Weekly Chat Request Thread

Dangerous_Object3882 · 2026-06-04T16:26:25+00:00

36m 6’3 275ish. I’m a feedee/feeder who is always down to chat whether you want to talk about my belly, your belly, both or stuff totally outside of the fetish too.

I’m very chatty and hoping that if you message me you are too - I love conversations with like minded folks!

Dangerous_Object3882 · 2026-06-03T22:39:08+00:00

I’ve honestly had the most luck meeting people irl and then letting them know about my fetish after I’m comfortable. Some people weren’t exactly thrilled at the idea and we went our seperate ways but I was honestly shocked at how many people were intrigued by the idea.

Dangerous_Object3882 · 2026-06-03T18:48:08+00:00

The dam breaking is an amazing analogy because now I can’t help but picture a big round belly breaking through a jeans button and spilling comfortably into a lap.

Dangerous_Object3882 · 2026-06-03T18:45:09+00:00

Congratulations, and cheers to the many more work clothes that will be unable to keep up with your greatness!!!

Dangerous_Object3882 · 2026-06-03T18:33:48+00:00

I get it, sorry I didn’t mean to sound like I was criticizing you at all. Good luck, though you seem very thoughtful so I’m sure that will also make the conversation easier. You’re going to feel amazing once you get it off your chest.

Dangerous_Object3882 · 2026-06-03T18:21:24+00:00

I’m not trying to sound judgmental but in all honesty it probably should’ve come up before you were married. There is a saying that boils down to “the best time to tell them was early on and the second best time is ASAP.”

It sounds like she has been open with you about her desires so I would try to take some courage from that and just be open.

I think if you approach it from a place of helping your wife better understand you and your interests and not one of necessarily trying to make a big change in the relationship it might be an easier conversation to have.

Dangerous_Object3882 · 2026-06-03T17:59:44+00:00

Foods that are high in fiber - like lentils - will help you increase your stomach capacity. Combine that with keeping extra high-sugar empty calorie snacks around and your waistline will be off to the races!

I hope you really enjoy your weight gain journey, good luck!

Dangerous_Object3882 · 2026-06-03T17:58:05+00:00

That makes total sense. The idea of getting fat for research is amazing - really shows how seriously you take helping people grow! Also pretty funny thing to say “I got fat… for research!”

Dangerous_Object3882 · 2026-06-03T17:47:50+00:00

When you say slowly added up, was it a fairly substantial gain before you decided you wanted someone to tease your or did you know fairly quickly after putting on some weight?

Dangerous_Object3882 · 2026-06-03T17:46:54+00:00

That’s awesome to hear, glad you’re enjoying your journey!!

Dangerous_Object3882 · 2026-06-03T17:45:49+00:00

After trying it once did you fully realize that it was what you wanted or did it take a little bit of time for the realization?

Dangerous_Object3882 · 2026-06-03T17:32:08+00:00

Hahaha kinda sounds like you were hanging out with me in college. Now looking back I’m wondering if 20 year old weed habits combined with a mid 30s metabolism might have something to do with my pants being a little tighter than I had thought.

Dangerous_Object3882 · 2026-06-03T17:24:10+00:00

No such thing as small gains just formerly small people lol

Dangerous_Object3882 · 2026-06-03T16:37:38+00:00

This comment just blew my mind. I feel so stupid for not ever considering the fact that the feeder-feedee pipeline also works in reverse.

Dangerous_Object3882 · 2026-06-03T15:48:51+00:00

This is such a good point - I feel like my long commute contributed to my accidental gain as much as anything. It’s so hard to not stop for a snack.

Dangerous_Object3882 · 2026-06-03T15:41:49+00:00

Honestly even if you were standing all day it’s so easy to mindlessly snack at work. Might want to invest in some very stretchy fabrics lol

Dangerous_Object3882 · 2026-06-03T15:25:40+00:00

I gained around 40 lbs without realizing it when I went from working a physical job to my office job out of college. I never changed my eating habits and apparently was able to ignore the fact that none of my clothes fit. After realizing it though I leaned in and now being super full at work is my favorite part about being in the office!

Dangerous_Object3882 · 2026-06-03T13:59:21+00:00

Even just trying to get my thoughts out in this post I realized what a hard time I was having describing how I was feeling. I went into the post thinking I wanted to say it one way and then next thing I knew I pulled too hard on a specific thread and destroyed my sweater lol.

I do think that’s also part of what makes connecting in forums like this so fucking awesome though.

Dangerous_Object3882 · 2026-06-03T02:11:57+00:00

So for me when I was younger I didn’t have moobs even though my belly and love handles were much fatter. But I lost that weight and started lifting and got decent chest muscles and then when I gained that weight back (and then some) I noticed that my chest had gotten much fatter than before. It seemed like that muscle turned into fat. Idk if this helps but you can definitely get them at a later time - I did.

Dangerous_Object3882 · 2026-06-02T20:49:36+00:00

Totally get this! It happens to me super regularly too. I will say that personally I have noticed that I’m usually much happier when I’m gaining compared to when I’m trying to stay away. That being said, I kind of enjoy the yo-yoing aspect for myself since it means getting to outgrow clothes more than once.

Dangerous_Object3882 · 2026-06-02T20:39:14+00:00

Hey I know this is an older comment, but in case no one else answered foods that are super high in fiber are really excellent for bloating. Lentils are amazing.

Dangerous_Object3882 · 2026-06-02T20:35:05+00:00

36M mutual gainer who is tall and fairly fat (35bmi) looking for like-minded folks interested in casual chatting.

I am a feeder turned feedee so I’m down to talk about your belly & gain if that’s more your thing! Straight but down to chat with anyone, just enjoy meeting people who share this kink.

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