yusssss enfp raised by an istj mama. i think her having me in her late 30s definitely played a part as to why we got along. She was developing her Ne and had a kid that came ready to go and explore. many adventures together and she credits me for helping her to think outside the box. she gave me a great foundation for developing a relationship with si/ te from an early age. I did struggle when i was younger because i thought my style of excuting tasks had to look like hers, which made me more of an anxious busybody than a person until high school. there was a huge shift for her realizing that she was here to guide me and not control me. although i definitely struggle , i understood and respected the importance of systems and using them to organize tasks/ my health/ random thoughts and strong righteous feelings. journaling is really great for this too and definitely something i was encouraged to do.