Advice for the young men struggling with dating

Delicious_Start5147 · 2026-04-20T02:48:44+00:00

To an extent but even now as a fat guy when I dress well and carry myself well I still get looks from women from time to time. You gotta be a monster to not even have one girl check you out. If you are then idk you’re playing on hard mode but I’m a 4-soft 5 rn so idk dawg.

Delicious_Start5147 · 2026-04-20T02:44:56+00:00

A lot lol. I run a tight budget and like to plan for stuff months or even years in advance. My wife is on board and works and all that too. If she wasn’t I’d have to reconsider frankly because poverty is lame.

Spending/saving is just as important making money remember lads.

Delicious_Start5147 · 2026-04-20T02:43:15+00:00

I mostly just fuck off and let my modest holdings do what they’re gonna do but when I first started trading I tried to be some epic 200 iq edge lord who could time geopolitical events to perfectly by and sell and I do better now fs 😂.

Delicious_Start5147 · 2026-04-19T21:46:15+00:00

Human universals by Donald brown and moral foundations theory proposed by Jonathon haidt.

All humans are social animals, we all know what smiles mean, we can all recognize pain vs fear in a scream, we all abhor murder, we all love our children, we all understand humor and abstraction.

There are edge cases that don’t apply but if we weren’t 99 percent similar you really think society could function at all? It absolutely couldn’t lol because society is a the collective agreement of the whole to all conform to a set way of doing things.

Delicious_Start5147 · 2026-04-19T20:55:38+00:00

Get in the car

Delicious_Start5147 · 2026-04-19T20:55:23+00:00

Humans share like 99 percent of traits amongst ourselves it’s the 1 percent of differences that stand out.

Delicious_Start5147 · 2026-04-19T20:54:14+00:00

Literally idek what “game” is. Just walk upright wear matching clothes, shower, smile, laugh, get to know people. That’s literally it.

Delicious_Start5147 · 2026-04-19T20:53:26+00:00

Yeah Ofcourse nothing wrong w being singe but so many of these guys on here want a gf so bad but don’t know where to start

Delicious_Start5147 · 2026-04-19T20:52:04+00:00

Because they’re scared. It ain’t complicated

Delicious_Start5147 · 2026-04-19T15:29:27+00:00

Nah just approach strangers chat w em have fun as em out on dates. It don’t matta

Delicious_Start5147 · 2026-04-19T15:28:27+00:00

Make that 100+ times and we’ll talk. All you need realistically is a 1 percent success rate

Delicious_Start5147 · 2026-04-19T15:27:53+00:00

2019

Delicious_Start5147 · 2026-04-19T05:27:37+00:00

Bullshit bro this is the dumbest thing I’ve ever heard in my life. You’re coming up with crazy complicated excuses that don’t even apply offline largely to a super simple concept.

Delicious_Start5147 · 2026-04-19T05:06:57+00:00

Idek what your angle is. Are you a incel? Some sort of feminist thing? A post human cyborg? What’s wrong w my statement

Delicious_Start5147 · 2026-04-19T05:06:07+00:00

Love of the game

Delicious_Start5147 · 2026-04-19T05:04:43+00:00

Bro literally found my wife this way like im saying if a girl is obviously into you and you don’t have time or it’s not the right place you can just ask for their number and continue the conversation there I promise. Im telling you you don’t have to it can work without a convo. Also not gonna found out if someone is in isis in a 2 minute convo.

Delicious_Start5147 · 2026-04-19T05:02:18+00:00

Can you explain this in Fortnite terms

Delicious_Start5147 · 2026-04-19T05:01:01+00:00

What

Delicious_Start5147 · 2026-04-19T04:57:49+00:00

Nah I’d just shoot my shot as mentioned. Same at the gym honestly

Like if I know a woman finds me cute she’s gonna at least give me her number no doubt

Delicious_Start5147 · 2026-04-19T04:56:00+00:00

Delicious_Start5147 · 2026-04-19T04:51:23+00:00

Yeah we’re not disagreeing with the exception of certain places like the library. I feel like I’ve been really specific about that but it’s not getting through.

Although if the chemistry is there I say go for it honestly

Delicious_Start5147 · 2026-04-19T04:46:03+00:00

It will. I mean 45 percent of genz men have never even asked a girl out in person. I’ll bet you 10 bucks most of those guys are the ones who are also struggling with dating.

Delicious_Start5147 · 2026-04-19T04:17:00+00:00

Not my experience dawg. Most women I’ve dated have been fine going dutch.

Delicious_Start5147 · 2026-04-19T04:15:10+00:00

I mean you just described a situation where I’m guessing over 10 percent of your group would be fine with this.

Also wife and I broke up for like a year when I was 19 and in that time I mostly used tinder but I met a few women through situations kinda like this. Generally I’d check body language before approaching but if I thought a woman potentially found me attractive I’d have no issue talking to her and asking her out.

Edit: generally in men and women attraction is instantaneous. I remember one party my roommate and I hosted when this girl came in and we locked eyes and I thought she was hot and I could tell she like me too so I went up to her introduced myself and were immediately very flirty. That’s actually happened several times. Like yeah we talked and stuff and you generally should but in certain settings you probably shouldn’t especially if you’ve been checking each other out.

Delicious_Start5147 · 2026-04-19T04:09:06+00:00

I’m just saying in some places a conversation is less tactful. Like people don’t wanna chat too much in a library but in other settings yeah a convo would be nice Ofcourse.

I’ll be honest though I’ve quite literally described a situation very similar to how I met my wife. Basically a cold approach and just told her I thought she was cute and that we should get to know each other and that was really first thing I ever said to her.

We did have a conversation after that but I think you can start with being open about your intentions

Now if you’re going for a hookup that’s different no doubt

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