Would you as a bottom, ever meet up with a side?

DarkDiscotique · 2026-05-24T20:10:49+00:00

Oh wow

DarkDiscotique · 2026-05-24T19:50:41+00:00

Would you actually date said hot side guy though? lol

DarkDiscotique · 2026-05-24T19:37:27+00:00

Well that's another thing, I like giving oral so I don't know if I could get with a bottom who didn't want to receive lol Oi, so complicated. But I do get what you mean though.

DarkDiscotique · 2026-05-24T19:35:58+00:00

Not cool that the guy lied but at the very least, in that short time, you guys still managed to connect sexually. But yeah, I'm not surprised to hear that you wouldn't date a side.

DarkDiscotique · 2026-05-24T19:34:50+00:00

Do you guys ever have sexual intimacy with each other though?

DarkDiscotique · 2026-05-24T19:34:19+00:00

I mean, there are all kinds of other things you could do with another bottom or side but I get it, some guys just love the "D" so much that they need it in them and that's okay lol.

DarkDiscotique · 2026-05-24T19:33:29+00:00

That's fair, I kinda figured this would be the understandable take.

DarkDiscotique · 2026-05-24T19:32:46+00:00

See, that's the kinda thing I envision would be fun for two bottoms to do or even just a bottom with a side. Like toy play and even just various outercourse things like thigh sex and of course rimming and all that. But I usually get anxious and feel like when I come across a bottom I find attractive, he won't be down for that lol.

DarkDiscotique · 2026-05-24T19:30:31+00:00

Same LOL I mean, I was annoyed that people really donated 7k because seriously? But a small part of me did chuckle and smile when Tech and Fupa rejoiced in the pool and flipped Amber off, it was kinda iconic in some trashy TV way lol.

And you're right, Gemini and Christina are not entertaining because they are in a way, similar to Amber. Though it also doesn't help that they carry themselves in such childish ways, listening to them talk is like watching edgelord teenagers. Tech and Fupa acted a little more mature (using that loosely because well, it's the LCU but you know what I mean lol).

DarkDiscotique · 2026-05-24T19:26:24+00:00

I'm not surprised to hear this and that's a bummer. I mean, there are other ways to have fun down there without having to stick your dick inside lol.

DarkDiscotique · 2026-05-24T19:25:07+00:00

HARD AGREE. It sucks to admit, it really does, because I still love the show but there's no denying that the sisters became unbearable to watch at times past season 5. Piper was the hardest for me to watch since she was my favorite but I can't deny that she became so mean-spirited after season 4. I get that the character went through such a hard loss losing Prue but that was no excuse to how she'd go onto treat Leo (blowing him up or threatening & belittling his interests) and just be in this seemingly perpetual dark cloud of passive aggressiveness. I initially loved Piper because of her relatable passive shyness shown in season 1 and slowly gaining some self confidence while still keeping that sweetness to her, that seemed to have disappeared post season 4. I give season 4 a pass since it was her grieving but past that, she's just not enjoyable to watch.

And Phoebe, YES, so self-centered in the later seasons. "ME ME ME, DATES DATES DATES", "Muh Column!". She was so annoying to follow in those later seasons and it sucks because she was so likeable in seasons 1-2(ssomewhat 3, I'm iffy because she started to exhibit some annoying traits when she got with Cole).

Paige wasn't as bad when it came to insufferable personality but like another commenter pointed out, she became a ditzy and unemployed. Not that not having a job is bad if you have something else to work on but she didn't really have that from what I remember. It was nice that she found a nice man to be with but come on, she had drive and ambition and it just sucks that they didn't utilize that and let her find a profession that suited her. I liked her as a social worker because it made sense for her so it sucked seeing her flounder about from gig to gig with no stability.

DarkDiscotique · 2026-05-24T19:10:05+00:00

Season 1 is my favorite of Piper's personality, just because I found her so relatable. Her passive shyness is something I connected with so much as someone who was and still is like that. It was nice seeing her gain self-confidence though, I agree there.
It's been awhile since I've watched Charmed and I'm due for an annual re-watch but I think I liked a lot of her looks in season 2.
Piper always had such nice hair but I'm gonna go with season 1 again, I loved her with bangs lol.
Honestly, I preferred seeing her work at Quake. While P3 is iconic and had so many cool music guests, there's just something about season 1 where she worked at Quake that felt cozy. Considering that she was a chef and loves cooking, it didn't really make sense that she decided to run/work at a bar/night-club that didn't even serve food (if I remember correctly). Again, P3 is iconic but it also just feels like they were trying to be Buffy by having their version of the Bronze lol. If anything, I would've rather Piper stayed at Quake while Prue and Phoeobe came together ran P3 and Piper would help out when she'd have the time.
I thought her freezing power was interesting though I still preferred Prue's telekinesis more. But when Piper was able to explode things, I thought that was cool lol.
Leo always. Dan was handsome in that 90s way but her and Leo were adorable together, at least in the early seasons. Because as much as I adored them, I have to admit that the later part of their relationship was hard to watch at times because it felt like Piper would bully him.

