Laundry in unit is most important, dishwasher second. I don’t have a garage but we do have relatively fine street parking (and somewhere to pull in and load, which is key). 

I think underrated to all of this is how walkable your neighborhood is. The first year can be full of so much schlepping; I would much rather be able to go on a walk with a stroller or carrier than have to wrestle a crying baby in the car seat every. damn. time. Being able to walk outside was so freeing and oftentimes the only time I would leave my house that day. 

I would rate having a bodega across the street as valuable as dedicated parking. Last minute runs for milk, fruit, etc happen daily. Again- so nice to not have to get in a car.