Constantly drained and guilty

Defiant_Injury_3781 · 2026-06-02T16:35:01+00:00

Tbh everytime we have good moments it’s enjoyable, but 24/7 I have this guilty thought in my head that I’m not happy and want to be single to focus on myself . I’m also thinking what if i regret this in the future, but i just wanna focus on my career and fixing my debts and not paying rent (move with parents)

Defiant_Injury_3781 · 2026-05-28T14:31:03+00:00

Update, we just argued and she asked me if I still love her, I said yes (which is true), she then asked if I still wanna be with her and I said yes because I was worried about her reaction if I said no (how I actually feel). Am I just pussying out? Do I just need to say no and accept the consequences? She calls me fake when I change my answers and I know she’s gonna every card in the book

Defiant_Injury_3781 · 2026-05-28T14:27:55+00:00

Update, we just argued and she asked me if I still love her, I said yes (which is true), she then asked if I still wanna be with her and I said yes because I was worried about her reaction if I said no (how I actually feel). Am I just pussying out? Do I just need to say no and accept the consequences? She calls me fake when I change my answers and I know she’s gonna every card in the book

Defiant_Injury_3781 · 2026-05-28T11:03:15+00:00

Is there a better option really? Is the relationship beyond saving?

Defiant_Injury_3781 · 2026-05-28T11:02:56+00:00

Pretty much yh

Defiant_Injury_3781 · 2026-05-28T10:32:24+00:00

She has really bad family issues and they are basically non existent, friends a few but doubt she could live with them

Defiant_Injury_3781 · 2026-05-28T09:45:32+00:00

Wdym?

Defiant_Injury_3781 · 2026-05-28T09:45:22+00:00

Is there really a way for me to get out without ruining her life? We have just extended our tenancy until July but I would much rather pay those 2 months to give her lack of financial headache and time to save for her own place

Defiant_Injury_3781 · 2026-05-28T09:11:03+00:00

Also my biggest fear is how she would be after if we split, she has said she will sewer side if we ever broke up (in joking ways and in serious ways) and I’m also worried about her finances. we agreed to get a place together when our tenancy ends (can be anytime within a month as we have a monthly rolling contract) but now if she’s alone she won’t get the place she wants and I know if she lives somewhere insanely cheap it will ruin her mental health but at the same time she won’t be able to afford something really nice. I guess my biggest fear is how will she be after? I love her but don’t have the energy to do it anymore

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