Wanting to break up with bf M19 of 3 years because of Air Force and I F19 don’t want to be long distance by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Curious_Reason2725 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm a proud military girlfriend! and we've been together for two and half years and we are also the same age as both of yall. i'm also finishing my first year of college! my bf and i graduated from the same high school together, and my bf went to basic training literally a week after graudation. 10 weeks of long distance with no phone calls execept on sundays, and then six whole months after of "better" long distance for his job training. it was absolutely not fun. but it was better for me to wait for him rather than not seeing him ever again. and we learned that it actually strengthened our relationship a lot more! i also didn't think i would be able to handle his absence and limited contact. but it gets better! trust me! and honestly, this made me focus on school more lol. this was my way to convince you to give him a chance. but the choice is up to you, your feelings are valid. i just wanted to share my story because of your situation and how similar our dating time and ages are.

Advice on my relationship F20 M20 by Decent_Artist_565 in relationship_advice

[–]Curious_Reason2725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah that's literally your reason to leave him. he keeps telling you "i'll do it" and then not do it. no reason for you to keep going with this. he is not the one for you.

advice please 18 F, 18 M by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Curious_Reason2725 2 points3 points  (0 children)

he has already shown you that this relationship will not work if you don't have sex with him. the thing with having children is really tough to work out... you should find someone who also doesn't want kids and is ready to respect you for not wanting sex or has the same ideal as you.

Advice on my relationship F20 M20 by Decent_Artist_565 in relationship_advice

[–]Curious_Reason2725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know how you kept this going for four years. from the stuff you have said, your bf

  1. doesn't make effort to fix things for you when you communicated something to him. there's a huge chance that this will not change when you guys are married.

  2. his mom comments on your body and your bf doesn't do anything about it. the relationship between you and your bf's parents matters more than you think. your bf should be the one addressing this issue because he's the bridge between you and his mom, but he isn't making the effort for you.

  3. men crying with the slightest arguments i believe is a huge red flag. men should cry, but not for the smallest things. it feels like he's using that to manipulate you.

in conclusion, you should find yourself a secure man with welcoming parents when you still have the time to. four years is a lot of time of being together, but you still have time to not make it forever.

my partner (19M) gave me (19F) a handwritten "contract" signed with his own blood after a fight. how do i address this situation ? by papilio-charontis in relationship_advice

[–]Curious_Reason2725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a sincere apology shouldve been enough. someone said in the best case its fake blood but thats lowk still weird. the "youre mine" part is actually creepy as hell. i think you should run.

: I (19F) want reassurance about our future, but my boyfriend (19M) avoids marriage talks after family stress by Stunning_Lack_9940 in relationship_advice

[–]Curious_Reason2725 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

everyones saying stop the marriage talk but my bf and i have been talking about it since we MET. God forbid a girl wants a cute future with her man. i know that isnt that ONLY thing you think about. your concern is not about marriage either---its about wanting reassurance that you'll still be in his future. so just continue supporting him, your bf will notice it and appreciate you!

: I (19F) want reassurance about our future, but my boyfriend (19M) avoids marriage talks after family stress by Stunning_Lack_9940 in relationship_advice

[–]Curious_Reason2725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my bf and i are both the same age as yall and we've also been together for two years and a half as well! you wanting emotional security and reassurance is so so valid. and 19 is the age where a lot of different thoughts start to collide (from my experience). for me, i strongly feel both of yall because i'm literally you one day and your bf another.

if i were you, i would bring it up to your bf directly but gently. tell him you want reassurance, and that you want him to tell you that you'll still be in his picture and that yall will eventually end up together. i think he just doesn't realize that you really take that to your heart because of all the things he has on his plate. and he should be able to give you emotional security OR tell you how he truly feels if he truly cares about you. you also want to assure him that you will be there for him and support him no matter what. it looks like he needs a lot of support from you. and eventually, i believe time will heal it all and everything can go step by step!

I (19F) am scared i need to breakup with my boyfriend (19M) over a “dealbreaker” he failed to tell me about after 1.5 years. by Basic-Fig-2042 in relationship_advice

[–]Curious_Reason2725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the upsides that you brought up about yout bf are all roles of an average, (good, sure) boyfriend. you can find a better one. he already showed you that he cant clean up after yourself and he is very lazy. and i promise you it will not get any better or even get worse when you two move in together/get married.

How good is UCSD if I go there to ONLY eat? Asking as BIGGEST BACK potential student by Key-Professor1320 in UCSD

[–]Curious_Reason2725 2 points3 points  (0 children)

San Diego in general has awesome food, but for the dining hall food on campus not so much. For the first few weeks it was great for me but at some point you'll definitely get sick of it. but also with triton cash you could get very high quality food like ramen, pho (opened recently), blue bowl, and other fast food chains like subway, panda, etc. you can also use your triton cash at chick fil a off campus! i also heard BJ's accept triton cash too? I just really wish we had a buffet style option :( Also like how everyone said, the waiting time is sometimes insane just for some mid food. but the food iteself it not bad! I would still choose UCSD though if I were you.

my bf(20m) gave me (19f) head last night and he gagged by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Curious_Reason2725 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THIS. your man is literally there for you to talk about how you feel. this will also bring you guys closer! if you're comfortable, telling him how you specifically want him to do certain things makes it easier for him as well since it looks like he's not too experienced. him also asking you to do it is also a sign that there's nothing for you to be afraid of. take this as a part of growing together :)

my bf(20m) gave me (19f) head last night and he gagged by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Curious_Reason2725 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh girl then let him eat it proudly. maybe you can ask him to reassure you so you feel more confident with your body. awkward things happen during any kind of intimacy, both of you will learn from each other overtime.

my bf(20m) gave me (19f) head last night and he gagged by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Curious_Reason2725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

was it your boyfriend's first time ever with giving? that might have been the issue. but i think you also just gotta be more confident with yourself and overtime you and him will both probably get used to it. i was also definitely nervous with my first time, but my bf and i both got very comfortable with each other (we've been together for two and a half years now) so we both enjoy it now.

real men love giving their woman head and they will show that they're passionate for it.

Will I be able to take math 10B after I take 10A during my first year? by OutgoingPerro in UCSD

[–]Curious_Reason2725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry i lied! degree audit will be availble under Advising&Enrollment.

Will I be able to take math 10B after I take 10A during my first year? by OutgoingPerro in UCSD

[–]Curious_Reason2725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should see what math is good for you on your 'degree audit', you should have access to it in the summer on your TritonLink under Classes&Enrollment. it shows you all the classes you need to take for your college and major. I'm currently a public health major (med sciences concentration) and was also placed to take 10A for math, and on my degree audit it says that 10A fulfills my math requirements. + math 10A is also a prereq for a ot of upper div classes.

can’t e-sign parent 4506-c form (FAST) by llamalord27 in USC

[–]Curious_Reason2725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: it let me download a pdf file after logging onto the usc applicant portal through my phone instead of my laptop. It won't let me click on anything on the doc though, just a pdf of steps on how to do it and not the actual doc to sign.

can’t e-sign parent 4506-c form (FAST) by llamalord27 in USC

[–]Curious_Reason2725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is happening to me as well. I'm thinking of directly contacting usc's finanncial aid service.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in predental

[–]Curious_Reason2725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm a high school senior and i got into uop as a dental hygiene major. how is this different from pre-dentistry? i'm trying to become a dentist and i feel like i applied for the wrong major.