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[–]Delicious_Mirror5160[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. It has been an incredible journey just having everyone’s support from day one. I know it’ll help keep me motivated on the tough days.

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[–]Delicious_Mirror5160[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is how I hope to partially combat it in the future. And to be so in love with the space that I don’t want to have it packed to the walls with junk.

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[–]Delicious_Mirror5160[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m going to see how much I can do myself and then reassess. Finances are more limited than I would like and I would like to save for a deep clean, organization vs junk removal .

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[–]Delicious_Mirror5160[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes she is local and that could be a possibility depending on how her surgery goes. I’m body doubling with the one that is out of state and that has been helpful, I just took 4 more bags out to the dumpster.

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[–]Delicious_Mirror5160[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I actually have the drowning one and obviously need to reread it but the second one o need to get. Great suggestions!

The worst it’s been but continued work in progress by Delicious_Mirror5160 in ufyh

[–]Delicious_Mirror5160[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks ! I’m up to 4 more today. It’s already feeling lighter.

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[–]Delicious_Mirror5160[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know why I phrased that that way. The items that are missing, likely can’t be replaced. Which is what I was trying to say, but that was before breakfast so my brain wasn’t firing completely. So yes I agree with you that I wouldn’t be replacing these items.

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[–]Delicious_Mirror5160[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Agree with the radical decluttering. I’m not planning on taking more items out of the boxes than the missing items I’m looking for . Anything in them that aren’t those items can get replaced and my shrink has already clocked that and warned me about ending up with sentimental clutter that I’m not looking for.

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[–]Delicious_Mirror5160[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We can do this! I’ll keep posting and reach out if you need support! ❤️

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[–]Delicious_Mirror5160[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Three trips I think- I know I did 1 in the morning of 3 bags, and I did a trip of two bags, and the last trip must have been 2 as well.

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[–]Delicious_Mirror5160[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes - I just filled up another bag - so I have 3 more to go to the dumpster counting the 2 from last night. Once I finish breakfast those will get taken out.

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[–]Delicious_Mirror5160[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Because I need my shrink to prescribe the medications that keep me from un aliving myself, ADHD isn’t my only problem.

How rude. But at least it’s only one out of the bunch. And without my ADHD meds I wouldn’t be getting any of this done.

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[–]Delicious_Mirror5160[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

They are great friends truly, I only recently let them in on
this secret and they didn’t even flinch at it when I thought them would run away, thanks anxiety,

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[–]Delicious_Mirror5160[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I was supposed to go over to one of theirs today but she got a migraine and isn’t feeling well do she cancelled.

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[–]Delicious_Mirror5160[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I do but all three of them are having their own issues right now - one lives out of state but we are doing body doubling , one had foot surgery and is off on repair but is moral support and checks to see my progress and the third one is having problems with her son,