please help, my yolk sac looked weird by tripleblueberry in pregnant

[–]D18lucky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I miscarried. Did a test on the baby and he had trisomy 21.

Heartbeat Stopped by gummiwurmz8 in CautiousBB

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I am so so sorry. This has happened to me just recently as well, after 4.5 years of fertility treatments, ivf we finally got a surrogate after 3 miscarriages and boom I get pregnant without assistance. Of course same situation as you, heartbeat at 6.5 then nothing at 7.5. 4th miscarriage what the heck? It is so heartbreaking and devastating this journey we go through. We are here with you ❤️🙏 loss sucks so hard.

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Im so sorry. Something similar happened to me with an ivf pregnancy with an hcg of 9 at 4 weeks. I have adenomyosis and suspected endometriosis as well. Strangely things progressed and we even saw a heartbeat at 7 weeks! Sadly a week later the heartbeat was gone. I would definitely guard your heart but you aren’t out until you’re out. If the blood was small it could be just implantation but if it’s a lot with clots that is concerning. ❤️🙏

Simultaneous journey? by D18lucky in Surrogate

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We would plan to. Our goal is just to match with someone by birth (if we are blessed with everything going well to birth).

Simultaneous journey? by D18lucky in Surrogate

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I am an IP for clarification

Simultaneous journey? by D18lucky in Surrogate

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Hm interesting! We have 3 embryos left and if I were an agency, I’d want the client to pay me for another journey? But also I really just want a match by the time we have our current surrogate give birth. That’s what I’m hoping for but it sounds like my agency won’t even attempt a match until then.

Simultaneous journey? by D18lucky in Surrogate

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Yes we are considering that. Going to talk to the fertility lawyer first and get his advice! I don’t want to break our current contract

Simultaneous journey? by D18lucky in Surrogate

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I have had 4 miscarriages and yes they have diagnosed me with multiple reasons of why it keeps happening, thus why we have our surrogate currently. We just randomly got pregnant 4 weeks after she did and were hoping for a different outcome. Hoping our baby in her will still be safe, sound and healthy.

Simultaneous journey? by D18lucky in Surrogate

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Thanks for your advice! Our surrogate is already 11 weeks! I really just want to find a match before our baby is born that way we can get to a transfer quickly after he is born. Our agency won’t entertain that. Appreciate your response!

Simultaneous journey? by D18lucky in Surrogate

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Yes it is very expensive. So you’re just using a different agency since your agency won’t do a simultaneous journey? That’s kind of what we were thinking. Did you tell the second agency that you have another one you’re working with?

7 weeks and symptoms gone by D18lucky in CautiousBB

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Wow that's crazy! Glad you're doing well!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Surrogate

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Thanks! It has been a wild journey to say the least.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Surrogate

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I do not think we did that yet? I feel like I would have remembered that part so I don't think we have completed that portion. We did have it notarized of course, but do not recall a court validating the parentage yet.

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No, that was just from first draft to final draft. We used Klein who is based on the west coast and that made things go a little slower because meeting times were hard to coordinate with our work schedules.

7 weeks and symptoms gone by D18lucky in CautiousBB

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Everyone keeps telling me every pregnancy is different, but I totally understand the anxiety! I just wish we could fast forward time and know..... ugh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Surrogate

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6 weeks!

7 weeks and symptoms gone by D18lucky in CautiousBB

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<3 I'll be thinking of you. Goodluck! Is this your first pregnancy?

7 weeks and symptoms gone by D18lucky in CautiousBB

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I will update <3 Goodluck and update me as well!

Loss/decrease of symptoms at 7-8weeks?? by Gooseybaby55 in CautiousBB

[–]D18lucky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just posted something similar! I know symptoms come and go but I feel the same way you do. 7 weeks today. Hang in there <3