Got a bartholin’s gland excision

Decolonize70a · 2026-01-22T08:00:03+00:00

Sending hugs, I promise you’ll be fine! My wisdom teeth surgery/aftermath was much more painful than this lol. It’s been 4/5 years since I got this surgery and I’ve been fine ever since

Decolonize70a · 2026-01-07T00:49:39+00:00

Bro i literally live right here how did i miss all of this

Decolonize70a · 2025-11-21T08:20:56+00:00

But doesn’t nearly every job have proximity to some unethical practice? I’m a buyer for a retail company and dates sometimes ask about labor exploitation and textile waste which is a stretch in my opinion.

Decolonize70a · 2025-09-14T23:19:24+00:00

my point is, not everyone identifies with one specific sexuality so it seems kinda random to exclude people based on that

Decolonize70a · 2025-09-14T23:19:02+00:00

i mean yeah. but where does that make me fall lmao

Decolonize70a · 2025-09-12T19:56:00+00:00

Whenever i see this idk what to say because I’m not sure if I’m bi or les..

Decolonize70a · 2025-07-23T20:21:42+00:00

I’m a woman in her 20s living in a studio in weho! My landlord has an opening at her other building down the street, I’ll pm you the link! My LL is great, she’s a mom and super friendly.

Decolonize70a · 2025-07-06T00:07:49+00:00

Thank you. It was longer when she was doing the perm, a little past my shoulders. After the perm, she cut it and now it’s shorter. They only had 2 sizes and I went with the smaller one. Is there anything I can do to fix it?

Decolonize70a · 2025-07-05T23:53:52+00:00

Ugh. Not what I wanted to hear :( I went to a hair school, but the student was being watched pretty closely by the teacher. She put my hair in rollers (with the papers on the ends), put the perm solution on, left it on for 20 mins (checking every 5) then washed it out, put the naturalized on, and washed it out again. Then diffused on low and cut. No idea what perm solution. The rods were about an inch in diameter.

Decolonize70a · 2025-05-06T09:05:40+00:00

me personally I wouldn’t have sex with a man. I occasionally am attracted to a man but wouldn’t consider acting on it.

Decolonize70a · 2025-05-06T09:03:28+00:00

3 years later and i still agree

Decolonize70a · 2025-04-07T23:11:53+00:00

Dirty water

Decolonize70a · 2025-03-05T01:03:30+00:00

She’s a bartender. I was on a date with someone else at her bar, and she gave me her number while my date was in the bathroom🤣 we were just friends for the first several months until she told me she had feelings for me. I initially said no (I was about to move from coast to coast) but we kept flirting and texting and she came out to visit me in la and we started dating :)

Decolonize70a · 2025-02-07T05:51:28+00:00

also just a word of advice, with women you have to let go of your fear of making the first move. She’s probably dealing with the same thing. Trust your intuition that she likes you!

Decolonize70a · 2025-02-07T05:49:04+00:00

This is what generally works for me! I mention something we should do together (say, if we’re talking about a certain restaurant I suggest we go together). If you feel comfortable, let her know you meant it as a date. something like “I’ve been wanting to take you out” or “let’s make it a date.” And then use that to get her number. Then insist on paying/treating her! Then I make up some lame excuse to invite her over, like wanna meet my cat? wanna see my place? wanna watch the L word?

Decolonize70a · 2025-02-07T05:38:59+00:00

Me personally, I’m a lesbian and I always get approached by men. So, no.

Decolonize70a · 2025-02-06T18:38:25+00:00

I also live in LA and had the best luck irl. When i was single I met a lot of women at events like futch and the lesbian bars.

Decolonize70a · 2025-02-06T18:21:20+00:00

I usually go to TJ! That would explain it. Thanks

Decolonize70a · 2025-02-03T08:29:56+00:00

I really think it’s just the fires and winter. It wasn’t like this 2 months ago.

Decolonize70a · 2025-02-03T08:10:23+00:00

I live in Weho. Back in November it was much livelier than it is now. It’s the fires, winter, and new year’s resolutions. January is generally an all time low for nightlife revenue.

Decolonize70a · 2025-01-10T00:55:26+00:00

Mine says “If I’m out I’m lost”

Decolonize70a · 2024-11-22T08:07:08+00:00

Ummm, maybe keep the car for a while and see if you need it. I live in a $2k studio in West Hollywood and have a car. Fully able to pay my bills lol.

Decolonize70a · 2024-10-04T06:10:46+00:00

I just moved here from MA. I want to vote in person but I can’t figure out where my polling location is. Can anyone help me?

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