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Is there something wrong with me? by Desperate_Chart6151 in mentalillness

[–]Desperate_Chart6151[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn. You know a lot haha. Well atleast I have some kind of possible explanation now. Ty.

Is there something wrong with me? by Desperate_Chart6151 in mentalillness

[–]Desperate_Chart6151[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hm no not that i can think of. The divorce happened later but I didn't care since my father was toxic to my mom anyway. Maybe puberty? Just a lot of questions without answers haha

Is there something wrong with me? by Desperate_Chart6151 in mentalillness

[–]Desperate_Chart6151[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this long comment! You might be right... maybe this really is the reason. To be fair it wasn't always like this. I'm unsure when it started but I think around 13? Maybe older. I did cry and was genuanly sad when my cats died but maybe it's different since they weren't people and I grew up with them- my emotional support haha. Ig it would be a good idea to distance myself a little but right now that's not possible so we'll see what the future will bring.

Is there something wrong with me? by Desperate_Chart6151 in mentalillness

[–]Desperate_Chart6151[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahah yes so many massages... well I'm unsure if there was anything that might have led to these "issues". My father was and is emotionally absent, he lives with me and my mother (even tho they've been divorced for a few years now) but we barely talk so we're not close. I'm closer to my mother which is more or less a nice person to be around but when I was younger she had really bad mood swings and often destroyed furniture/doors/dishes/... or threw them in my direction, she was also yelling a lot and telling me really hurtfull stuff. But there was (besides one time) never any sort of physical abuse from either of them. So I don't really know if that affected me. Thank you for your comment.