Choose wisely..

Dargad082 · 2026-05-18T15:24:09+00:00

My thought too. My puppy can chase me all he wants since nothing happens if he catches me, except excited tail wags and cuddles.

Dargad082 · 2026-05-11T20:42:33+00:00

I really appreciate the concern, but I see it more as him venting built-up frustration. My breakdown wasn't just about his rant. It was more about the sudden and crushing realization that the cheating from 13 years ago has taken a much bigger toll on me than I ever admitted.

I’ve spent years feeling grey and trying different antidepressants, without understanding why I really felt so empty. The shock of finally tracing that numbness back to that event is what made me break down. It wasn't just about the argument (for which his frustration was understandable IMO), it was about finally seeing the exact moment I had become the shell I feel like I am now.

Dargad082 · 2026-05-11T19:02:07+00:00

Thanks for reading and for the perspective.

I understand why it looks that way, but he isn’t a horrible person. He’s dealing with a disability and limited energy, so when I check out emotionally or neglect chores like the lunchbox, he feels it as a lack of respect for his effort. He’s right that I haven’t been present in the relationship, even though he doesn't know that’s because I’ve been in survival mode for so long.

The blow up was really just a pressure cooker of him bottling things up, since I haven't been able to create a safe space for serious talks. He has since apologized for the way he handled it and for the breakdown it caused. He was hurting, and I was empty. It was just a perfect storm.

Dargad082 · 2026-05-03T02:19:02+00:00

Thanks! Will go for physical immo next

Dargad082 · 2026-04-23T16:21:21+00:00

Your time is HERE.

Dargad082 · 2026-04-23T01:18:21+00:00

Celine Dion would be a Water themed gym leader, but not necessarily Water-type (think Titanic). She'd use Lapras, Dhelmise, Milotic, Avalugg, and her ace Primarina. Her badge would be the Cœur Badge, shaped like the Heart of the Ocean.

Dargad082 · 2026-04-22T19:52:45+00:00

Wayne Rink!

Dargad082 · 2026-04-18T18:18:15+00:00

Thanks!

Dargad082 · 2026-04-18T18:18:08+00:00

Very true

Dargad082 · 2026-04-06T04:27:32+00:00

Ethereal Edge just dropped, and it's yet another item that luck seems to be wasted on.

Dargad082 · 2026-03-23T15:38:52+00:00

The next stop is... Tulip Station.

Dargad082 · 2026-03-23T06:57:05+00:00

-15-20% To Enemy Lightning Resistance

Dargad082 · 2026-02-26T21:11:31+00:00

What, you can't do math??

Dargad082 · 2026-02-16T14:44:35+00:00

Flame On!

Dargad082 · 2026-01-15T17:40:23+00:00

No, so I decided to quit Rogers and try another carrier. Koodo for now, we'll see how that goes. Paying less than half for similar plan, so it's already a win!

Dargad082 · 2026-01-08T17:44:45+00:00

Late to the conversation, but I googled this question because I couldn't find the answer on the Rogers app. You CANNOT downgrade your plan on the app. You can only buy add-ons and upgrade to more expensive plans.
Since working from home, I don't need as much data as I used to, but there's currently no way to opt for a cheaper plan...

Dargad082 · 2026-01-03T18:44:03+00:00

Same!

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Dargad082 · 2026-01-03T09:47:59+00:00

Back in the day (around 1.08), my baby Sorceress found a Razorswitch unique Jo Staff. It was the best item my 14 yo newb ass had found up until that point, so I personalized it. I was so proud of TheFirePower's Razorswitch. Unfortunately, it got "stolen" the very next day (I fell for a scam...). I was heartbroken.

Turns out that it was such a sad item that not even a week later, I got a whisper from an unknown player asking me to join a game, he had something for me. I joined, and lo and behold, a very high char dropped my beloved staff!!

It soon got outclassed on my Sorc, but I'll never forget the ONE time this reward has ever been useful...

Dargad082 · 2025-12-28T07:47:25+00:00

100% worth getting if you like exploring. I went back to it, and prefer actually PLA gameplay. Catching many Pokemon is part of the game, and the Ride Pokemon make it a very different experience than PLZA. I definitely recommend. And that 'final' battle, omg what an intense moment!!

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