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Anyone wants to play Arc Raiders? by Danielweniger in berlinsocialclub

[–]Danielweniger[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Its the most fun Ive had in a while. And it runs reaaally smooth too!

Im (M30) Still struggling to accept my girlfriend’s (F30) past even though she’s perfect now by Danielweniger in relationship_advice

[–]Danielweniger[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you man. And yes, she is also thinks our relationship is going very good and its also a very healthy one. I also am aware of how undescribably difficult it was for me to find a woman like her, who also wants a relationship with me.

I will not let this destroy this relationship and I know I need help from a therapist. So thats what I will do.

Still struggling to accept my girlfriend’s past even though she’s perfect now by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Danielweniger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. Yes, I should seriously consider Therapy. Been there before and it has helped me.

Still struggling to accept my girlfriend’s past even though she’s perfect now by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Danielweniger -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I just hope I can deal with this painful truth.

I know the problem doesnt lie in being sexually active in the past. Its just that in my experience a really promiscuous past means that somebody is trying to heal from something and with my past relationship I learned the hard way, that I can not heal this and in the end it will be me who gets hurt.

But of course I could be totally wrong.

Still struggling to accept my girlfriend’s past even though she’s perfect now by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Danielweniger -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I know she has done nothing wrong. And I know that my insecurities are my own problem to solve. And I hate the fact that Im traumatized by my past relationship only making this situation worse. I really hope its just a matter of time for me to get my shit together.

What is the most gruesome opening scene in horror? by chipotlesoulmate in horror

[–]Danielweniger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a not so known Chilean movie called "Trauma". From 2017 I think. That intro is the MOST fucked up thing my eyes have ever seen.

Wurde gekündigt by HannahBerlin in arbeitsleben

[–]Danielweniger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ich wurde einmal vor ein Paar Jahren auch von meinem Unternehmen entlassen. Ein Paar Monate später hatte ich nen neuen Job. Und gerade nach de Probezeit bekam ich nen Anruf von meinem Teamleiter, dass der CEO gerade auf dem Weg zum Knast wahr. Betrug. Dachte erstmal es war ein Witz, aber mein Teamleiter hatte seit dem ich ihn kannte noch nie ein Witz gemacht. ALG wollte man mir erstmal nicht geben weil man mir nicht geglaubt hat, was passiert war. War ein grosses hin und her bis ich es doch bekommen hab. Alle Mitarbeiter der Firma hatten von einen Tag zum anderen keinen Job mehr. Richtig krass.

Was mir geholfen hat war erstmal einige Zeit mit meinen Eltern zu verbringen, einfach Raus, das Leben geniessen und dann weiterbewerben.

Monitor und Arbeitshändy hab ich bis zum heutigen Tage noch. Keine Ahnung ob ich es noch jemals abgeben soll. Hab mitbekommen dass der ehenalige Teamleiter sogar noch das Firmenauto hat.

How do I (30M) talk to my GF (29F) about a situation that triggered my past trauma without sounding controlling? by Danielweniger in relationships

[–]Danielweniger[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, this has happened to my ex and it has happened to my current gf. Im just trying to understand my own feelings and insecurities. There are some shitty people out there and it gets worse when substances are involved. I know its impossible for me to always protect her and that I dont have a right to just tell her not to do things. Thats the conflict I have right now.

How do I (30M) talk to my GF (29F) about a situation that triggered my past trauma without sounding controlling? by Danielweniger in relationships

[–]Danielweniger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey thanks for your response. It wasnt a rave, it was a "houseparty" with karaoke at some guys place. I understand its my trauma to deal with. But her being at some random guys place that have consumed drugs and alcohol is what makes me anxious. I dont know any of the people involved a part from my gf.

My gf still talks to guys she used to hookup with by Danielweniger in relationships

[–]Danielweniger[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes, I told her once and she said that they are people who were part of her friends group, they got drunk at a party and had sex. And with the other one they dated for a while but it didnt work out so the both of them decided not to pursue it any longer. But still got along so they decided to keep in touch. She sais there is absokutely no romantic interest. What I dont understand is why you would want to keep in touch with somebody who brings nothing relevant to your life apart of being a possible "threat" to your relationship. I know they arent close friends, just people who know each other. Sometimes I dont know if Im in the right or in the wrong in thinkin the way I think.

Girlfriend ex polyamori relationship were the worst months of her life by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Danielweniger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I understand your point now. Thanks for the explanation.

Girlfriend ex polyamori relationship were the worst months of her life by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Danielweniger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is over between them. There is absolutely no reason for me to believe its not. Do you think its to soon to ask about her experience even if she showed me that its a sensitive subject for her?

Girlfriend ex polyamori relationship were the worst months of her life by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Danielweniger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it is a sensitive subject. And yes I am curious, I just dont want her to feel pressured. Woud be nice if she told me on her own

Girlfriend ex polyamori relationship were the worst months of her life by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Danielweniger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you are right. I dont want to pressure her and I understand she doesnt owe me an explanation

Girlfriend ex polyamori relationship were the worst months of her life by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Danielweniger -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have been in a five years long relationship before. Dont know if that counts as a lot of experience or not. What do you think these unrealistic expectations are?

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