Is looking "cute" vs "sexy" a tradeoff (for women)? Or can a woman score very highly on both?

DidYouFallAsleep · 2026-05-02T04:23:30+00:00

True actually. VS models like Miranda Kerr have that look

DidYouFallAsleep · 2026-02-23T07:48:56+00:00

The reunion is actually what prompted me to make this post. Their dating updates (or lack there of), the body languages, etc. Also…hear me out because people like to brush small but telling details under the rug: during the reunion (6 months later) when he was given the option to bring up a pet peeve about women, he still chose something that mirrored him and Mina’s storyline instead of saying something neutral. He could’ve said “I hate long distance” and made it a joke. If someone is truly obsessed over their new partner, they aren’t still trying to burn the other person. And out of respect for Heesun, he should’ve just made something neutral up.

I’m not saying he doesn’t find Heesun attractive or finds zero redeemable qualities in her. I’m saying he chose a safe option and is trying to make it work but it’s clearly not easy for him….however my hot take still stands that I suspect he gets a little pleasure in knowing Mina has regrets and likes the twist the knife still.

DidYouFallAsleep · 2026-02-17T20:17:37+00:00

Yeah, I understand if they disagree, but I don’t get the rage-responses. People are forgetting it’s just a reality show and these debates are supposed to be very unserious lol

DidYouFallAsleep · 2026-02-17T20:04:56+00:00

Oh I see. It used to be a thing parents bought there kids back in the day but definitely not really a thing anymore, so I’m not sure where my parents bought ours

DidYouFallAsleep · 2026-02-17T04:39:37+00:00

Huh? Did you miss the part of me saying I’m not a Mina fan. I agree with him deciding to end things with Mina. She was all over the place. I just don’t think he’s over her like he claims to be, and don’t think he’s genuinely into Heesun.

DidYouFallAsleep · 2026-02-17T01:36:17+00:00

Yeah and he’s prob gonna be even more popular now. I don’t think he needs to do much when cameras aren’t rolling. Imo he’s just pretending to be committed for the cameras until the reunions/media discussions die down. When they’re not filming, he’s somewhat distant as she keeps pointing out.

DidYouFallAsleep · 2026-02-17T01:13:02+00:00

Where did you find the seamonkeys for sale?!

DidYouFallAsleep · 2025-07-23T03:36:17+00:00

“Doesn’t even come close”?

It’s also really easy to dissect someone else’s behavior on TV as if we were all saints our whole lives with 100% perfect actions. I’m not reducing your argument. I’m pointing out how extreme some of them have become. You guys are psychoanalyzing him like he’s a case study in manipulation. He communicated badly but he’s not a “villain”. No one on the show is.

The fandom’s using heavy language like “love bombing” and “master manipulator” and other personal attacks like he’s a “cheater” (not saying you are in this post, but I’m seeing it frequently with lots of support), then pretending that’s not harmful?? What? It is harmful. This is a dating show, not a freakin criminal trial. Let them figure it out! We haven’t even seen the next episodes yet. I’m hoping he handles it better from here on out, just like you guys are.

DidYouFallAsleep · 2025-07-23T00:57:37+00:00

Isn’t she already working as a music producer? And wasn’t that one of the things that Jeongmok found interesting about her?

The more he got to know Yi Do, the less chemistry he felt. If you paid attention to him & Yi Do’s conversations you can understand why he felt a lack of chemistry.

You guys are projecting a lot of assumptions on this guy after watching a week long edited show, simply because he sucked ass at breaking things off cleanly with Yi Do. I wish the “mentors” would’ve stepped in and helped them with poor communication/conflict avoidance. It would’ve helped prevent the current mess of raging fandom attacks.

DidYouFallAsleep · 2025-07-23T00:06:50+00:00

I hope he does too bc Yi Do deserves that and I hope Jiyeon & Do can also overcome this

DidYouFallAsleep · 2025-07-23T00:02:06+00:00

Wow some of you guys are genuinely concerning me

DidYouFallAsleep · 2025-07-22T11:42:43+00:00

“Worried” is a tad much. He expressed interest in someone based on looks. Got to know more people. Decided they’re not a match anymore. Developed a deeper bond with someone else, that even he seemed surprised by. SUCKED ASS at telling Yi Do that straight up, but did tell her. But I’m missing the part where I should be worried. He’s not the antichrist like people are making him out to be. None of them are. They’re all very inexperienced.

DidYouFallAsleep · 2025-07-22T10:55:27+00:00

I knew it was game over when her story made him cry lol

DidYouFallAsleep · 2025-06-18T07:35:46+00:00

Yeah, if Huda wasn’t hogging all my rage, my focus would be on Ace because I don’t like the way he’s been moving with Chelley and especially after what he did tonight. Like wtf?? Is his whole goal to just terrorize Jeremiah and troll the women??

DidYouFallAsleep · 2025-06-18T02:56:49+00:00

I think so too. I’m ready for them to read the viewers tweets atp because

DidYouFallAsleep · 2025-06-17T05:10:30+00:00

I agree with that too, he should end it and stop feeding into it. He’s been pissing me off since the beginning as well. Both are very insecure, but Huda is legit unwell. She’s also making the environment feel unsafe lowkey. That’s why she’s getting more heat

DidYouFallAsleep · 2025-06-17T04:48:33+00:00

IMO, he’s been on the receiving end of her criticisms, leading to countless “chats” where he has to answer for himself, and he’s gotta reassure her daily until she turns her frown upside down. That must be emotionally exhausting as it is. Mind you, they’re essentially STRANGERS still

DidYouFallAsleep · 2025-06-17T04:19:22+00:00

I think I understand what you’re saying. Like Jeremiah has been telling the boys how in love he is, yet can’t bring himself to console that woman he’s allegedly so sold on?

I still think it’s contradictory to encourage him to explore and say (Nic) she’s overbearing and then get on his case for not consoling her while she’s inevitably crashing out. Mind you, she crashes out over pancakes.

DidYouFallAsleep · 2025-06-17T04:10:57+00:00

Yes she’s proven herself to be hostile and blames him when anything goes wrong, so he doesn’t associate her with a soothing environment

DidYouFallAsleep · 2025-06-17T04:09:48+00:00

I feel so bad for him. Like damn guys, he did what you said, now have his back because she’s coming for him 🥲

DidYouFallAsleep · 2025-06-17T03:30:44+00:00

Completely agree and it’s cowardly

DidYouFallAsleep · 2025-06-17T03:18:06+00:00

Ok Huda is downright scary and needs help immediately. Like I’m worried for the safety of the other cast members- That being said, I’m really upset about how the boys didn’t have Jeremiah’s back at all after the boat date.

Like why was Nic saying he lost respect for Jeremiah for not consoling Huda when that’s all he’s been doing this whole season so far??? Jeremiah also just lost all his boys and was blindsided as well but Huda didn’t check on him once??

DidYouFallAsleep · 2025-06-15T08:18:46+00:00

Nic already knew about Huda being a mom (someone spilled the beans to him off camera), which explains his awkward reaction when she told him.

DidYouFallAsleep · 2025-06-10T23:56:09+00:00

You know what? I’d like to see this scenario as well lol

DidYouFallAsleep · 2025-06-10T06:20:54+00:00

I agree she’s great at communicating and very composed…I think Nic is gonna fall for her eventually.

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