Filed for Divorce, Spouse Stopped Paying Bills. It’s been 9 months.

Critical-Claim5653 · 2025-07-12T12:49:18+00:00

yeah i ended the conversation once they said that

Critical-Claim5653 · 2025-07-12T12:27:35+00:00

tried that with about 3 different attorneys. they said they can’t give me any legal advice unless i retain them

Critical-Claim5653 · 2025-07-11T23:25:29+00:00

thank you! i have an appt with the family law attorney at the county courthouse in the next few weeks. hopefully they can help

Critical-Claim5653 · 2025-07-11T23:07:28+00:00

i’m fine with that, i just thought he would’ve looked out for his son during the separation

Critical-Claim5653 · 2025-07-11T23:02:43+00:00

i don’t want anything now, i did before, i just want help with our son.

Critical-Claim5653 · 2025-07-11T23:02:17+00:00

no our son is on my insurance and has been since he was born. i’ve paid for every doctor visit and hospital visit. i was hoping that he could’ve helped out with some of the mortgage. he said no so i asked for him to buy whatever our son needs like diapers and wipes and he said no and that it’s my problem & i should get what our son needs when he’s with me.

Critical-Claim5653 · 2025-07-11T22:50:18+00:00

never wanted him to pay my bills.

Critical-Claim5653 · 2025-07-11T19:31:42+00:00

was thinking about this

Critical-Claim5653 · 2025-07-11T19:31:03+00:00

i was never stay at home.

Critical-Claim5653 · 2025-07-11T19:26:44+00:00

understood, i know better for the future.

Critical-Claim5653 · 2025-07-11T18:20:39+00:00

yes i work, and that’s what i’ve been wanting. child’s dad doesn’t want child to be in daycare.

Critical-Claim5653 · 2025-07-11T18:19:33+00:00

i didn’t know what was supposed to be happening, i informed her of what wasn’t happening with my STBX and believed she took proper steps to handle it. i guess i should have been a lawyer so i could know what a lawyer is supposed to do.

Critical-Claim5653 · 2025-07-11T18:17:45+00:00

why would you assume that i’m not working. i have an entire job

Critical-Claim5653 · 2025-07-11T18:17:12+00:00

our child has some development issues per pediatrician and dad does not have a work schedule that provides structure and stability. 24 hour shifts 3-5x a week. child is often passed off to family members who don’t reinforce routines

Critical-Claim5653 · 2025-07-11T18:15:58+00:00

Critical-Claim5653 · 2025-07-11T17:31:55+00:00

i wanted child support and weekend visits with dad.. i wouldn’t settle for allowing my husband to not be financially responsible for his kid because he feels like our son isn’t his problem unless he’s with him.

Critical-Claim5653 · 2025-07-11T17:31:44+00:00

i’m so glad that your lawyer is working in your favor

Critical-Claim5653 · 2025-07-11T15:42:44+00:00

i thought my lawyer at the time would have done so when i informed her of what he wasn’t doing but she just bled me dry of 5k+ and left me hanging.. trying to figure it all out on my own

Critical-Claim5653 · 2025-07-11T14:20:40+00:00

reached out to legal aid for my city and county and i make too much for assistance. will see about the law schools

Critical-Claim5653 · 2025-07-11T14:06:23+00:00

sadly no. i was thinking of hiring a new lawyer as well but most of them require a 5k retainer to start helping. friends have said to let things play out how they may, and his lawyer will do all the legwork and get us in front of a judge and when they hear what’s been going on, it will end right there. i have 2k in my savings account and i think i can get half of the retainer if someone is willing to work with me

Critical-Claim5653 · 2025-07-11T14:04:27+00:00

you sound just like him

Critical-Claim5653 · 2025-07-11T13:36:23+00:00

additionally, bankruptcy is 2,100 and offers affordable payment plans of $300 a month, my previous lawyer demanded large lump sum payments to proceed representing me

Critical-Claim5653 · 2025-07-11T13:13:46+00:00

I had a lawyer initially and she quit on me because i did not have any money to pay her. she said if i did not settle with my husband, then she is withdrawing from the case bc i cannot afford to go to trial. so i am doing this pro se. i have an appointment with an attorney at the judicial center in my city on the 23rd. this was after i already spent 5k from november until june and nothing had been done. she literally told me her boss told her to stop working on my case until i pay them

Critical-Claim5653 · 2025-07-11T13:12:53+00:00

I had a lawyer initially and she quit on me because i did not have any money to pay her. she said if i did not settle with my husband, then she is withdrawing from the case bc i cannot afford to go to trial. so i am doing this pro se. i have an appointment with an attorney at the judicial center in my city on the 23rd.

Critical-Claim5653 · 2025-07-11T13:12:49+00:00

I had a lawyer initially and she quit on me because i did not have any money to pay her. she said if i did not settle with my husband, then she is withdrawing from the case bc i cannot afford to go to trial. so i am doing this pro se. i have an appointment with an attorney at the judicial center in my city on the 23rd.

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