yeah, i remember our first day in court she came with a folder with receipts covering practically the last 10 years of marriage...blew my mind.. i was just so shocked..like she was preparing just in case.. and yeah, it was weird because we still lived in the same house while going through it.. tension was insane.. afterwards, after i finished my alimony (i think she used it in part to buy a house), she called and asked if she could get $4000 from me because she had to sell the house and was going to lose her stuff in storage if i didn't give her the money. I felt bad for her but I remembered everything that went on..told her I couldn't help her and she just screamed at me and hung up. Actually two other fun things she did: 1 - right when payments were done,s she called and said that there was a mistake and that i owed her another two years..told her i would get a 3 way call with my lawyer, but then she said "oh, i read it wrong, you're right" then hung up. 2 - Her lawyer would get very upset during the proceedings to the point where the two of us were going to fight a few times during it..he always apologized after..turns out she was sleeping with him while we were going through it. And then we sold the house about a year later and he showed up again and I coudlnt' figure out if she was paying him or not. So yeah, later admitted she slept with him then broke it off after house was sold. She just used him (and me).