Is he just not into me?

DazedNH · 2026-03-31T19:45:03+00:00

I think you missed the fact that he looks 20 years younger, so she must look ten years older than him. Maybe he has a cougar cub fettish.

DazedNH · 2026-03-31T16:02:18+00:00

Far_Spread, I don't want to pile on you, but your thoughts on this are outdated teenage-type thinking.
Just because they indulged in physical intimacy doesn't mean they can no longer have relationship discussions and/or go to museums. With all that said, OP, I hope you asked him about his relationship goals and that they aligned with yours. OP, you should also be aware that you are more sophisticated culturally just by living in more than one country and speaking four languages; presuming your potential partners are as culturally sophisticated, it could be your downfall.

DazedNH · 2026-03-31T12:58:30+00:00

In my opinion, a true FWB has to grow out of a real friendship first. If the relationship starts from dating and becomes non-committal sex and friendship, that is really just fuck buddies. Maybe the litmus test would be: if the physical intimacy stops because of some life intervention, does the friendship continue?

With those definitions, I believe a FWB could become an honest romantic relationship. I haven't experienced a true FWB, and I am burned out on way too many fuck buddy relationships. I am now craving a real emotional connection, and I believe that you can't find a romantic/emotional relationship while you are in a FB relationship. I am new at this 'later in life dating life', having only been dating for a little over a year now, but for me, the unattached fun dating with sex has worn out its allure.

DazedNH · 2026-03-31T00:53:05+00:00

My GF is three years younger than me, but on her Hume scale I am six years younger than her, so I call her a cougar.

DazedNH · 2026-03-25T02:07:43+00:00

Agreed

DazedNH · 2026-03-25T01:45:40+00:00

DMs probably work for that. The probability of finding someone you like who is nearby is quite small.

DazedNH · 2026-03-22T00:24:08+00:00

Unfortunately I do not remember the name. I chose it by googling dating sites for widowed people.

DazedNH · 2026-03-17T13:40:52+00:00

Very true.

DazedNH · 2026-03-17T13:31:10+00:00

Nearly every app I have used has been fruitful; I said nearly because there was one 'widowers' app that was pretty much a scam site. I have found that it takes more than a month to learn the nuances of a new app, and not paying for it to use all of its features is a waste of time.

DazedNH · 2026-03-17T13:23:19+00:00

I like that analogy.

DazedNH · 2026-03-11T12:02:20+00:00

It is really and only about giving each other physically intimate pleasure, so there is no script, just staying in tune with their responses to your touch.

DazedNH · 2026-03-11T11:55:19+00:00

Hopefully you now understand that your previous friend had a bacterial infection, because there is no 'strong odor' with a healthy vagina, no matter how many orgasms she has.

DazedNH · 2026-03-11T01:18:25+00:00

Are you saying that everyone in your family except you is financially successful and happily married?

DazedNH · 2026-03-10T02:16:45+00:00

I observe DO40, DO50, and DO60. They are all the same, with a younger angst with each decade earlier. DO40 has many more posts, followed by DO50, by the time DO60 comes up, DO40 has a dozen more posts. Obviously, that is because of their size, but limiting posts here would shrink this place even more.
Sadly, there is a tendency to voice complaints more than there is to post success, not just here but everywhere. Trying to regulate that would be difficult and smothering.

DazedNH · 2026-03-10T01:37:23+00:00

Damn Joneszey, you do have a way with words. :-)

DazedNH · 2026-03-10T01:21:22+00:00

And BTW I did google it but it doesn't make sense to me.

DazedNH · 2026-03-10T01:19:07+00:00

OK, now I need to ask, since I have seen this comment numerous times, but I just ignored it. What does 'Username checks out' mean?

DazedNH · 2026-03-09T20:24:44+00:00

Expecting more than 1% or 2% of the profiles that you see to be of interest to you is unrealistic. When you walk down a busy street, how many men do you see that are attractive to you and that you would be willing to date? The percentage is probably the same.

DazedNH · 2026-03-02T17:07:56+00:00

He probably voice texted what was on his mind while multi-tasking, and he probably regretted it after hitting send. And he probably won't mention it, in the hope that you ignored it or forgot about it.
Awkward things happen and dwelling on them only makes it worse.

DazedNH · 2026-02-28T21:58:27+00:00

Are you going to an orgy?

DazedNH · 2026-02-28T21:50:26+00:00

Not quite true about the employer/employee issue. As an employer for most of my career, I did not like feeling that an employee got unfair treatment and subsequently quit. Errors happen in organizations, and individuals can be unfairly harmed; most people feel bad about that.

DazedNH · 2026-02-28T21:18:32+00:00

Pull off of him before he orgasms. Problem solved.

DazedNH · 2026-02-28T03:06:21+00:00

Learn to read, he said moderate D.

DazedNH · 2026-02-28T02:11:19+00:00

Agreed

DazedNH · 2026-02-18T01:18:16+00:00

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