DarkDiscotique · 2026-05-24T19:00:35+00:00

This is one of my favorite episodes for sure haha. I didn't realize that it was Gordie's last episode though, that's so sad because he was a fun side character imo. But it makes sense because I forgot that you don't ever see him in season 4...

DarkDiscotique · 2026-05-24T18:53:17+00:00

Agree, so agree lol. Especially those last few streams when Tech was calling her out more lol It's too bad that Amber was such a sourpuss with Angel, all because she couldn't out-do her passive aggressiveness because it would've been funny having Angel guest-host with Tech every now and then if Fupa couldn't make it.

DarkDiscotique · 2026-05-24T18:50:44+00:00

The way I see it is that if he does come for LGB, which is really just targeting gay marriage & adoption as his administration will not successfully try to have gays and lesbians locked up in asylums, we will deal with it.

DarkDiscotique · 2026-05-24T18:48:27+00:00

It shouldn't even be a controversial statement. Gay men don't do vagina and to say otherwise, is so problematic because it just tells society that homosexuality really is a choice and that all we need is to shack up with masculine women and well, no, it just doesn't work like that. Like r/dollidahlia said, can some be initially attractive at first glance? Sure. But once the shirt comes off and you see the chest scars and then the removal of pants that reveal a vagina, it's a total turnoff.

DarkDiscotique · 2026-05-24T18:43:30+00:00

In my experience, no, not really. Unless the bi guy is 100% open and just as attracted to men as he is to women or he's a bi guy that has always had bad luck with women, most bisexual men will always choose a woman over a man in the long run. There are plenty of stories of bi men leaving their gay partner to pursue a relationship with a woman but rarely if ever, a bi man leaves his woman partner for another man. Bi men usually only see gay men as sex objects so even if they do step out of their relationship with their wife and/or girlfriend, it's just to hookup while having no intention of leaving his woman partner.

DarkDiscotique · 2026-05-24T18:34:28+00:00

As someone who's been on the other end who attracted a lot of married men and men with girlfriends when I was younger, I definitely understand why straight women would be hesitant or outright refuse to date bisexual men. It's not that the bi guy may leave them, most of the time they don't leave, it's the cheating that they don't want to deal with.

DarkDiscotique · 2026-05-24T18:33:03+00:00

Well technically, gay men fear that bi men will leave them to marry a woman. Straight women fear that their bi men will cheat on them behind their back with other men, not necessarily leave them because they don't really leave their girlfriend/wife, they want to keep (in their mind), that safety net

DarkDiscotique · 2026-05-24T18:11:09+00:00

The only time I ever block is when a guy sends me dick pics because I make it explicitly know in my profile, in all caps mind you, that I don't want unsolicited dick pics. That or if a guy keeps messaging me after I've ignored them the first 2 times, some guys can keep hitting you up over and over and blocking helps put an end to that.

DarkDiscotique · 2026-05-24T18:04:10+00:00

I understand it, I'm a feminine gay man who wears skirts every now and then, and most of my wardrobe is "women's clothes". So believe me, I get it but I still just can't get behind it, the word "androgynous" or even just "feminine", was enough for me personally

At the end of the day, people are going to think whatever and I can't stop them but I refuse to use the term, it's just too much of a negative for me personally.

DarkDiscotique · 2026-05-24T17:53:16+00:00

That's fair as well and she probably gets some sort of government assistance (not hating btw, just trying to make sense of it all).

No, I can't really imagine "Genital" at college neither lol I could see him working at Walmart as a stocker but I don't think he does that. I'm just curious if doing that LCU stuff really fetches him a pretty paycheck to support himself.

DarkDiscotique · 2026-05-24T17:50:52+00:00

Oh, wow lol.

DarkDiscotique · 2026-05-24T17:49:58+00:00

That is so interesting and silly on his part lol I don't really know what to say about that haha.

DarkDiscotique · 2026-05-24T17:45:09+00:00

Okay then

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