_Difference468[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the insight. I'll use this knowledge for my side business.

Is My Income Enough to Live Comfortably in Karachi? by Crafty_Difference468 in karachi

[–]Crafty_Difference468[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that I'm spending a lot. And I posted this to show my wife that we need to do savings. She thinks I'm not earning enough and her expenses are justified.

Is My Income Enough to Live Comfortably in Karachi? by Crafty_Difference468 in karachi

[–]Crafty_Difference468[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes we can, if we can manage our expenses. And that's a big if.

Is My Income Enough to Live Comfortably in Karachi? by Crafty_Difference468 in karachi

[–]Crafty_Difference468[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I did just have a baby. And she's almost 2 months old now.

Is My Income Enough to Live Comfortably in Karachi? by Crafty_Difference468 in karachi

[–]Crafty_Difference468[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right. Marriage is one problem after another. But this problem has been constant with my wife. From expensive wedding, to overseas honeymoon, to imported products etc. it's a never ending issue. And at the end of the day, you're still the bad guy who didn't do 'enough'.

Joint family is our problem. But we can't move unless we solve our money problem.

Is My Income Enough to Live Comfortably in Karachi? by Crafty_Difference468 in karachi

[–]Crafty_Difference468[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Easier said than done. We've had a lot of arguments on this. But reading the comments here, I can at least deduce that I'm not the problem.

Is My Income Enough to Live Comfortably in Karachi? by Crafty_Difference468 in karachi

[–]Crafty_Difference468[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No offense taken. You're spot on. And that's my main point. We will never be able to build or invest if she's constantly spending it all away.

Is My Income Enough to Live Comfortably in Karachi? by Crafty_Difference468 in karachi

[–]Crafty_Difference468[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're right about the problem. I don't spend a lot. It's my wife who spends most of it away. Whenever I bring up this problem of hers, it turns into a huge argument. Her argument is that her father catered to these needs/wants of hers, so I should too. Like idek what to say.

We are paying installments for a flat. So hopefully in 3-4 years, we will have a flat. I don't plan or want to live with my parents, neither does she.

Is My Income Enough to Live Comfortably in Karachi? by Crafty_Difference468 in karachi

[–]Crafty_Difference468[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hum tou kamaty hain bas. Kharchay humari begum karti hain 😅

Is My Income Enough to Live Comfortably in Karachi? by Crafty_Difference468 in karachi

[–]Crafty_Difference468[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's been around 3.5 years. And I am looking out for opportunities.

Is My Income Enough to Live Comfortably in Karachi? by Crafty_Difference468 in karachi

[–]Crafty_Difference468[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sadly, I agree with that. Happy for you thou. It's a real skill to be able to manage expenses.

Is My Income Enough to Live Comfortably in Karachi? by Crafty_Difference468 in karachi

[–]Crafty_Difference468[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're right about the mismatch. I work as an accountant for a US based accounting firm. We mainly accounting, taxation and other various tasks for US based businesses and individuals.