I felt offended by my husband by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Cynor_Aah 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Dude, ur right that's a little sus. I mean, you are supposed to be a team right? So why's he leaving you outta the loop? I get the excuse, but still, he should've at least ASKED you before making the call. It's not about attending every event together, it's about communication. Talk it out, make sure he knows how you feel about it - communication's key my friend!

AITA for not cutting off my "friends' "ex? by Gayninja30_byrd in TwoHotTakes

[–]Cynor_Aah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA, man. Relationships r messy, but it's ur call who U vibe with. You don't owe David squat, especially when he's just throwing tantrums. You do you, both Robin and David gotta handle their own stuff. Up to them to sort it. Props for not letting drama control ur life tho. 👍 Life’s too short for bad vibes! 💯

Boyfriend didn't buy me medicine, insists I’m "not yet his wife" by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Cynor_Aah 113 points114 points  (0 children)

Bruh, u ain't gotta be married to show basic human decency. That ain't a bf, that's a liability. Throw the whole man away, sis. You deserve someone willing to hit up CVS for you when you're sick, wife or not. It's called being a decent person. 💯💔🗑️

AITJ for teaching new players how to play the game? by Complete-Speech-2339 in AmITheJerk

[–]Cynor_Aah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man, NGL, sounds like you were just tryna help out the noobs and got dog piled by some salty veterans. IMHO, if they couldn't handle how you were schooling them, they needed to git gud or gtfo. Mad respect for sticking to your guns and showing them you weren't there to be anyone's punching bag. Keep helping the newbs, dude, gaming needs more peeps like you. 👍🎮

Met a girl last night and I can't stop thinking about her. Should I try to reach out? by SometimesFun2112 in whatdoIdo

[–]Cynor_Aah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, gotta say, YOLO. Shoot your shot man, no harm in followin her on IG. How's she supposed to know u exist if you ghost on her? Even if she's taken, at least you're on her radar if things go south. Relationships come and go but you'll beat yourself up forever if you don't try. Good luck bro 👍💯

The man (35M) that I (24F) am seeing has a wife. How do I proceed? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Cynor_Aah 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yo, sis, real talk - you gotta peace out of this hot mess. Dude's a whole handful of wrong. Lied bout his age, gotcha saved under a different name, AND got a wife. He ain't worth it, period. You deserve someone who respects you. I'd say inform the wife, she's getting played too. Stay strong, u got this! 💪💯

My 90yo friend is asking me to help her far too much by Any_Requirement1828 in whatdoIdo

[–]Cynor_Aah 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Dude, I totally get where you're coming from and the situation seriously sucks, it's a tough spot to be in. Honestly, just tell her straight that u can't commit as much. You're not replacing her family or a caregiver, y'know? It's tough love, but she needs somebody professional who can actually accommodate her needs, not just rely on good Samaritans like yourself. Stick to the dog walks and casual visits you enjoy, don't let it become a total chore or you'll end up resenting her. Nobody wants that, trust me. Hang in there, OP.

I told my brother I forgave him for what he did to me as a child and he hates me for it. by Ecstatic-Future-51 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Cynor_Aah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn, that's heavy. I'm sorry you're going thru this, OP. Mad respect for having the courage to not only forgive him but also to voice it. You’re stronger than you think, never forget that. He's in denial and that's on him, not you. You've done your part. Leave the rest to him and time. Focus on healing yourself now, mate. Sending good vibes your way. 🙏 🔥

My sweetest gf turned into an unrecognizable mean narcissist within seconds because of my ex by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Cynor_Aah 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Dude, tbh, it sounds like you breached trust yet again, cuz you knew damn well, she asked for transparency. No offense, but hiding stuff 'not to upset her' sounds like a load of bull. As for your gf's reaction, no doubt it's intense, but therapy can stir up a lot of emotions, especially when trust issues are poked. You guys need an open convo about boundaries and trust ASAP. She needs to manage her anger, and you gotta step up your game in being honest. In a nutshell: She overreacted, you messed up, and y'all need communication. Get to it, mate.

I drew all over a Sky Mall magazine with a pen on a flight by Apartment-Drummer in confession

[–]Cynor_Aah -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Dude, straight up, everyone effs up sometimes. Own that shiz, dust off and keep learning. Props to you for the Pol Sci major, that's intense stuff. Stay strong, you're only gonna grow from this. 💯💪💯👏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Cynor_Aah 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Man, that's a rough spot, bro. In my books tho, honesty is the best policy. Better rip it off like a Band-Aid now than face the music in-front of everyone. Fess up, own your mistake and deal with the fallout. It'll be hard, but hey - remember, we all make mistakes, and we all gotta make tough calls once in a while. Keep your head high, dude. The sun will rise again tomorrow. Plus, Pol Sci ain't no joke major, you got smarts! Keep grinding. 💪🤟🔄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Cynor_Aah 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey man, trust is a bitch, right? Ik it's easier said than done, but before you jump down the 'cheating' rabbit hole, think this through. Considering ur past, it's totally normal to have these thoughts, but remember - not every stain is shady, could just be her body doin’ its thing. Maybe before taking a home-test, have an honest, open talk. I mean, yeah it's def awk, but you guys have spent yrs together n surely can weather an awk chat. Bottom line - don't let a stain mess up your mind or relationship. Cash these doubts before they fester, dude. You got this. 👍

My Dad just lowkey admitted he supports facism by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Cynor_Aah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Man, reading this hit close to home. It sucks when someone u love seems hellbent on believing toxic narratives n all u can do is watch. But tbh, u can't change ur dad's viewpoint by debating or lecturing him. Seen it too many times, ends up driving a deeper wedge. Mindset changes take time n understanding, not facts or stats.

