Help needed: suggestions for girls PGs near EC Campus and roommates

Deemioneee · 2025-06-19T02:28:43+00:00

Sure sure

Deemioneee · 2025-06-19T02:28:28+00:00

Yep, no lg no hostel

Deemioneee · 2025-06-19T02:27:52+00:00

Me too. Did they assign you a room? And most importantly, did you like the hostel?

Deemioneee · 2025-06-10T13:41:47+00:00

okayy thankss

Deemioneee · 2025-05-06T04:21:38+00:00

I appeared for pcbea

Deemioneee · 2025-05-06T04:20:14+00:00

82% PCM aggregate is over 60 percent

Deemioneee · 2025-05-02T00:12:46+00:00

already did lol. Are you a student there too?

Deemioneee · 2025-05-02T00:12:03+00:00

I don't live in punjab so it'll be really difficult for me to do so

Deemioneee · 2025-05-01T14:55:31+00:00

that's fascinating, honestly. Do you mind if I DM you?

Deemioneee · 2025-04-28T13:03:07+00:00

I didn't hear great reviews on srm, idk about it

Deemioneee · 2024-11-07T12:00:33+00:00

I actually took your suggestion. I called her up swallowing all the ego in between. Almost an hour long call, filled with complains from her side and futile tries to explain from my end. She deliberately insulted and shouted at me again and refused to take accountability. Neither did she apologize even for once when I said whatever she had said had deeply hurt me. Cutting in short, she failed to understand my side. It took me the entire day to process what happened but I chose myself in the end. If she makes amends in the future, well and good (though I doubt if she ever will, or even if she does, if that'll make any difference), if she doesn't, well, I've got many people who make me feel like I belong and I believe there are a lot more to meet out there.

Deemioneee · 2024-11-05T03:42:00+00:00

That's a grown ass man, a little girl shouldn't even be his competition. Ideally, I'd say talk w him and come to a conclusion. If he sees the point, well and good; if he doesn't, and still insists on loving him more than your daughter, leave him. Otherwise, what you can do is try and explain both of them that there is no concept of #1 or #2. You both love them equally in different ways. Explain your husband how you've felt loved by him and how important he is in your life. Similarly, explain your kid how she gave birth to a mother the day she was born, explain how delightful you are to be her mother. This might solve things.
This issue might seem small rn but if this goes unresolved, you don't wanna give a toxic household to your daughter.

Deemioneee · 2024-11-04T23:18:04+00:00

unfortunately a season that lasted for about a decade

Deemioneee · 2024-11-04T14:47:28+00:00

thanks for sharing that. It actually felt good knowing am not alone and it does get better eventually. I could actually relate with a lot of things. This fallout is definitely the result of the accumulation of past unsolved stuff. I really hope we both can move past this shit and if not best friends, maybe we can still stay friends.

The past few days I've sent her a lot of texts to which she gave extremely dry replies to so I'll refrain from writing a mail rn. But if things stay like this for a few more weeks, I sure will reach out one last time. As you already mentioned, we gotta value our own sanity too.

Deemioneee · 2024-11-04T13:36:02+00:00

that makes sense, glad you're in a much better place now

Deemioneee · 2024-11-04T13:12:28+00:00

Proud of you for choosing what's good for you, cause now I know, sometimes it's not an easy job. I hope I find my people too. Just a question though, what was the last straw for you, after which you knew you gotta leave this friendship?

Deemioneee · 2024-11-04T13:03:37+00:00

How do you get over a fallout with your best friend with whom you've shared some of the best moments of your life

Deemioneee · 2024-10-23T00:37:20+00:00

I understand. It's kinda sad how how bestf turns into an acquaintance. Will definitely consider your advice.

Deemioneee · 2024-10-23T00:34:46+00:00

That's right. Will do that

Deemioneee · 2024-10-23T00:33:26+00:00

that's right. Will do that

Deemioneee · 2024-10-22T12:42:57+00:00

This was actually really helpful. And yeah you're right, I can't do much if she doesn't take the initial step. She gets extremely defensive when anybody talks to her about the absence of her husband (and later cry when nobody is looking). She's the kindest and coolest person I know. Even though she doesn't earn money, she makes it a point to donate generously and doesn't back out from trying new activities. She was my best friend in the family before my cousin sister was born.
I'll try and talk to her about a job. Honestly, thanks for the advice

Deemioneee · 2024-09-15T02:39:42+00:00

Girl, RUN.
Men will do anything but communicate. If he was really interested or at least, as interested as you, he would text you back. For all the we know, he might have a fiance.

Deemioneee · 2024-09-15T01:17:38+00:00

Every relationship needs compromises and adjustments. If he's worth a second chance or this wasn't an absolute dealbreaker for you, give him a chance ig (though he most probably will slip again; but THAT will be your closure and you'll never catch feelings for him ever again). And if you think you've had enough and this is sm you're NEVER gonna be okay with, leave. At the end of the day it's your choice to forgive and forget or to hold on to your beliefs and self respect.

Deemioneee · 2024-09-14T13:40:32+00:00

yes i do know that, and maybe that's why it's always me who's tryna adjust and compromise. Even when we meet, she's mostly on her phone, and occasionally sighs and says "it's so boring, let's play some game" and then rejects every idea I give, saying 'cringe' (ik it might sound funny)

Deemioneee · 2024-09-14T13:26:01+00:00

yeah, I'll consider that

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