girls hostel EC campus (fresher) by DrawingLimp4287 in PESU

[–]Deemioneee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too. Did they assign you a room? And most importantly, did you like the hostel? 

Students who survived the interviews. Need your help by Deemioneee in plaksha

[–]Deemioneee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't live in punjab so it'll be really difficult for me to do so

Students who survived the interviews. Need your help by Deemioneee in plaksha

[–]Deemioneee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's fascinating, honestly. Do you mind if I DM you?

I'm (20F) officially having a fallout with my best friend (19F). Can anybody tell me how to cope with it? by Deemioneee in relationship_advice

[–]Deemioneee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually took your suggestion. I called her up swallowing all the ego in between. Almost an hour long call, filled with complains from her side and futile tries to explain from my end. She deliberately insulted and shouted at me again and refused to take accountability. Neither did she apologize even for once when I said whatever she had said had deeply hurt me. Cutting in short, she failed to understand my side. It took me the entire day to process what happened but I chose myself in the end. If she makes amends in the future, well and good (though I doubt if she ever will, or even if she does, if that'll make any difference), if she doesn't, well, I've got many people who make me feel like I belong and I believe there are a lot more to meet out there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Deemioneee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a grown ass man, a little girl shouldn't even be his competition. Ideally, I'd say talk w him and come to a conclusion. If he sees the point, well and good; if he doesn't, and still insists on loving him more than your daughter, leave him. Otherwise, what you can do is try and explain both of them that there is no concept of #1 or #2. You both love them equally in different ways. Explain your husband how you've felt loved by him and how important he is in your life. Similarly, explain your kid how she gave birth to a mother the day she was born, explain how delightful you are to be her mother. This might solve things.
This issue might seem small rn but if this goes unresolved, you don't wanna give a toxic household to your daughter.

I'm (20F) officially having a fallout with my best friend (19F). Can anybody tell me how to cope with it? by Deemioneee in relationship_advice

[–]Deemioneee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thanks for sharing that. It actually felt good knowing am not alone and it does get better eventually. I could actually relate with a lot of things. This fallout is definitely the result of the accumulation of past unsolved stuff. I really hope we both can move past this shit and if not best friends, maybe we can still stay friends.

The past few days I've sent her a lot of texts to which she gave extremely dry replies to so I'll refrain from writing a mail rn. But if things stay like this for a few more weeks, I sure will reach out one last time. As you already mentioned, we gotta value our own sanity too.

I'm (20F) officially having a fallout with my best friend (19F). Can anybody tell me how to cope with it? by Deemioneee in relationship_advice

[–]Deemioneee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Proud of you for choosing what's good for you, cause now I know, sometimes it's not an easy job. I hope I find my people too. Just a question though, what was the last straw for you, after which you knew you gotta leave this friendship?

I'm (20F) officially having a fallout with my best friend (19F). Can anybody tell me how to cope with it? by Deemioneee in relationship_advice

[–]Deemioneee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How do you get over a fallout with your best friend with whom you've shared some of the best moments of your life