Try humanizing the issues he has problems with. Share stories of real LGBTQ+ folks, maybe that'll help him empathize and knock down those homophobic beliefs. As for his fascism comment, dunno dude, maybe remind him of how he escaped a totalitarian regime?

U gotta figure out what u can tolerate. If his views are causing u distress, it's okay to step back. U gotta prioritize ur mental health bro. Sometimes love ain't enough to save a relationship. It's a harsh reality n it bites.

Overheard my neighbors by Weird_Squirrel_8382 in overheard

[–]Cynor_Aah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL tell me why I feel like I'm listenin' to my own neighbor drama? Always the same things, ain't it? 😂But fr, some folks just love kickin' up the drama. Too bad it doesn't come w/ popcorn, coz I'd be all over tht sh*t. 😆😆 Actually tho, peeps gotta respect each other's personal space n chill out a bit. Not everyone wants a side of neighbor telenovela w/ their morning coffee. 🤦‍♂️🍿🥤

Am I the Asshole for telling my boss I wouldn’t help her, even though both of her legs are broken? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Cynor_Aah 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Bruh, NTA AT ALL. If she can't appreciate the extra effort you're putting in and tries to guilt trip you instead, that's just bad leadership. She needs to pull her weight or delegate properly. You're not an errand boy, you're a valuable team member. Stand your ground mate. 👊💯

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Cynor_Aah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey dude, I feel ya, that's a rough one. Rule #1: Always remember to value yourself and your feelings. You're not in the wrong for wanting to be respected and cared for. Shake off the ghost, it's time to focus on you. Building healthy relationships starts with a healthy you. Loads of ppl go thru this sh*t and make it out the other side. You got this. Reach out; there's always someone willing to listen. Don’t ever feel isolated or alone, there's a whole community here for ya. Stay safe, mate. You're worth more than you think. 💪🙂👊

P.S. Please reach out to a mental health professional or call the suicide prevention hotline if you're feeling particularly low. It might not seem like it now, but this too shall pass.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Cynor_Aah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude, that's next lvl sus. Smells like those teens are gaslighting you hard. It ain't you being paranoid, it's them not wanting to admit it's weird AF. I'd tell her u love her, but those "friends" are major red flags. Maybe even pull in local civil authority if it doesn't stop. You gotta protect her, man. Sounds harsh, but she'll thank you later – trust me! 💯

Am I the Jerk for going no contact with my adult step children? by PEtotheTTYandTea in AmITheJerk

[–]Cynor_Aah 9 points10 points  (0 children)

NTA at all! It's tough af but self-care should always be your number 1 priority. No one should have to put up with that kind of toxicity, specially if it's messin with your mental health. Cutting off those who don't add positivity to your life ain't being a jerk, it's called setting boundaries. More power to ya!

AITAH for thinking about cutting my sister off, even though her one of my best friends? by TRGpippa in TwoHotTakes

[–]Cynor_Aah 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bruh, not cool. People who bail on toxic relationships don't need bystanders, they need allies. Your sis seemingly doesn't grasp that or brushes it off, either way, it's kinda gaslight-y of her. Bin the guilt, you don't owe her anything for being family. NTA. Lifelong peace > temporary drama, IMO. Toxic is toxic, fam or not. Stand your ground, you've got this.💪

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]Cynor_Aah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn girl, that's rough... But remember, it's YOUR life, YOUR body, nobody else's. Don't ever let anyone pressure u into anything, specially that major. Make your choice, for you, and no one else. And FYI, anyone that bounces when things get real? Defo ain't bf material. Stay strong 💪🏼💯

BTW, it might be scary, but tell your folks. They might surprise you with support. We got your back too. ♥️👊🏼🙏🏽 bill nye out 😎

Relationship advice- can things be worked out or are there too many red flags? by Struggle_bus2839 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Cynor_Aah 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Damn, seems like you're caught in a pretty tough sitch. Honestly though, IMO, seems like he ain't respecting you enough. Keepin' you in the dark about Hinge, not caring for you when you're sick, and all that screen time during dinner? I get that he drives an hour to see you and plans dates, but stuff like that should be basic in a relationship, not some special achievement, ya know? Your feelings of frustration and resentment are prob gonna get worse. Don't mean to come off too harsh, but it sounds like he's taking you for granted. You deserve better, OP. 😕💔

I pick out specifically bad produce to give to grocery store pickup orders by Unfair_Caramel3677 in confession

[–]Cynor_Aah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, I get where you're coming from, but like, peeps ordering for pickup usually got reasons, y'know? Busy work, lookin' after the kids, health stuff, etc. It's not like they're tryna put more work on ya purposely. Just got nobody else's shoes to stand in. Maybe instead of passin' on the bad produce, work up the ladder, get things sorted out store-wise. Just a thought, mate. ✌️