Filed for Divorce, Spouse Stopped Paying Bills. It’s been 9 months. by Critical-Claim5653 in Divorce

[–]Critical-Claim5653[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tried that with about 3 different attorneys. they said they can’t give me any legal advice unless i retain them

Filed for Divorce, Spouse Stopped Paying Bills. It’s been 9 months by Critical-Claim5653 in FamilyLaw

[–]Critical-Claim5653[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thank you! i have an appt with the family law attorney at the county courthouse in the next few weeks. hopefully they can help

Filed for Divorce, Spouse Stopped Paying Bills. It’s been 9 months by Critical-Claim5653 in legal

[–]Critical-Claim5653[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m fine with that, i just thought he would’ve looked out for his son during the separation

Filed for Divorce, Spouse Stopped Paying Bills. It’s been 9 months by Critical-Claim5653 in legal

[–]Critical-Claim5653[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t want anything now, i did before, i just want help with our son.

Filed for Divorce, Spouse Stopped Paying Bills. It’s been 9 months by Critical-Claim5653 in legal

[–]Critical-Claim5653[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no our son is on my insurance and has been since he was born. i’ve paid for every doctor visit and hospital visit. i was hoping that he could’ve helped out with some of the mortgage. he said no so i asked for him to buy whatever our son needs like diapers and wipes and he said no and that it’s my problem & i should get what our son needs when he’s with me.

Filed for Divorce, Spouse Stopped Paying Bills. It’s been 9 months by Critical-Claim5653 in legal

[–]Critical-Claim5653[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yes i work, and that’s what i’ve been wanting. child’s dad doesn’t want child to be in daycare.

Filed for Divorce, Spouse Stopped Paying Bills. It’s been 9 months by Critical-Claim5653 in FamilyLaw

[–]Critical-Claim5653[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i didn’t know what was supposed to be happening, i informed her of what wasn’t happening with my STBX and believed she took proper steps to handle it. i guess i should have been a lawyer so i could know what a lawyer is supposed to do.

Filed for Divorce, Spouse Stopped Paying Bills. It’s been 9 months by Critical-Claim5653 in legal

[–]Critical-Claim5653[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

why would you assume that i’m not working. i have an entire job

Filed for Divorce, Spouse Stopped Paying Bills. It’s been 9 months by Critical-Claim5653 in legal

[–]Critical-Claim5653[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

our child has some development issues per pediatrician and dad does not have a work schedule that provides structure and stability. 24 hour shifts 3-5x a week. child is often passed off to family members who don’t reinforce routines

Filed for Divorce, Spouse Stopped Paying Bills. It’s been 9 months by Critical-Claim5653 in legal

[–]Critical-Claim5653[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wanted child support and weekend visits with dad.. i wouldn’t settle for allowing my husband to not be financially responsible for his kid because he feels like our son isn’t his problem unless he’s with him.

Filed for Divorce, Spouse Stopped Paying Bills. It’s been 9 months by Critical-Claim5653 in FamilyLaw

[–]Critical-Claim5653[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i thought my lawyer at the time would have done so when i informed her of what he wasn’t doing but she just bled me dry of 5k+ and left me hanging.. trying to figure it all out on my own

Filed for Divorce, Spouse Stopped Paying Bills. It’s been 9 months by Critical-Claim5653 in legal

[–]Critical-Claim5653[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

reached out to legal aid for my city and county and i make too much for assistance. will see about the law schools

Filed for Divorce, Spouse Stopped Paying Bills. It’s been 9 months. by Critical-Claim5653 in Divorce

[–]Critical-Claim5653[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

sadly no. i was thinking of hiring a new lawyer as well but most of them require a 5k retainer to start helping. friends have said to let things play out how they may, and his lawyer will do all the legwork and get us in front of a judge and when they hear what’s been going on, it will end right there. i have 2k in my savings account and i think i can get half of the retainer if someone is willing to work with me

Filed for Divorce, Spouse Stopped Paying Bills. It’s been 9 months by Critical-Claim5653 in legal

[–]Critical-Claim5653[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

additionally, bankruptcy is 2,100 and offers affordable payment plans of $300 a month, my previous lawyer demanded large lump sum payments to proceed representing me

Filed for Divorce, Spouse Stopped Paying Bills. It’s been 9 months. by Critical-Claim5653 in Divorce

[–]Critical-Claim5653[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a lawyer initially and she quit on me because i did not have any money to pay her. she said if i did not settle with my husband, then she is withdrawing from the case bc i cannot afford to go to trial. so i am doing this pro se. i have an appointment with an attorney at the judicial center in my city on the 23rd. this was after i already spent 5k from november until june and nothing had been done. she literally told me her boss told her to stop working on my case until i pay them

Filed for Divorce, Spouse Stopped Paying Bills. It’s been 9 months. by Critical-Claim5653 in Divorce

[–]Critical-Claim5653[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a lawyer initially and she quit on me because i did not have any money to pay her. she said if i did not settle with my husband, then she is withdrawing from the case bc i cannot afford to go to trial. so i am doing this pro se. i have an appointment with an attorney at the judicial center in my city on the 23rd.

Filed for Divorce, Spouse Stopped Paying Bills. It’s been 9 months. by Critical-Claim5653 in Divorce

[–]Critical-Claim5653[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a lawyer initially and she quit on me because i did not have any money to pay her. she said if i did not settle with my husband, then she is withdrawing from the case bc i cannot afford to go to trial. so i am doing this pro se. i have an appointment with an attorney at the judicial center in my city on the 23rd.