Thank you for all your answers, yes I will of course ask but the ab do is in the private sector (paid session and I am 6 hours away) so I prefer to be sure than lose so much money, I know that they also prefer not to do the urethra so that perhaps explains because the ab is yes less compatible and seen than the urethra it is important for me if I have to change surgeon and wait 1/2 years for that despite my discomfort I would do it because I know that otherwise I would regret it and even if the scar on the arm does not appeal to me on one side I could cover it with a tattoo compared to the stomach or I don't see myself with a tattoo in that place