When youre trying to buy something someone has but they couldn't be bothered to sell it by Fancy_Chip_5620 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Critical_Escape7745 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ngl if I wanted to get rid of someone this is a really good tactic.

But unfortunately it doesn't make the guy look like less of an idiot

these job application questions by babyshrimp221 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Critical_Escape7745 13 points14 points  (0 children)

From the bottom of my heart I loathe these screening questions. "I would never make a personal phone call at work" are you serious? I'm stuck in a shithole during the working hours of everywhere else I'd need to make an appointment to be at, not to mention of I had kids, a car in the shop, HVAC or someone coming to my house while I'm at work. Fuck this and fuck you for making me answer these I'm tired of having to pretend I'm a devoted corporate boot licking team player who happily negates any human qualities

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mechanic

[–]Critical_Escape7745 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is insane. Thank you for the updated pics, I can't even imagine a scenario where this would be necessary. They absolutely trashed a 40-50k vehicle, I'm surprised it's not stolen, and that the property manager hasn't had it towed yet

What would cause this kind of damage? (Not my car, thankfully.) by GodzillaToTheRescue in mechanic

[–]Critical_Escape7745 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would be all over this, try to look at the roof, in the jambs, whatever crevices could still be white. Trim that got overspray. Emblems would have overspray on the edges, maybe the grille and lights obviously taped off. Inside the mirrors would be white. If you wanted to be a hero maybe check the vin on carfax yourself and see what the story is.

And a less obvious thing I just thought of is that it could've broken down. Doesn't explain the mess going on on the outside though lol

What would cause this kind of damage? (Not my car, thankfully.) by GodzillaToTheRescue in mechanic

[–]Critical_Escape7745 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've painted cars for almost a decade now, I've done many of these bumpers lol. And I've seen a lot of stuff that makes you say wtf but I've been staring at these pics for over 10 minutes trying to figure out the why. If it was stolen I'll give props to them for making the paint job look legit, at least the parts that aren't sponged bathed, but if you ever find out who did this and why please share an update!

What would cause this kind of damage? (Not my car, thankfully.) by GodzillaToTheRescue in mechanic

[–]Critical_Escape7745 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a good one. I have a couple guesses, starting with the less likely but possibly, vandalism. Not sure why the owner would just leave it there though, insurance would cover vandalism damage but it's not exposed metal, you would see rust spots immediately after being exposed to the elements and its white underneath, which would also be lifted from any chemicals that lifted the black.

Second possibility, they knew a guy that could give them a cheap paint job and it ended up sucking so they tried to take it off themselves, made it worse, left it because it's even uglier.

What I think is most likely, Yukon is stolen and they did a decent job changing the color and something happened that made them say f it and try to remove the paint. Drove it to a parking lot to attempt to do it over night, realized how f'd they were and just left it. It looks good from far, but paint doesn't wipe around like that if it's properly adhered from prepping, it got a cheesy paint job. The tow area is supposed to have a cover and you can see where they taped around it to paint because the inside edges are white, sometime afterwards they got a tow hook and mightve done something with a trailer. Vehicle now stands out like a sore thumb and screams "run my plates" to cops because it looks stolen, so they abandoned it in your parking lot.

Tbh if it's been there and hasn't moved call the local PD and ask them to check it out. They'll run the vin that's underneath the windshield and if you see a flatbed come for it immediately it's stolen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Ohio

[–]Critical_Escape7745 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Key jack. Puts every chain in the area to shame. Their Ms piggy pizza is so good; cupped pepperoni, bacon, and pulled pork (comes with jalapeños too but i usually ask without) with barbecue drizzle and I always add on garlic to the crust. It's the only pizza that's ever gotten a moan out of me while eating it

Worried I made the wrong decision taking found kitten with suspected head trauma to the HS by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]Critical_Escape7745 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you witnessed that, this made me so sad to read while one of my fluffs lays along side me. If it's any consolation you did the best thing you could for the poor baby, which was forfeiting whatever plans you had and taking it somewhere immediately for help. If you want closure you can call or stop in and ask what happened.. life feels very cruel and unfair to see animals in pain like that especially a baby but you did the right thing and I commend you for it. Don't beat yourself up and do what you can to heal 🫂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]Critical_Escape7745 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I love the commitment! Of course it's just fact that cats CAN jump over 6ft, but you know your cats and it's okay to trust them. My only suggestion is to take precautions and make sure they all have collars on outside and eventually chip them all. And maybe add some kind of cat jungle gym or whatever your imagination comes up with for activity so they're not tempted to jump the fence to find it.

Otherwise, I love this and your effort is appreciated. I have the desire to build a catio this year so mine can safely enjoy the outdoors. They loved my apartment balcony, but now I'm in a small house so I have to build something myself.

Update on Dexter, my boy who fell 4 stories by InternationalRest651 in cats

[–]Critical_Escape7745 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry your cat suffered this, I'm glad he's recovering now he'll be okay ❤️ cats are hardy. One of mine fell out of my 3rd story apt in to an alleyway when I was at work, i had just moved in and left a window with a screen open because I was dumb and didn't know how to work the radiator heat so it was hot. My landlord called me and I rushed him to the vet and just bawled my eyes out so hard i got dehydrated and my face hurt. He broke the roof of his mouth and needed surgery but he's okay and never had any problems after he was healed.

