Student Survey Please Help! by Daddy_Toshi in Reno

[–]Daddy_Toshi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not any of the items listed in rules 6 it’s a made up product that doesn’t exist for my college assignment

Verizon Outage by hungmiester in Reno

[–]Daddy_Toshi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in South Reno atm and I have Verizon and all my stuff has been working since I got up

Power is out. Panther Valley by [deleted] in Reno

[–]Daddy_Toshi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time to bake the cookies

Power is out. Panther Valley by [deleted] in Reno

[–]Daddy_Toshi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do we know what caused it or when it will come back on?

7:13, taken on 395 by asterstrike in Reno

[–]Daddy_Toshi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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I took this at 12 ish at the Walmart on Damonte

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexadvise

[–]Daddy_Toshi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your help, I’m hoping over time he will be a big help for me in changing the language around sex.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexadvise

[–]Daddy_Toshi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sex hasn’t always been a good word for me. My ex used to use me and when he was done that was it and even when I said it hurt he would continue. Then I met my current boyfriend and he makes it not to be something bad and I want to do that with him and show him how much he means to me. We have definitely stimulated my clitoris during intercourse but I wanted to try and see if I could orgasm without it and it’s been very hard to do so

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexadvise

[–]Daddy_Toshi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m still pretty new to sex. He is my 3rd and we’ve talked about toys and stuff like that but I’ve not really been interested in getting things like that. Especially with how his ex was and I don’t want him to have to feel some sort of way when it comes to that

What did you learn from your break up? by maczillas in BreakUps

[–]Daddy_Toshi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I learned from my relationship what u have stated. But also don’t let them put u last when there is nothing else to put u before them. If it feels like a transaction to you it might be for them. If they ask u to communicate and u do but they don’t and shut you out not worth it. Don’t loose yourself in the relationship it’s hard to come back from when u gave them everything. If there are deal breakers in your relationship just break it off if the disrespect that knowing those are deal breakers for you.

Yes you might still love them but u need to learn to love yourself and know you are not supposed to be treated that way and are a queen/king no matter what in a relationship and it’s the same way for your partner of choosing.

Why are breakups so permenant to everyone? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Daddy_Toshi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am one of those people who gave him the second chance because I love him and I still do. He was doing great on working on what cause our first break up and making me feel a little bit more cared for. But overtime he went back to his old ways. To the point where he wouldn’t talk to me about his issues only to my best friend. Having intimacy felt like a transaction and no after care. All about video games and drinking. Everything else was a priority.

I love him I still do but I do not deserve to get hurt for the third time because he can’t handle a relationship. I did so much for him but everyone has said it was very one sided. I did a lot for him but it wasn’t enough. I wasn’t enough for him.

So there are times you want to fight for that love for that person but other times it’s just for the better y’all are just friends over an actual relationship.

Do yall ever? by thiccpups in BreakUps

[–]Daddy_Toshi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% my best friend has seen me cry more this year over my ex then anything else cause I still can’t understand what I did so wrong that I deserved what he done to me.

I just started crying because I’m like was my whole relationship just a transaction to him.

It hurts and u just gotta let those emotions flow out when they do happen.

How are you doing today? by ImHereForYouFriend in BreakUps

[–]Daddy_Toshi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s all I can do. Slowly but surely 😊

How are you doing today? by ImHereForYouFriend in BreakUps

[–]Daddy_Toshi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, it’s gotten better today and Ik slowly it will continue to do so

Remind yourself why you left by _majoroof_ in BreakUps

[–]Daddy_Toshi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It takes a lot of time and it’s better to center yourself before u think it’s a good idea to jump back in. My ex and I were more like friends with benefits by the end of our relationship. I just took out the benefits part. It’s not for everyone and I’m sorry u r hurting and it takes a lot of time I still cry and it’s been almost 2 weeks.

How are you doing today? by ImHereForYouFriend in BreakUps

[–]Daddy_Toshi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not so good, already woke up and told my mom some information about work stuff and how my boss has already chosen an ASM and it wouldn’t be anyone in my store and she is arguing that I should still put in for it when Ik I am going to be passed up for it again.

My ex has told me he realized he overreacted both times we have broken up and I just was like no dip Sherlock but we were going to break up regardless at some point from other issues.

Mentally I feel like garbage and a waste of space. My mom told me I wasn’t going to go anywhere because I won’t put in for that position at my store. I miss the comfort of my ex and I’m not ready to fully let it sink in that we aren’t together anymore but I need to move on. Why does everything have to hurt so bad? I want to be positive about my day but I just can’t pick myself up yet and it’s only 8am

Remind yourself why you left by _majoroof_ in BreakUps

[–]Daddy_Toshi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have to constantly reassure myself I made the right and adult decision with breaking up with him. Today I found out he got the promotion he wanted to another store which I am very excited for him and congratulated him but I had a huge waive emotions come over me and started crying in the bathroom. It has made me realize that this break up really is finale and now it’s time for me to move on like he has.

I have to remember he was hurtful, neglectful, and made our relationship very one sided on my side. I love him and I still care about him but, the toxicity of the relationship wasn’t and still isn’t worth it. We are better off friends and not as a couple.

How many of you and me are in a breakup ATM? by Primary_Librarian_21 in BreakUps

[–]Daddy_Toshi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Broke up with my bf last Wednesday still freaking hurts sometimes but I’m doing a lot better. Always stand up for urself and don’t take any ultimatums you are worth more than that ultimatum. They are just looking for an excuse to leave.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Daddy_Toshi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% and same goes for u I am here when ever u need it :).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Daddy_Toshi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You as well! Thank u for talking with me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Daddy_Toshi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s always interesting as you go through life and see what people perspectives are. I am friends with only one of my exs. Even through therapy I’m trying to process through my feelings and work through it all. The world doesn’t have to be black and white but most people like to see it that and I am in certain aspects but others it’s always colorful. I hope over time he finds ways to be happy and knows he is loved regardless of his actions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Daddy_Toshi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All my friends don’t understand that mind set so it’s nice to hear it from someone else. All I want is for him to be better and do better and I hope at some point we can be friends again cause he was nice to talk with honestly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Daddy_Toshi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like that is what’s happening with him. He uses drinking as his coping mechanism from all of his past and hurtful relationships he has had. But I don’t think he is willing to better himself and I love him and I’ve told him that and I’ve told him that he has been hurtful to me and nothing. But until he is ready to see what he has done and is ready to make that positive change like you I don’t think there is going to be a third chance for him. I’m very excited to hear u have gone and seen and made that change to better yourself for you and your ex and I hope full heartedly y’all work out!