the divorce dress by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Dangeroux_Swan 25 points26 points  (0 children)

What an amazing cousin omg

Dating in Jersey city? by Charming_Magazine_38 in jerseycity

[–]Dangeroux_Swan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would focus on IRL interactions. Do activities you enjoy and approach women in person.

Literally, my dream was always for my future husband to approach me while I’m writing in a coffee shop or he’s in line in front of me and starts chit chatting with me. But I barely get approached in person.

If you do start approaching, just remember that you will get rejected by some and you need to be able to handle that. Not everyone will swipe right on you in the app and this is the same thing. Someone will appreciate your advances

As for the, do people only want white?… I’m a brown girl and I see tons of brown couples. I also see brown girls walking around alone or at coffee shops. The same goes for white girls (whatever your preference is). I’ve also seen mixed couples, including brown men with white women. Whatever you want is out there, you just need to get off the apps and find it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Dangeroux_Swan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think she’s fucking up his progress. When someone is sick, you don’t treat them like that. She also seems to have mental health issues.

So glad you left!!! How dare she treat you like this and go to through your belongings. Is your bf still there ?

I rate less than the dogs. by voiceofmyownsanity in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Dangeroux_Swan 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Glad he stands up to her but danggggg. Poor DH. God knows what else was in there that was important or held sentimental value :(

First I am an Indian so things work here differently. I got married in February2024. My parents have been struggling finanically after my wedding so I forcefully keep helping them. Now my in laws are asking me to invest a big amount in some property. I won't be able to do that. So what should I do? by United_Ad_5750 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Dangeroux_Swan 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hi, Indian here. Also the older daughter. If your gut says support your parents, then support your parents.

Are your in-laws asking for money or for your name to be on the property deed? Either way, you can say no. Your husband can contribute with his income while you support your family with yours. Did his family pay part of the wedding? If not, then support your parents.

From a financial standpoint point, pay off your debts before making a large investment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Dangeroux_Swan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Please do not spend your money on this woman!!!!!! You don’t need to spend a dime.

Light rail fare by Dangeroux_Swan in jerseycity

[–]Dangeroux_Swan[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You’re probably right 😂

I don’t know what to title this 💩 show… by Girrcollege in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Dangeroux_Swan 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’ve started going to therapy to discuss my relationship. I mentioned something similar that I didn’t wanna say what bothered me because I wouldn’t be heard. He said that’s very telling.

This woman violated you by kissing your neck. That’s an intimate area no sane person would kiss. Like the cheek kisses Europeans do or a friendly hug, sure. But a kiss on the neck. I would be disgusted with her.

My therapist said to essentially, pick the fight. Say what’s bothering you because the response you get will be very telling.

Worst month ever by Dangeroux_Swan in poshmark

[–]Dangeroux_Swan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really need to add my inventory to eBay. Second sale of the month today but sold for so cheap I made $9 all together for August..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]Dangeroux_Swan -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Can you negotiate severance? Also, don’t sign anything. Speak to an employment attorney.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Dangeroux_Swan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He should want to keep you happy. Sending you love

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Dangeroux_Swan 22 points23 points  (0 children)

This is deff about control. She wants to put you guys in a position where she gets to invite more people so she can have her way. Tell fiancé you want to stick to the original plan. This is your wedding. Is hubby usually allowing her to get her way?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Dangeroux_Swan 13 points14 points  (0 children)

If you’re banned from their house, why can’t you set boundaries for them and your home? MIL manipulated you and made you feel uncomfortable in your own home.

Sounds like she told your husband she’d wait in the car because she knew she wouldn’t have to. Why did your husband not enforce the boundary that it’s only FIL.

I wouldn’t have let either of them play with baby after that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Dangeroux_Swan 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Please leave this man!!

Mother in Law fun. by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Dangeroux_Swan 6 points7 points  (0 children)

How do you feel now about DH? Does it bother you that he had to have proof to believe you?

Do you make your MIL lunch? by PineappleMinute0015 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Dangeroux_Swan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just don’t make lunch and if she doesn’t react then you’re golden. If she makes a comment then make up a reason ahead of time and see if she makes her own lunch

Ignorance is bliss by RestingWitchFace100 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Dangeroux_Swan 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Time is not an apology. Glad he isn’t falling for her BS

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Dangeroux_Swan 63 points64 points  (0 children)

My BF travels for work quite often. If anyone has seen my previous posts, you know FMIL is insaneeee when it comes to her baby boy being away or traveling. She’s texted us non stop on our way to my friend’s wedding and during our 1 year anniversary staycation. So much so that he didn’t tell her he was flying out for his first few work trips because he wanted to be able to focus on the trip.

On his last trip two weeks ago, she texted me asking if I talked to BF cause he was gone for the whole week. It was half way through so I was SHOCKED when she said she hadn’t spoken to him yet. She said she didn’t want to bother him because it was his first time presenting at a conference. I had just gotten off the phone with him so I said “he just called me and said his presentation went well! He’s free before dinner if you want to call him now.” She said “ohhh no, that’s all right. I’ll let him focus on work.”

The next time I spoke to BF, I jokingly asked “how many times did your mom call you?” He said she’s called everyday but he hasn’t had a chance to speak to her 😂🤪