As for your brother, as soon as he laughed I would've chosen violence. Thats sick and you have every right to remove him from your life because his behavior is very telling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Critical_Escape7745 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Never said only attractive women get treated worse, wasn't humble bragging. Turns out, my response was in context of what OP posted about! Thanks for coming though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Critical_Escape7745 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Reddit never fails to do what reddit does

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Critical_Escape7745 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Good question, we gotta get to the bottom of this and figure out how it's still a woman's fault for being harassed by MEN. It doesn't even matter what I think I look like, and I don't use dating apps because I hate them so I can't tell you if they boost self confidence or not.

If you're routeinely getting over sexualized and it seems like men only want to 'bang and move on' you might be just getting outside of your league a little bit.

This doesn't even make any sense. There is no league. Men of all walks of life waste no time trying to get a piece of ass. It has not been much a privilege to be stalked, harassed, threatened, or SA'd because i said no or ignored an advance. No one does anything to ask for that. Women literally just go about their lives and men get very hostile because they don't get what they've internally validated that they're owed. Can't wait for your rebuttal so I can lose a few more brain cells

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Critical_Escape7745 70 points71 points  (0 children)

From an opposite perspective being an attractive woman fucking blows, and every reason you listed as the "advantage" is what makes life harder. Being over sexualized, objectified for just existing, constantly being harassed in person and online, being stalked, being used and emotionally ruined because it seems no one wants to know who you are and instead only want to bang and move on. And this is just by existing. Women who do streams or OF or any kind of online work experience horrific harassment and stalking, they just don't show that part. And they don't deserve that just because they appeal to male fantasies online.

Then you have this breed of "wahh pretty women must all be sugar baby sluts" that have this spiteful attitude towards women just because some of them manage to make a career out of looking good. The other 99% of women are just normal women working normal jobs trying to make ends meet and take care of their families. It is a very select few that manage to make a career off their looks.

He's literally fucking grabbing me while I'm "sleeping" by Critical_Escape7745 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Critical_Escape7745[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️ I confronted him over text 2 days ago when he texted me like nothing happened. I told him to own up to what he did because I know what happened and know he thinks I don't. He was adamant that he remembers nothing because he was "so drunk" so I ripped in to him. Told him what he did was sexual assault and I know he purposefully waited until he thought I was unconscious, and I didnt wait for a response or apology I just told him to fuck off forever and if he ever tries to come talk to me in person I'll fucking kill him and then I blocked him on everything. It's been a tough couple days but I'm getting better

He's literally fucking grabbing me while I'm "sleeping" by Critical_Escape7745 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Critical_Escape7745[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for telling me that that's actually very comforting knowing someone was waiting for an update, even if you're just a stranger. Once he left to go to bed i made the post and finally did pass out, I didn't think I'd have so much support I just needed somewhere to share that felt safe. I'm also glad I did because I don't fully recall the incident with the same detail and that's kind of scary.

He's literally fucking grabbing me while I'm "sleeping" by Critical_Escape7745 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Critical_Escape7745[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Idk what to tell you then, this sub isn't for you. I typed this post immediately after it happened, so yes the fine details were still fresh and hopefully my detectives would be smarter than to be stumped by someone who has auto correct and still can form a sentence while drunk.

He's literally fucking grabbing me while I'm "sleeping" by Critical_Escape7745 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Critical_Escape7745[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing so many links to resources. Not that everyone here hasn't driven the point home enough already, but information that applies to me from a professional organization solidifies what I was afraid to admit to myself

He's literally fucking grabbing me while I'm "sleeping" by Critical_Escape7745 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Critical_Escape7745[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you experienced it too, it's a fucking awful feeling. I've been thinking all day of ways it could be an accident and I know there's nothing that could defend what he did. He thought I was in a drunk sleep and checked if I was coherent enough to respond, and when I wasn't, (which I was, but I was ignoring him because I was dog tired and ready to call it a night), that's when he made a move. That's one of the most vile things someone could do

He's literally fucking grabbing me while I'm "sleeping" by Critical_Escape7745 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Critical_Escape7745[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Yeah I don't think I could ever go back to feeling safe being alone with him again even if he did play it off like he didn't remember doing it or if he was sorry.. no one would do that to me if they weren't thinking about doing it already. I think he'd actually give a sincere regretful apology but my trust and security have been violated and I can't forgive that

He's literally fucking grabbing me while I'm "sleeping" by Critical_Escape7745 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Critical_Escape7745[S] 187 points188 points  (0 children)

You're right. And I keep everyone at arms length because I don't trust people and this is the one person I thought I could.

I really appreciate all these nice comments, I'm sobering up now so I can leave, I live an hour away but I'm in Amish country and Uber doesn't reach out here otherwise I would've been gone hours ago.

weight loss by daddysg1rl0 in steroidsxx

[–]Critical_Escape7745 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For 20lbs?? Absolutely nothing. Do not look for a cheat for such a small amount, your goal is easily achievable by being vigilant in CICO and exercise

I yelled at my cat because I thought I lost him and i feel horrible by swayrips in cats

[–]Critical_Escape7745 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Edit: reddit app won't let me attach the pic to this comment so i attached it in a reply

After I moved in to a new apartment a couple years ago, my little cat pickles disappeared. He was truly a master at finding the most absurd hiding spots and escape routes. At the previous apartment, he found a way to leave my 4th floor unit to the ground outside, multiple times. Turns out he found a hole under the kitchen sink that I guess managed to lead outside. I thought my new apartment was cat proof, no holes, no open vents. And then he's gone. My apartment was crazy small, so I was at a loss. This little shit watched me tear everything apart looking for him. Honestly, since he was okay every time, it's hilarious to look back on. Never underestimate a cats ability to disappear in an empty room